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We talked about how we often received (unsolicited) dick pics in the past, but what about ass pics, guys? How often do you receive the latter and which do you prefer between the two? Also, have you ever wondered which one of the two most gay men prefers?
If so, you’re not alone in this regard as this man recently asked on askgaybros:
Recently I’ve been just a bit curious. I’ve been talking to this guy and things got heated, I sent him an ass pic and haven’t heard from him again.
I know my ass looks good, but I don’t know if maybe that’s a turn-off for gay guys and they prefer a dick pic? I know women hate dick pics so that’s why I thought maybe an ass pic would be better.
This sounds stupid and like I should talk to him, but I’m kind of embarrassed, to be honest, and I’d just like to know just in case I sext with a guy in the future. Although this experience has made me stick to the straight side out of embarrassment.
Anyway, as with all things in life, the answers of gay readers to this question varied. One gay man replied, “Don’t show me your ass or your dick. Show me your heart.” He added, “But also both.”
Hah, hilarious but true, isn’t it?
“I’m a top by preference but cocks are my fave, so dick pics. The butt is fine but doesn’t do much for me unless it’s a really nice ass,” another guy confessed, emphasizing, “I hate hole pics though.”
Meanwhile, one guy confessed, “I’m the opposite of you. I’m far more of a bottom, but cock pics don’t do that much for me unless it’s really pretty and I already like the guy/convo. But ass pics? I love a nice fat ass, love jocks, it’s all so sexy to me.”
What about you, guys? Which do you love sending or receiving? A dick pic or an ass shot? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
As a Top I only care to see ass pics… So when I get a dick pic depending on how old and out of shape the person is I will block them or warned them not to send that to me again.
no ass, just dick please, as the late Vanity once said “i want 7 inches or more”, honey!
Cock pics, hands down. As a bottom, I fucking love cock. Now, if a guy has a great ass, I can appreciate taking a good look. However, so many guys like to send a pic that includes their nasty hole, in which I have seen gaping Grand Canyon like holes, holes that look dirty, and dingleberries. Fucking nasty, guys. With cock pics… I see what I get to suck on and play with, and what’s going to be leaving a balls deep load inside. I happen to be one of the weirdos that also loves to see soft cock pics,… Read more »
I love the feel of a flaccid cock getting hard in my mouth!
Especially when the guy is uncut, and you run your tongue between his head and foreskin… there is nothing hotter!
grower notta shower, PERFECTO, honey!
I 100% agree. I am vers top so I enjoy both. I love a hot cock pic with a hard shaft, veins (but not too many), mushroom head, slight curve and nice shaped balls. I also like a nice ass picture, soft curve, bubble shaped, smooth. What I don’t like is big giant butthole pictures. I never want see your dirty butthole, ragged out butthole, discolored butthole, something seeping out your butthole, your hemorrhoids, a cave so big you could drive a train through it, your butthole lips so inflamed because you took on every body around the block. That… Read more »
mmmmmm fuck yes, 7 inches or more please, real pics of it, no photoshoppers!
Here is the reality of either receiving a “Dick Pic” or an “Ass Pic”:
You cannot verify its source?
Either it is a fake taken from somewhere on the internet –
or
it is a dick pic or an ass pic taken when the sender was either much younger or in
better shape or both?
either way –
useless as –
“Tits-On-A-Nun”!
Then –
of course –
it just might be that someone is into trading porn shot and not
intending a meeting!
Kasper remains “Nonplussed”!
Good point! I could send dick or ass pix from hot models or celebrities that are much more attractive than myself! Catfishing!
That is not the topic of the conversation.
Ignore her. Obviously Father Hennipen’s other profile to make terrible comments.
Depends on the mood for me. If I am stimulated already by my partner, pics of my partner are a good appetizer of things to come (sp?). However, I have to feel pretty carnal/horny for pics to catch my attention otherwise. I might even feel like someone is trying to take advantage of my natural visual fixation on the male anatomy to get me to have sex with them; not necessarily well received. Note that browsing profiles is quite different; I appreciate some transparency into what a guy looks like. I get the biggest chuckle out of guys who send… Read more »
I suppose it is also good to qualify the pic interest on pic content here; an appealing dick pic is of one that is clean and hard! Similarly, an ass pic is of one that is clean and round-rump (less about the hole than the whole)!
Why doesn’t the OP just text the man? Ask if he got the picture and acknowledge that they probably should have discussed exchanging pictures first, but “I was enjoying chatting and got caught up in the moment.” Otherwise, I’m fine with receiving pictures anytime I start chatting with someone new. It seems sensible to me that they’d be sent after getting to know each other a bit after some general discussion about who we are, what we’re looking for, what we have to offer. Not sent immediately and not large in number. Guys who do that for me come across… Read more »
Preferably [for me] both are good and bad. It usually depends on my mood of the day/night. Sometimes I don’t want or need to see either – unless I’m in my ‘Horny-Mode’ and looking for something within the next hour(s) or day(s). Sometimes it can be hughly annoying when a guy just out of the blue sends you his cock &/or ass pics, especially when you never asked to see them or as his opening message to you – which usually has me hunchin’ up my eyebrows like “and??”. lol Also annoying when they do that and immediately epect you… Read more »
Yes, please. But do not ever send me a pic of your piehole.
