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We watch porn for, what else but to arouse ourselves and for sexual pleasure. But no porn movie is ever perfect and what if, instead of becoming aroused while watching, it does the exact opposite?
We’re bringing this up because the gay men on Reddit have asked this question: when it comes to watching porn, what do you find a turn-off, guys? We’ve listed below some of the things they said they disliked:
- Over the top fake moaning. User _Lelixandre_ said, “Overdone moaning from the bottom, especially the obligatory dramatic ‘oh shit!’ and ‘aahhh FFFFAAAAAAHCK!’ that has to appear in almost every porn video ever. Cringe.”
- Uncomfortably young-looking guys. The same user above added, “Hot tops fucking underage-looking boys. Just no.” It’s a sentiment shared by other readers on the thread.
- Use of Illegal drugs. User throwawayy10p revealed, “It grosses me out to see people snort coke or smoke meth.”
- Incest. User Cute_masculine said that incest, or having sex with one’s dad or brother or relatives, is a big no-no.
- Lazy tops. According to user SortOfArbitrary, “I can’t project myself onto a top that just sits there. Fuck the bitch like you’re supposed to.”
- Lazy bottoms. Chao_Guy shared, “Bottoms that just lay there. I feel like they should be doing just as much work as the top.”
- Scenarios including women, said NeonDoge92, is a turn-off for him although for user ItsKai, “Porn involving women isn’t too bad for me unless it focuses too much on women (hence why I don’t watch bi porn).”
Having said all that, what about you, guys, do you watch porn? Why or why not? Moreover, what are the things that turn you off when it comes to porn movies?
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My list: too much body shaving; French kissing but with no tongue action; those clips where the actors film themselves (what’s hot about that?); when the actors giggle a lot or play into the camera, clearly showing they’re disinterested; and too much “acting” – they’re all dreadful actors, why even bother? Perhaps more important, this is my “I wish they did this” list: Just occasionally or even just once, could they give BJs to completion rather than always having the other guy jerk his load into their open mouths? I love getting sucked off and watching my cum ooze out… Read more »
3 way kissing…yuck
Spitting! It’s gross! It seems to have become “popular” (at least with porn producers) about the time of the beginning of the AIDS plague when the exchange of “bodily fluids” became un-pc. I suppose pornographers felt that this was a “reasonable substitute”. Outside of perhaps so-called S&M B&D flix (to go with the “humiliation” of the bottom), I don’t consider this valid. If someone were to start spitting on or at me, I’d probably get dressed and leave.
THAT actually happened to me once! Rather than sock the guy in the face (he was hot though), I got up, and put his ass out. Righ on the spot. I never even said why, just “yeah, you gotta go…”
Fully agreed. Love when guys rim, but then they suddenly spit at the hole and ewwww!
I think the spitting that was being talked about there is spitting into someone else’s mouth. Spitting onto a cock or butthole shouldn’t be a problem for anyone; spitting (instead of swallowing any of one’s own saliva) while rimming is probably a hygiene thing.
Don’t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya, buttercup.
If someone spit on me…they’d get bitch slapped!
Call me filthy all day long, but sign me up for more incest porn and boys that look like they’re underage (without actually BEING underage, of course). 🙂
Man, you’re filthy. The right kind of filthy. It’s f’n porn, it’s all fantasy and fake anyway.
What turns me off the most while watching porn is spit!!!! It turns my stomach when a guy spit a wad of spit on his partner’s azz and then lick it off. That is nasty!!!! Over weight people in porn turns me off as well. Average size is fine. Not looking for perfection!!!
To me, uncircumcised guys are a huge turn off. There’s something feminine about the “closed” penis, with all its wrinkles and slimey moistness all the time. Foreskin belongs on a clitoris, not on a penis. Male circumcision is a rite of passage, which makes a man’s most masculine part visible to the world, helps toughen him up, is noble, clean, and healthy.
