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How far are you willing to go for sex?
Sex can lead us to do some pretty unexpected things, which often leads to embarrassing moments and awkward encounters. It’s a topic that often elicits a mix of curiosity, amusement, and perhaps a touch of discomfort. Yet, exploring these experiences can offer insights into our desires, vulnerabilities, and the lengths we’re willing to go for sex.
Anyway, a number of gay men on Reddit found themselves sharing their own stories after one gay man asked, “To what embarrassing lengths have you gone for sex?” He then shared, “Found myself douching in the office bathroom today because I was going to a hookup straight from work. I was like: ‘Wow. How did we get here?’” Further, he asked, “What ridiculous or mortifying things have you done just to get some dick or some ass? Tell me your stories!”
One guy responded, “Traveled six hours across Japan on local trains from Tokyo to Nagoya on just a vague possibility of sex. Didn’t even transpire in the end.” While another revealed, “In my 20s, while I was in college and still living in Alaska, I drove across down on some super treacherous roads for a hookup without winter tires on my car (I didn’t really leave town 99% of the time, and stupidly decided I didn’t need them). My car ended up sliding backwards in his steep driveway, and got caught on a tree stump.” He added, “The sex was okay, but he was not happy that I had to stay the night to wait for a towing service to open.”
Meanwhile, one guy confessed, “I was staying with my family on vacation and couldn’t even douche in the house because it was super late at night (couldn’t even shower) so I filled up my bulb, then held the water in until I went outside to push it out in the woods. I felt like such an animal.”
Further, one guy shared, “I was on holiday in Belize and got speaking to someone across the border in Guatemala, so literally travelled across the border to try to get some dick.” He added, “+Didn’t end up meeting him either because I lost phone signal and halfway through was like ‘this is fucking stupid.’”
These stories goes to show that the pursuit of sex can sometimes push us beyond our comfort zones and into situations we never imagined. And yet, it’s these moments of vulnerability and embarrassment that remind us of our humanity and the complexities of desire. Whether humorous or cringe-worthy, these experiences often leave lasting impressions, shaping our understanding of intimacy and the lengths we’re willing to go for it.
What about you, guys? What’s your story? Share it with us in the comments section down below!
OMG! I’ve seen some really low-brow shit go done by those from some really respectable backgrounds, disgusting, the desperateness of it all.
Lamar:
Filth
is
rejuvenating –
and
rejuvenates!
Pigs have their “Pig Pens” –
where
they can roll around
in
the filth!
Gay Brethren
create
their own
“Pig Pens”
and
they can roll around in their own filth!
Kink
becomes a Necessity –
and
Necessity breeds Creation!
It’s
not
fertilizer.
Filth can, sometimes, be an “aphrodisiac”!
Soap & Water remove it –
until
the Next Time –
for
Another, repeat performance!
I once dressed up as my Ex-wife….in her lingerie and everything, just so she could take the merciless assfucking I always thought she deserved after the merciless divorce was finalized.
I had the Top pretend he was my lawyer….since I felt he had screwed me anyway.
A rewarding Scenario!
Revenge comes to those who wait their turn!
Better late than never!
“Awkward” is the key word here: One time I hooked up with a guy I met on a4a and went to his house and we had a pretty hot experience. As we left his bedroom and into his living room, there was this other guy sitting there, seemingly waiting almost akin to a doctor’s waiting room. Turned out, this guy had set up another hookup with him to follow the one with me. Next customer! Another time, I went to this gay couple’s house for a 3some. I must have not been their type or something because although we did… Read more »
At least they didn’t close the door in your face upon first sight. Doesn’t come much ruder of classless than that!
Even if I’m “not feeling it” with a guy when we first meet, I’ll make sure he’s “taken care of”. These guys did that. Wonder how it went with Mr. Next.
No clue, but I’d venture to guess they went a lot farther with him.
Reminds me of the time I was to “meet up” with a guy an hr. away. On the day, I called telling him I was leaving & roughly when I’ld be there. Called when I got to town. Called when I had just parked in the appt. complex. Walked to his unit & knocked on the door. He answered & said “I was just heading to the gym.” HOW do you plan to meet, get 3 phone calls with my location, & to my face say you are leaving? I didn’t want to cause a scene & knew to be… Read more »
If you have to do embarrassing shit, you’re fucking desperate. It’s a fuck. If it’s not easy just fucking jack off!
A Taunt reply!
Signed up on Adam4Adam
The whole topic just gives more credence to the saying “a hard cock has no conscience.”
Wow! That is verbatim, what my mother use to say, many times.
Men will do just about anything for sex, no matter how unwise the doing may be. Doesn’t matter if they’re Gay or Straight.
I’ve driven 35 miles to home in a raging, blinding thunder storm. The meeting went well and turned out to be a repeat bud. But the drive could have been deadly.
I just don’t think, that the inevitable, requires such.
EVERYBODY finds sex, it’s all in how you get it. I’ve NEVER compromised myself respect.
I repeat, “I’ve seen many people,” some I was friends with; do some pretty self-disrespecting things for sex. . . in ‘their’ end, obviously, it caught up with them, unfortunately.
The ones who complain later in life they “just can’t find a good man” and end up old, alone and bitter.
I have fucked 8,000 hot men. But still I have been married for 30 years to an attractive and very nice man with PhD and millions in assets. I guess those other guys can’t find a good man because I’ve got him….
Are those hot men in the room with us now, Clyde?
Sadly…. no.
Clyde… why do you feel it necessary to tell us that same story over and over?
