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Let’s face it: conversations about dick size are both a curiosity and a taboo topic within the gay community. The supposed average length globally is around 5.1 inches when erect, but if you ask anyone, it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more. So, what’s the truth? And more importantly, why does it matter so much?
In online forums like r/askgaybros, discussions about size often bring out humor, vulnerability, and pride. A gay man there asked, “Be totally honest, how big is your dick?” He added, “The average size is supposedly 5.1″, but practically everyone claims to be at least 7.”
One user admitted, “Six inches, but my softie is embarrassing,” highlighting how perception of size changes based on context. Another chimed in with, “I demand all pictures for verification purposes and proper reporting,” poking fun at some guys’ habit of exaggerating.
There’s also the honesty of those on the smaller side. One commenter shared, “A little over 4 inches hard. Apparently, a comfortable size for the bottoms I’ve met with. Still feel ashamed of it sometimes though, especially since I’m fat.” This perspective sheds light on how body image can amplify insecurities, even if others find no issue with it.
But then there are others who find humor in measurement discrepancies. As one user said, “Gay system I’m: 9 inches. Actual measurement system: 6 inches.” It raises the question of why we sometimes inflate our measurements—perhaps for validation or to meet societal expectations?
For many, confidence is the real measuring stick. A user stated, “Great to see so many guys happy with their dick, whatever they have! I love mine—average length, curved boner, hard to measure and to be honest, it’s a long time since I tried.” This perspective reminds us that owning what you have is far more appealing than fretting over a number.
So, why does size matter at all? It’s not just about comparison—it’s about identity, desirability, and self-worth. Whether you’re big, small, or average, understanding your own feelings about your size is crucial.
Adam4Adam readers, what about you? Be totally honest: how big is your dick? Do you embrace what you have, or do societal pressures make you feel differently? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Kind of annoying when you don’t put enough time between posts. Sometimes you’ll go days without and get lots of comments and sometimes you’ll do a post every 16 hours and never giving enough chance for comments to happen.
It’s a waste of your own time, if you don’t allow enough support of your own product to occur.
the realities of a free site you take what it gives you
No feedback at all doesn’t help them either.
A good 7 inches here
Nice
I swallow that sexy MAN-MEAT and give an accurate reading…
Yeah, but whose is it?
yo mama’s
the boy next door?
Just jealous because of the women that have a bigger clitoris than your micropecker?
I’ll take 2, please!
OMG..give me a SIX PACK!!!
you can feed me that beauty… again n again n again……
Perfect!!! Standard bearer dick.
Perfect…5 1/2”-7” is perfect for my manhole…love sucking dick for a lot of thick cum from micro dick to 7” is fine…super shooters, grrrrr! My profile is BiLust in Cleveland, Ohio…must be D/D free…gulp!
I’m about 7″ (really), but I don’t care about dick length. I’m more interested in thickness, especially the head. A nice mushroom head – even on a short dick – gets me going.
Me too. I have a fat mushroom head and I prefer that on my partner
I am ten inches erect, a total topman, have never owned a cock ring, and am seventy-one (although I do shave fifteen years off my age in my profile since I look younger than fifty-six and our community is ageist). I deliberately post pix that do not portray me fully erect. I do so to counter the size-liars. It substantially enhances matters when a new lover realizes that I am truly ten inches. It’s regrettable that dudes choose to lie because it says so much about their insecure mindsets. Some years ago, I conducted a private survey. I asked what… Read more »
why are so many guys with long dicks tops, when they should know they can hurt and injure their partner with it?
have you always been such a dumb ass?
from pain comes pleasure?
You don’t choose to be a top, you don’t choose to be gay. You could have chosen not to say something so ridiculous.
I want those 10 inches
Im 6” but it all about how you use it. Im a bottom. So i can tell you it aint the meat its yhe motion.
oh i agree, 6 is a good size IMHO, just right actually .. i’ve seen chokeable and throat damaging 10 or 11 inchers (in gay porn of course), sometimes i wonder how they get those huge ones up the ass without damaging one’s internal organs on the receiving end of it, honey?
