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Clayton Paterson is living proof that life gets better—and sexier—with age. At 66, the former lawyer, father, grandfather, and fitness model is redefining aging and also challenging stereotypes about what it means to be an openly gay man later in life.

For Paterson, coming out in 2015 at the age of 56 was a turning point in his life. He finally accepted who he really was after years of hiding it, and in doing so, he found a new lease on life. He underwent a physical as well as an emotional metamorphosis. He developed a figure that many men half his age would be envious of, demonstrating his dedication to fitness to the fullest. He was feeling empowered, confident, and free.

“I got much more serious about my gym time in my early fifties and then at fifty-nine, I decided to compete in physique competitions,” he previously shared with Daily Mail. “That’s when I really transformed my body into what you see today. But, while how I look is wonderful, the more important outcome is how I feel physically.”

Paterson’s dedication paid off, leading him to national bodybuilding competitions, where he placed impressively. Unlike many competitors, he achieved his results naturally, attributing his success to years of consistency, discipline, and clean living. “I often get asked if I’m on steroids or what supplements do, I take; I do none of those and my natural testosterone level is actually above the normal range. I attribute that to the fact that I have maintained my muscle tone.”

But perhaps his greatest flex? Finding love. Paterson has been in a committed relationship with his partner, Sheldon Joseph, for several years. The two share a love for fitness, travel, and living life to the fullest. Their joint Instagram account showcases their adventures together, from beach vacations to gym sessions that prove love and gains go hand in hand.

For Paterson, coming out later in life has allowed him to fully embrace love, relationships, and his place in the LGBTQ+ community. His four grown children—Jacob, Nathaniel, Anne, and Luke—have been supportive, proving that authenticity and self-love can strengthen family bonds rather than break them.

Now a sought-after fashion model, Paterson continues to make waves in the industry, often gracing campaigns for underwear and swimwear brands. Yet, despite his dapper looks and sculpted physique, he remains grounded. “If you let Mother Nature take her course, she’ll treat you well. You just can’t fool Mother Nature!” he quipped on his birthday post.

While aging is inevitable, Paterson proves that how we age is a choice. “Yes, I do need to monitor the hair in my ears, wonder where my readers are, do my anti-sciatica stretches, and my backflip rotation has slowed,” he humorously admitted. “But just know, it can be a wonderful time of life. We have the power to make it so.”

With his confidence, zest for life, and amazing physique, Paterson continues to inspire many, proving that it’s never too late to come out, reinvent yourself, and find happiness in every aspect of life.

Can’t get enough of Clayton Paterson? You can follow him on Instagram where he posts stunning beach photos, his fitness journey, and more. You can also follow his account with his partner Shel here. Please don’t forget to follow Adam4Adam on Instagram for more hotties like Shel and Clay!

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