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Let’s face it: conversations about dick size are both a curiosity and a taboo topic within the gay community. The supposed average length globally is around 5.1 inches when erect, but if you ask anyone, it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more. So, what’s the truth? And more importantly, why does it matter so much?
In online forums like r/askgaybros, discussions about size often bring out humor, vulnerability, and pride. A gay man there asked, “Be totally honest, how big is your dick?” He added, “The average size is supposedly 5.1″, but practically everyone claims to be at least 7.”
One user admitted, “Six inches, but my softie is embarrassing,” highlighting how perception of size changes based on context. Another chimed in with, “I demand all pictures for verification purposes and proper reporting,” poking fun at some guys’ habit of exaggerating.
There’s also the honesty of those on the smaller side. One commenter shared, “A little over 4 inches hard. Apparently, a comfortable size for the bottoms I’ve met with. Still feel ashamed of it sometimes though, especially since I’m fat.” This perspective sheds light on how body image can amplify insecurities, even if others find no issue with it.
But then there are others who find humor in measurement discrepancies. As one user said, “Gay system I’m: 9 inches. Actual measurement system: 6 inches.” It raises the question of why we sometimes inflate our measurements—perhaps for validation or to meet societal expectations?
For many, confidence is the real measuring stick. A user stated, “Great to see so many guys happy with their dick, whatever they have! I love mine—average length, curved boner, hard to measure and to be honest, it’s a long time since I tried.” This perspective reminds us that owning what you have is far more appealing than fretting over a number.
So, why does size matter at all? It’s not just about comparison—it’s about identity, desirability, and self-worth. Whether you’re big, small, or average, understanding your own feelings about your size is crucial.
Adam4Adam readers, what about you? Be totally honest: how big is your dick? Do you embrace what you have, or do societal pressures make you feel differently? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Kind of annoying when you don’t put enough time between posts. Sometimes you’ll go days without and get lots of comments and sometimes you’ll do a post every 16 hours and never giving enough chance for comments to happen.
It’s a waste of your own time, if you don’t allow enough support of your own product to occur.
A good 7 inches here
Nice
I swallow that sexy MAN-MEAT and give an accurate reading…
I’m about 7″ (really), but I don’t care about dick length. I’m more interested in thickness, especially the head. A nice mushroom head – even on a short dick – gets me going.
I am ten inches erect, a total topman, have never owned a cock ring, and am seventy-one (although I do shave fifteen years off my age in my profile since I look younger than fifty-six and our community is ageist). I deliberately post pix that do not portray me fully erect. I do so to counter the size-liars. It substantially enhances matters when a new lover realizes that I am truly ten inches. It’s regrettable that dudes choose to lie because it says so much about their insecure mindsets. Some years ago, I conducted a private survey. I asked what… Read more »
Im 6” but it all about how you use it. Im a bottom. So i can tell you it aint the meat its yhe motion.
To be honest, how exactly is the length of the penis measured. We all know where one end is, but the other is a bit murkier. All I can say is that based on the cocks I have seen, I am average. Also, my preferred cock to enjoy is my size or smaller. When giving head, I can get more of the cock into my mouth and for anal, I feel more certain that I can handle it. That being said, I do like the look of larger cocks.
Is this a RHETORICAL question – do you HONESTLY HONESTLY expect A4A members to be upfront on that – let alone show a ‘handsome model’ nude pic and claiming it’s theirs(where they do just that in their profiles)? ‘it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more.’ – yep, already seen two posts here claiming that now but, yeah OK, I’ll play alone – AS LONG AS AN ELEPHANT’S TRUNK. 😛