To be honest, how exactly is the length of the penis measured. We all know where one end is, but the other is a bit murkier. All I can say is that based on the cocks I have seen, I am average. Also, my preferred cock to enjoy is my size or smaller. When giving head, I can get more of the cock into my mouth and for anal, I feel more certain that I can handle it. That being said, I do like the look of larger cocks.
I say measure the bottom, which is longer, and push that ruler right up against your scrotum…What’s pathetic is that all the guys with big ones are all over Sniffies.com because they are incapable of dating and relationships, it would seem.
Well, not everyone has a 4 incher Hennepin. Total Bottom you much always be.
Mother Hennepin’s micro pecker is smaller than a clitoris.
You are extremely judgmental, it would seem. Very bitter, it would seem
victim of excessive circumcision. the first time he whipped it out, the trick told him “I don’t smoke”
bitter party of 1 your room is ready, Bitter party of 1 …..
Is this a RHETORICAL question – do you HONESTLY HONESTLY expect A4A members to be upfront on that – let alone show a ‘handsome model’ nude pic and claiming it’s theirs(where they do just that in their profiles)? ‘it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more.’ – yep, already seen two posts here claiming that now but, yeah OK, I’ll play alone – AS LONG AS AN ELEPHANT’S TRUNK. 😛
Is it mine? I’m not telling.
8.5? It’s pretty awesome I wish it was either mine to play with all the time and show off or have it in front of me know and still play with! Lol
Yes, please!
If it is you, then forgive me, Father, for I am about to sin…
looks like three hands or more to wrestle that monster and possibly a hose in your throat if one is brave enuff to chuggitt down good, honey!
Does nothing for me!! Looks painful and dangerous to the bottom’s health. So thick, I could only suck the first 2 or three inches.
PRACTICE makes PERFECT, bro!!!! 🙂
It’s smallish. 5 at the most. I didn’t choose it, but it does what I need it to do. I prefer guys with smallish cocks. They make for great sucking, and they’re a perfect fit inside of me.
i’m 5 and 1/2 myself, it’s NOT small, honey
I totally agree i am 5.5 hard but a bottom and i also love the 4 to 7 inches perfect for oral and taking
When was it ever, ever taboo? It’s the main feature on any dating profile!
I’m a strong 7″ but with me being a 100% bottom, it doesn’t really matter with the tops that I lay with, most of the tops I lay with only interested in getting their dick sucked and going ball deep in my ass, so I only use it to cum with when with men,
Notice the writer didn’t volunteer his size…
Father, why don’t you just sit back and read for a change? You’ve had a comment for everyone who has replied. You need to get a life!
He has one. Runs a glory hole next to the homeless camp off 110th St. Face down, ass up
“Adam”, how hung are you, please?
If the world average is 5.1″ than I guess I am above average at around 6.5″ (which I always thought was just average). However… I will agree with one of the other posters and say that I prefer average dicks when it comes to the act of bottoming and maybe oral… Less possibility of pain and the average size lets a top go longer without causing me pain or bad friction. I also agree that the big ones are fun to look at and admire. I believe most people obsess with size is historically in our country people tended to… Read more »
I think guys have penis envy whether they are hung or not and it doesn’t matter if they bi gay or str8…. I think straight guys have the most penis event than anyone..know I do. If I see what I think is a perfect package it’s either one of 2 responses I either wish it mine or I wish I sucking it. Lol either way it’s important. Here’s mine – you guys tell me how big you think it is. Let see how close you can get. It doesn’t matter how big it actually is if you think is then… Read more »
my guess your actual size is 6″, or profile measurement of “It hangs to my knee” lol.
Just kidding. 6″ is my guess.
6.5 uc. Funny, only in these later years have a grown more comfortable in my own skin, including both my size and that I’m uncut. Probably because I’m a “grower”, and I just didn’t quite appreciate uncut as much as I do now.
My hands are 9inches, sz 15 feet; hard my dick is about 8 1/2 to 9, pretty evenly proportioned, period.
the width, depth and height of your brain?
is it true that guys with bigger than average feet will tend to have bigger cocks? (at least an 8?)
Not necessarily. I had a date/hook-up with a man that had sz 14ee’s, he was about 6’4, nice build, his dick must have been about 6inchs.