I like to see both. I prefer a guy send me a dick pic to see what I will be sucking on.
After thinking about this a little more, I like getting ass pics and if it has a good shot of the asshole that is fine too. Rimming a good hole just adds to the experience and if he is rimming me I am more ready to be penetrated.
I like receive ass and dick pictures equally. Dick don’t have to be hard. I always send dick pictures because I don’t know how to take a good one of my ass.
Simple answer; I want both, preferably with most of the torso included.
I agree. I like pics of both but also prefer to see the guy’s body. Closeups of holes and dicks generally mean they have something to hide.
I am a bottom…..i’m pretty much turned off by butt pics. I do love a pic of a nice dick though. More importantly, being Demisexual….i have to be attracted to the guy for there to be any desire…..so there’s that.
I look at it from a practical point of view. I am a bottom looking for a top. Therefore I am offering my ass and looking for a cock. I don’t have much interest in his ass and I’m not sure if he is interested in my cock. Based on what I am looking for, I like to get dick pics and send ass pics.
I don’t want either; if they’re in the first message from someone, it’s an instant block. A pic of visible abs would catch my attention, but that’s too much to expect from real people. 🙂
I love dick pics but I prefer to wait and chat for a few. Then send both add and cock. Just me but prefer cock shots.
I like cock pics and visualize him sliding down my throat and squirting his juicy load!!
R.I.P O’Shae Sibley
So true, Bklyn has gone “Crooklyn,” again. R.I.P O’Shae.
His death makes my heart ache. There are no words to express the total madness of his end. I’m a queer and homo and burst out in my queerness because it’s who I am. We all should, and be free from some crazy man’s knife and fear.
Didn’t know who he was but checked into the story. No excuse for his death, at all. I’d place big money that it was a gang initiation challenge gone horribly wrong, The 17 year old who has surrendered to police could well have been a gang member wanna be who was told to “go find someone to taunt.” Or just homophobic. The taunting escalated and O’Shea’s group challenged it until the perpetrator feared for himself and a stabbing ensured. The behavior of group (shirtless public gay dancing) just prior to the stabbing was certainly their right and no excuse for… Read more »
You may be right. It hurt me to my core. It could happen to any of us. They were dancing, having fun bothering no one. I just wished they hadn’t went back after the first confrontation…
I like married straight men that want to show me thier cocks and that want to see my ass
What is the point of sending or receiving pics?
Is it revelations or amusements?
Either the pics come from the internet
or
from the senders of their yesteryears when they were young, hung and full-of-cum?
Hence, they are not usually true indices of what either look like [and if on a sex site],they should
serve their
purpose – truthfully?
Kasper remains “Nonplussed”!
Kasper remains LOST…
Kasper remains a raging dildo
As an oral top, I want to see a cock pic! I really prefer mutual oral and I want to see what I am going to have in my mouth and enjoying. I also prefer the cock be hard. A very nice ass pic is a turn-on but I do not like to see their hole! I also like to see them trimmed/shaved around their cock!!
I am a Top Man but get bored with Guys sending only Ass Pics like that is all I care about & it should automatically turn me ON. Very Oral here. I like to Suck. Size does not matter. So I prefer to see Dick Pics.1 – 2 Ass Pics are okay … if other parts of the body are also shown.
As a top I like ass pics, if it is the whole butt. I have blocked Gus because they send pics of their holes. Huge turn off. But a nice dick pic is also good to receive. Im an oral top. My first message to a guy is words. I like the same.
Definitely want to see the ass pic!! Need to know how phat that ass is and how much ground to pound!!
It is hot to see a pic of dick sliding into an ass too!
I love a hairy dick.. that’s the biggest turn on for me.. a man with a big hard on and hairy .. makes me weak to my knees..I never could understand why guys shave it off.. when we’re young, could not wait to get hair.
I am a very pleasant, very respectful, sexually selfish topman. I am VERY clear about this. I am exceptionally massive – and am only into receiving head from online contacts. I am also very clear about ass pix: Do NOT send them. I ignore dick pix and never understand why dudes send them – because my username makes it clear that I am not interested in a potential partner’s phallus.
You sound like the most boring person to be with sexually.
He’s exactly the kind of guy some of our brethren seek. Read profiles. Many A4A guys want dominant, self-serving tops.They bottom for and neither demand nor expect anything from the Tops. They are satisfied with whatever the Tops do or don’t do to them.
Exactly, Hunter0500, read profiles…. Some are incapable of appreciating honesty and, apparently, were never taught to accept the word “no”. I wish them well – and avoid them like the plague.
As an oral top I much prefer a dick pic over an ass shot. I want to see what I’m going to be sucking on and milking a sweet load out of.