To give some hope to the underprivileged and happiness challenged. Too much misery porn is not healthy. I like to inspire people to create a good life, not a sad victimized one. You are the captain of your own life, don’t sail it into the shoals …
HOW does it give people “hope” having you say you’ve slept with thousands of people while being married to a rich, educated, attractive man for 30 years?
Some of us can’t even meet people for coffee!
How greedy and selfish of you.
8,000 men? Yea that is believable…what a hilarious and lying narcissist…
Wow, do YOU honestly, realize, I’m watching people down here fuck their brains out. . . but guess what, they’re still fucking lonely, don’t give me that shit, man, that’s illusion, which many suffer from, sex, is NOT love, ok, it’s what I’d rather be doing in “reality” loving not serial sexing, thanks for your input. I read in the gay papers, over 10yrs ago, “53% of the gay men in soflo, over the age of 50 are HIV+ . . . please keep in mind, these are the documented ones, only. That means, there’s more that are ‘not’ documented.… Read more »
For me, these days it’s date, first (guys here, are just “hooking up”-10-2- mins, lol) if things “click” then we masturbate and kiss, lots.
If, these safety measures are not to their liking, then whatever, man. I do, have a small group of guys whom “get it” ’cause these people are just looking for dummies or victims these days down here.
I’m just NOT going for this bullshit down here, they can’t even hold a conversation, intelligent people, end up lonely, too, until they find each other.
There just is not a lot of that down here, either.
This isn’t about me but rather my cousin. I am involved though. My mom had taken my aunt n her husband to hospital in the next city. My cousin she assigned sleeping arrangements. So I, my brother n my cousin wound up in king size bed. I’ve always slept on my left side so I had my ass towards my cousin. Halfway thru the night I felt my underwear being pulled down n his dick slide into me. I couldn’t moan as he went in. He just left it on me till he shot his load. Why would you risk… Read more »
HOW ON GODS GREEN EARTH ….DID HE “JUST SLIDE INTO YOU” WITH AND LUBE…..DIRECT ANGLE……PREPPING OR LOOSENING YOU UP….PAIN ON YOUR PART ETC?? ANOTHER MADE UP STORY! I SHOCKED YOU DIDN;T SAY “HE WAS %100 PERCENT STR8” ….LOL
There are only 3 men on this entire planet that are…100% straight. The other 4 billion are “curious”.
Chalk it up to being young and horny AF… . He checked my profile daily and never spoke so i engaged him instead. He lived not far from me and after sending him picks of my beefy raw man booty, he asked me to come by. Half way there i asked for a pic. He was a nice guy but not a looker as defined by american social standards of male attractiveness. It turned me on as it usually does to givey ass to a less than desirable (by a.s..s.m.a.) especially if hes confident. And a big ass dick dominant… Read more »
Get a shovel it’s getting deep!
I stared at a hot latino man at a outdoor restaurant in Hawaii, when I was on vacation. He was alone, which Is why I could get away with starring (never do this when a guy is with other people). He seemed mildly annoyed, but I just kept on starring. I finally was done eating and he did not give me any positive sign of interest, I just up and left. But he followed me down the sidewalk (interested straight identified guys will wait till you leave and then follow you, I know how this plays out, as I’ve done… Read more »
It makes me angry that people will shame gay men and men in general for their obvious sex drives. If we want it, we’ll find it. Maybe they’ll bend over, maybe we will. Maybe it’s a fast cocksuck, handjob, whatever. There is no shame in sex– that’s in the mind. There are boundaries to respect, and consent to give. Once the boundaries are known, and consent given, have a nice squirt– or more!! Whether it’s your husband of twenty years, or the guy in a restaurant, if you want to be promiscuous, know your boundaries, partner safety, and fuck like… Read more »
I find shame in theocracy. Sex is real and the result of billions of years of evolution. Theocracy is fake and manufactured to control and exploit people. Theocracy is evil and sex is good. Simple as that.
A few years back I was running errands a few towns over and so I check my hookup app mostly to distract my self. So a hot 20 y/o pool boy lad type just down the street hits me up. (Mind you I was 38 at the time.) He sends nudes right away and let me know he meant business right from the jump. Yeah I’ll admit I followed instinct and ignored my better judgement here. He was hot and a lot of fun. He was just looking to ride some dick so everything else was icing on the cake.… Read more »
How far away were the towns as you said your hair was still wet when you got home?
30 minute drive
I live on Oahu and tool a flight to The Big Islans ( Kona) It was totally worth it. We fucked the entire weekend. Very hot and not disappointed
Exposing myself on Adam4Adam, Grindr, and just about every other website I can join or was not banned from.
details are fuzzy, but I was out on a school night for some reason, and a beautiful young Mexican man with a very large dick was waving it around in a gay bar bathroom. I quickly closed the deal, he was a working tourist, staying with his co-workers in N. Kentucky. somehow we found our way back to the apt. he shared with MANY co-workers. we apparently did the deed to his satisfaction, and at some point I was asked to leave via the window (first floor thankfully) I did, and we dated for weeks, then his work got extended… Read more »
I was 18, he was 60. I had a rough child hood, and at some point, I found my way to some gay internet chat sites. One in particular was called “tubebear”. It let you broadcast your own webcam, and have a chat room where viewers could talk to you and each other… Ended up posting my self online and showing my webcam to older hairy gay men. After a while, I met a 60-year-old, gray haired, 280lbs man who lived with his two ex partners.(With the 2 ex partners still being in a relationship with each other.) After talking… Read more »
Because I’m married (woman) I don’t play in my home town,,,,I met a guy and 1 drove for four hours to get fucked,, and I stop at a adult store to get some crotchless panties a the guy wanted to see me in and some lube,, I also stopped at a Dollar General store to get a douch,, and it was well worth it,,got fucked on and off for three hours,,,