I had a bff that swore he could tell by the length of a man’s nose.
No. I can tell from my own experience as well as others.
I hooked up with a guy that was 6’8″ and had big feet and hands and wasn’t even 6″
Solid 6 here, and its the hardest substance known to mankind when hard. I can’t stand it when someone claims to be 7, 8, or 9 inches, you meet, and they’re only 5.5. Why lie like that?
They aren’t really lying, they’re just measuring from their butthole 🙂
I’m a curved 7 w/ a somewhat large head. My partner enjoys the size. Most guys I have been w/ take it ok orally but typically will not bottom for me.
“I’m a CURVED 7” .. sounds like you got the SLINKY effect, honey
I’ve never met a cock I couldn’t take balls deep. My ass is hungry.
i hope THIS does not generate a lot of negatives .. at first i was ashamed and embarrassed, but i just say it whenever, i’m 5 and 1/2 inches cut, but my cockHEAD makes up for the rest 😉 a cock is a cock, it is a beautiful thing, especially when you please the guy you’re with, with your cock, and know how to make you both feel happy, honey
This is a pic of me.
This is me flaccid.
And furry, too! gotta love that.
on a good day i am 8.5×6……most of my friends are big as me or bigger. I have one buddy 12×8…. what an awesome fucking cock…..
there is my standard 8.5×6
Laying on my back, I an 5.5” (6” if I push down the fat around it). Sitting in the car for a hand job, about 3”. When flaccid I sometimes haveto reach in to find the turtle head.
Lmao, you got me on that “if I push down the fat,” lmao!
Appreciate your comments, Darrell1. So used to seeing so many big ones in porn, it’s nice to know that I am not the only one reaching in to find it.
I am 8 1/2″
under 5in here
anyone care to guess my size?
First of all, I’m about 6 inches or so, uncut (European born). What got me laid in the US before I was married was being uncut more often than size. Most guys liked my non-American accent as well. Personally, I prefer smaller ones. They are less painful when I bottom (versatile here). Size queens, cheers for you if you desire and can accommodate a large one. My late husband (Vietnamese born) was about 5 inches, also uncut. We had a great sex life and a great marriage. Unfortunately cancer took him at age 45, much too soon.
While big ones are fun, if I had to pick between two guys, lets say one was 5-6″ uncut and the other was 9″ cut, I’d pick the uncut guy every time.
Really, the size question again? If I’m chatting with someone and the size question is one of the first things he asks, then that’s a real turn-off. If a person is so shallow that dick size is all they can chat about then keep on moving because it’s not going to happen here.
I legitimately have a micro-penis. 1/2 inch flaccid. When I was young, my hard on was 6 or even 6,5, but soft always microscopic. It’s something (else) I can blame on my mother who was an emotional, anxious, psychotic nut case and that, as far as anyone can tell, produced hormones that suppressed my dick growth. Thanks mom. It has caused me anxiety, frustration and…I’m sure..lost happiness opportunities all my life. Can’t get passed it. I’m partnered now with a loving man who honestly doesn’t give a crap — we’re both 70–and we have too many real medical picadillos to… Read more »
I can honestly say it’s an 8 incher. Honestly not as fun as one may think. I deal with a lot of teeth grazing my cock head while getting head. If a guy is super tight, I loose my boner if it takes too long for him to stretch out enough for me to actually thrust and hump him. Plus, unless a guy is really loose, I end up cumming from fucking an ass within 3-4 minutes. Pussy isn’t as tight and I can stay hard having sex with pussy for an hour with no problem. Guys have me cumming… Read more »
Yes I’m pretty much the same way, I can fuck women for almost a hour sometime, and women can suck on my dick for ever, I’ve only fucked one guy and I came in 2 minutes, I’m a 100 % bottom and I can cum hands Free within 5 minutes of getting fucked or having my ass ate, it be times when I’ve tried to hold it but I can’t, I cum so easily while getting fuck, it’s like it hard for me not to cum, that’s why I enjoy being a bottom, I can cum like crazy with minimal… Read more »
Sadly, a bit under 6 and tightly circumcised.
A hair under 6”.
Guess
Jesus Christ – your cock is HOT