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Valentine’s Day is often seen as a celebration of romantic love, but for those who are single, the day can feel, you know, isolating. However, being solo on Valentine’s isn’t a reason to feel left out—it’s an opportunity to focus on the most important relationship in your life: the one you have with yourself.
Self-love is about recognizing your worth, embracing who you are, and treating yourself with the same care and compassion you’d offer a partner. Valentine’s Day offers the perfect excuse to focus on your own happiness and indulge in activities that bring you joy.
Why not plan a day that’s all about you? Treat yourself to your favorite meal, whether it’s a home-cooked feast or takeout from that restaurant you love. Splurge on something special you’ve been eyeing—a new book, a cozy sweater, or even a sex toy from Adam4Adam’s Store. Remember, you don’t need anyone else’s permission to make yourself feel good.
You can also use Valentine’s as a chance to build traditions that celebrate your individuality. Have a solo movie night featuring LGBTQ+ romantic classics like Call Me By Your Name or Love, Simon. Or take the day to recharge: book a spa treatment, take a long bath, or simply enjoy a quiet evening with a glass of wine and your favorite playlist.
You can also give back. Volunteering at an LGBTQ+ center or donating to a cause close to your heart is a powerful way to channel love into the community. There are a lot of LGBTQ organizations out there like The Trevor Project, LGBTQ+ Freedom Fund, and The National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC). Remember that acts of kindness not only uplift others but also remind you of the difference you make in the world.
Being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t about what’s missing; it’s about appreciating what you have. Reflect on your accomplishments, your growth, and the people in your life who make it special. Reach out to friends for a virtual hangout or plan a Galentine’s or Palentine’s celebration with your chosen family.
Having said all that, how do you plan to spend Valentine’s Day solo, Adam4Adam blog readers? Share your ideas and tips with the Adam4Adam community in the comments section below!
Love Thine Self
After being in a 33 year relationship and alone for the13 following, if you don’t treat yourself with some kindness and self-love, nobody else will.
self-realization goes a long way towards comforting one’s self.
“but for those who are single, the day can feel, you know, isolating.”
The single Gay guys I know don’t feel that way. They’re not taken in by this Heterosexual Norm.
rightly worded single is not a death sentence we come into this world single and we go out of this world single if we are fortunately, we meet someone during the interim but someone always goes first so regardless of whatever relationship someone has had – is always left singular. the memories if good will give us the companionship and our brains will find alternate paths.