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Recently, a gay man online asked, “Who else prefers oral sex over anal sex?” His question drew dozens of responses and sparked an interesting conversation among men who’ve had enough experience to know what they like… and what they don’t. While anal sex tends to be more popular, this thread proved that oral sex can be just as—if not more—intimate, satisfying, and meaningful.
Anyway, one commenter wrote, “I really like getting sucked off. I prefer it to fucking. Love to see a guy on his knees working it.” For many guys, the visual aspect of oral sex is just as hot as the sensation itself. It’s intimate, vulnerable, and erotic without the same level of prep or commitment that anal sex often requires.
Another gay man added, “Oral all the way. I’d rather give though.” For these guys, the joy is in giving rather than receiving—enjoying the power and pleasure of pleasuring their partner, sometimes without expecting anything in return.
“Right here. You can have oral sex any damn time you want to without having to do the prep that must be done before anal sex. You cannot have completely spontaneous anal sex, but you sure can suck and/or get sucked whenever the mood strikes. And without worrying about any accidents happening,” another guy explained. It’s a point that hit home for many—oral sex offers ease, spontaneity, and a stress-free way to connect physically without turning it into a whole production.
Others shared what turned them on about oral sex like this one guy who confessed, “Guys who whimper while they’re sucking me drive me wild.” While another unapologetically declared, “Not me, total anal slut here.” It’s a good reminder that while oral sex is beloved by many, others still prefer anal sex.
Still, many agreed with the sentiment that “Amazing oral is better than amazing anal.” And some were just… over it. “Gonna be honest. Receiving oral bores me. Giving is kinda fun, but as foreplay and not the main event.”
One comment stood out in its vulnerability: “Me. Because honestly, I prefer being a top, but no bottom wants me, so I end up bottoming and I hate it. Nah, I’ll just stick to doing side. I enjoy sucking dicks anyway.” For some, oral becomes a favorite by circumstance, not just preference.
The truth is, preferences evolve. And while one kind of sex might dominate porn or pop culture, the things we actually crave in real life can be much more personal, practical, and specific.
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? Do you find oral sex more satisfying than anal? Do you see it as a main course or just a warm-up act? Have your tastes changed over time? We’d love to hear about your experiences, your turn-ons, and your thoughts. Drop a comment down below and let us know what gets you going.
Def. love anal. Oral does nothing for me.
Oral is a warm up or “side thing”. You can find satisfaction in it but for me I enjoy the main event anal!!
“We’d love to hear about your experiences, your turn-ons….”.
What a great job! One where you go to work and get paid to read porn! Sweet!!
I really enjoy the way it feels being fucked, to feel the dick inside of me is a wonderful feeling, and that unbelievable feeling you get when you cum hands free while getting fucked, when I’m with a man , I mostly all the time want to be fucked, that’s a big part of me being a bottom, But I also enjoy being on my knees licking and sucking a mans dick, especially if he’s a verbal alpha top, I love it when a man talk to me while fuckin me or while I’m sucking his dick , telling me… Read more »
I like giving and receiving both. It depends on my mood and how much time I have to prepare.
I Love Oral Sex – Especially Giving Deep Throat Head. Explore the Depth and the Volume of My Throat M2M. Pleaser Here But Reciprocation is Welcome. Oral is my Preferred Way To Cum and To Make Other Guys Cum.
I would have to say that I love both and in my opinion they both go hand and hand….I love kissing, licking, and sucking a cock until it gets hard and wet….sucking cock makes me precum so much and I love taking my precum rubbing it on my hole then scoop up more so I can rub it on the cock im sucking so I can use it as lube and get in whatever position the top wants me in so he can fuck me
I’m not wired for anal. There’s no physical pleasure in it personally for me. At best, a nice rubbing of anus and colon. Two of my FWBs enjoy topping me. The pleasure I get is working with each of them for the experience. I don’t “just lay there”. Rather, I’ll work with them as they thrust in and out. tightening my ass muscles alternately several times as thy thrust. I’ll also use my hips to thrust up against them along the way. I’ll work with them until they orgasm and lay next to me breathless. I very much enjoy oral.… Read more »
yo, mouth sex = hole sex…sex is sex regardless of where you put it a hole = hole