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Sex and intimacy are hot topics not only here on Adam4Adam blog but also in other gay communities online. Often, it sparks discussions about everything from romantic gestures to steamy encounters. One such recent discussion among gay men on Reddit’s r/askgaybros tackled a seemingly simple yet polarizing question: “Do you like the kiss after a blowjob?” Responses ranged from enthusiastic “yes” votes to ambivalent “meh,” with others thinking it’s too intimate and too personal.

The topic brings to light the nuances of post-sexual interaction. A kiss after a blowjob could symbolize affection, a shared connection, or quite simply the continuation of intimacy, a natural thing. For others, it might not be a big deal—or even desirable.

Here’s what some gay men had to say about the matter:

One user summed up their feelings succinctly: “I deserve a kiss after putting in the effort on my knees to bring you to orgasm.” This highlights the appreciation many feel for reciprocity and acknowledgment after putting in the work during oral sex.

Others brought humor to the debate. One man joked, “I read on the internet that will make you gay.” While tongue-in-cheek, this comment speaks to lingering cultural jokes and stereotypes around sexual behaviors in the LGBTQ+ space.

Some users emphasized the importance of other forms of intimacy after sex. “I don’t care…at all 🤷🏼‍♂️ but I like to cuddle after sex so there will be kissing,” said another gay man, showcasing that cuddling and kissing often go hand-in-hand as part of post-sex closeness.

A bold comment came from a user who stated, “I’ll kiss after they ate my ass too or swallowed my cum. Don’t really care.” For some, bodily fluids are part of the experience, and the kiss represents comfort with their partner rather than something to avoid.

Not everyone was enthusiastic about the kiss post-blowjob, but they were open to their partner’s preference. “Nah, but if you just blew me, I probably like you a lot, so if you want a kiss, who am I to say no lol,” said one user, showing flexibility in personal boundaries.

Then there’s the allure of what some called “dick breath.” “Dick breath hits different. Absolutely I do,” shared one commenter, demonstrating how attraction can transcend conventionally undesirable odors.

And for those into kinkier dynamics, one man confessed: “Love cum swapping! So hot!!” This highlights how post-BJ kisses can sometimes take intimacy to even steamier levels.

What about you? Do you enjoy a kiss after a blowjob? Is it a sweet sign of affection, or do you prefer to skip the post-oral embrace? How do you feel about other post-sex gestures like cuddling or pillow talk? Share your experiences and preferences below—we’d love to hear your thoughts!

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