I am a real “ass-loving man” (and really love a hairy one)…that’s my fav. Love to rim an ass for hours. The longer I rim..the harder I get.
I don’t care for either. I’m prefer the whole body and face. Helps to know to a face that’s attached to both.
I like to see what the whole man looks like I am a ass man but also likes to suck cock I went out with a guy once was a hot looking man but when he took off his cloths his dick was bent so bad it looked like a paper clip
That is a medical condition. Fortunately, not something I was born with. It is something your hot looking man was born with, however. Hopefully, you didn’t scream at him and run away like a little girl frighted by a spider or a snake. Google “Bent penis” for details. And decide a more appropriate reference than “paper clip” should you discuss the topic in the future. Some of my best sex experiences have come with guys who are not straight, meaning they have curved penises. Some of my worst, have come with guys who a hot looking, have penises hard and… Read more »
My best friend have a slightly “bent/curved penis”. He was ashame of it for years. His wife and women he’s been with before his wife loves it. He said he can hit spots other guys can’t hit. I hope Bill didn’t overreact as well.
All I can say you had to be there
Sounds like you will take on anything or you have something to hide
As a bottom, I love and admire dick pics. Not into ass what so ever. I want to see what I will be eating and feeling. It’s about the offer to me. I don’t show too many ass pics unless it’s a request. I do show my dick/clit locked up so he knows in advance where I am with submission
I love dick pics. I imagine how good they would feel inside me.
I am mostly bottom, so I want to see what he’s packing, preferably shaved and hard. And if he’s dribbling precum, my mouth starts watering! I also like a good smooth ass, not too close up, I’ll wait until I’m rubbing it to get the details.
The prepubescent look… No, just no.
As a bottom I love seeing cock pics. I want to see what is going in me! If a guy wants to see what he will be fucking I will send him a pic of my ass. But definitely prefer cock pics and seeing all those beautiful cocks!
I’m a versatile top with a healthy appreciation for being fucked with a handsome hard dick. My ‘nudes’ album numbers mostly with pics of cocks. Hairy asses appeal to me because my foreplay involves a lot of rimming, so there are also a large sampling of cracks and holes. Hairy cracks and holes turn me on the most. They get my tongue action before, during and after I’ve run my cock inside those sweet guys’ asses. I rarely feminize a guy’s wondrous ass! I’m queer for men!! The more masculine, i.e. hairy, the more horn dog they’ll get from me… Read more »
I am versatile I prefer to see a nice shaved package. If it’s too hairy then regardless of how the conversion goes I’m lose interest if it’s too hairy.
As a bottom, I like to see cocks, uncut and veiny I like most. But I also like to send out pics of my dick. I don’t have any of my ass.
I’m a top only I like the ass pics especially cute little tiny boy toy types
I rather see pics of suckin and fuckin
I’m a cock sucking top so both pics are fine with me
Personally, as and oral sub, I love getting dick pics! Dicks although varied in size and texture are all quite yummy looking, at least to me.
An ass, on the other hand, is vastly different. I, for one, only like smooth, tight asses both for rimming and fucking. Although pubic hair is okay with me, I’m not crazy about shaved crotch but the opposite goes for ass.
Actually, I could live without either. I do know a pic of someones ass propped up and open like a thanksgiving turkey about to be stuffed; makes giggle. It doesn’t turn me on though. If I had to choose one it would have to be dick.
I love to see a cock pic. I love to fantasize about feeling that cock in my mouth as it explodes. But if you send me an ass pic, I’m dreaming about how it feels, how it smells, how it tastes, so send me both!
. . . I say, “let’s have it all” head to toe, if you’re going to show me something; naturally, the way you’d see each other at a nude beach, but without the shades, of course. I’m a pig like that; at a big buffet and I want some of it all!
Neither, it is the same thing as someone sending you a picture of a gift to see before you unwrap it.
I like to receive both, but I like pics of butts when the guy is standing, not bent over. I have both on my profile – you never know someone else might like, and I can use both.
DICK PIC PLEASE
sending and receiving
DICK PIC PLEASE
cuz i love that feeling
DICK PIC PLEASE
of complete horniness
DICK PIC PLEASE
make me a total bitch
DICK PIC PLEASE
i’m beggin on my knees for a
DICK PIC PLEASE
I just love seeing all the dicks out there. The shapes, sizes, soft and hard. They are all so fascinating to me!!!
I only send the text if I know them well enough Only at the person requesting a pic of private parts. Some guys what to see the rectal cavity. If they are completely opened to share such pic.
Well if you are sending out an ass pic chances are you are a big bottom and for some that’s a turnoff. Half the guys today can’t get it up anyway, so the dick pic is usually when they were 20 years old and hard as a rock. Whatever happened to being surprised and not knowing what you are getting that’s exciting. Pre internet.
I don’t care for ass pics and I only like dick pics that are shaved or neatly trimmed
I’m a VERY kinky bottom versatile. A nice shaved body with a gaped hairless hole gets my loins stirring!! And if it loaded with cum….