No disrespect to my “hooded” brethren, but that smell….christ!
you are dating dirty men, this has nothing to do with his cock
I’m an uncut guy. My mom never got me circumcised because she didn’t want me to go through pain since it’s a painful procedure. I don’t see what the big deal is? Because if a guy cleans the forskin then what is the problem? I’ve met some really handsome guys over the years who aren’t circumcised and believe me I had no complaints. I’m sure you would give a pass to one of your favorite actors if you knew he was uncircumcised. It’s no wonder gay men have issues with there identity because of fears of being rejected because they… Read more »
Natural and intact is the best. Circumcision is gross. Who wants to see that scar?
Men were born with foreskin. WHY is the US just about the only place in the world that removes it? Apparently it CAN’T be a health issue.
Not to get on my soapbox, but that is a part of MY body & I should have the say so as to what to do with it. Just like I am AGAINST getting baby girls’ ears pierced. Again – THEIR body!
It’s a money maker. It shouldn’t be allowed.
Wow I love me some uncut dick send them over here. The others have been “injured” and have the scars to show it.
I don’t see nothing fem about uncut penis. Nice way of shaming men that choose not to cut there penis skin off lol! If they shower and clean it often it would be ‘clean and healthy’ anyways….
No4skin Uncircumcised Guys turn me on. They are beautiful. And baby boys should not be circumcised That decision should belong to the man.
Foreskin, does in fact, belong on a penis. Foreskin is only nasty in the US because we were educated as such. Circumcision scars are fucking gross. No, just no.
I get turned off by the inclusion of anything female or female related. I am attracted to men. Not men in women’s clothes. Not men with boob jobs. Not actual women. Also, when during a hot scene the top stops pulls out and then stuffs a dildo or other object up the guys ass. Totally ruins the fantasy for me.
Exactly, if i want a girl i’ll go get one and i don’t want one. So I want real man. Unshaved, natural young man.
I still find it odd when guys keep their shoes on unless they are outdoors.
I happen to love to see guys in white socks or black ankle socks with or without their shoes on. I guess what’s hot for one isn’t hot for them all.
First, porn is boring, but that’s just my opinion. 🙂 When I visit a guy for a hook-up and the guy needs porn blazing on the TV, I’m outta of there! Studio porn is a snooze fest: there’s a sameness to the models/actors, etc; same boring fuck/suck scenes; and the same awful/fake/cringe-worthy dialogue and fake set-ups: fucking the sister’s boyfriend; fucked by my dad’s friend, broke straight boys, etc. None of that is remotely believable and doesn’t work as a fantasy. Amatuer porn is slightly more interesting (but not by much) when somone knows how to work a camera with… Read more »
The guy is sitting there on the couch for his “first” gay experience but you’ve seen him in 20 other movies….LOL!
I actually stopped watching porn. I deleted all my saved porn videos Only because what is not listed on here also is that it’s an unhealthy addiction & ruins your professional identity in the work field. Not only is it unhealthy, but you get off faster than what you had planned. Since I stopped, I notice I can last longer and enjoy it, rather than get completely turned on fast and I’m finished. Where’s the fun in that? I don’t like the fact that so many gay men and young men enter in to the porn industry so inexperienced about… Read more »
You make some very strong points, Lynx. I have no concrete evidence but I think it’s safe to assume that once these guys make pornos, any hope of a “real” acting career gets flushed down the toilet. There’s a particular very hot and very popular gay porn “actor” I’ve watched many times. Sometimes he engages in a little dialog and he has a really engaging personality to go with his hot physique. Yet, it’s sad because there’s no way he’ll ever make it in the “real” acting world. In fact, I once had a chat directly with him on a4a’s… Read more »
There’s some truth to that. What can come along with entering the porn industry. I recalled a vid on Youtube called “I did porn and I’m sorry”. The dude who did this vid touches literally all the points you stated above when he went into the porn industry while going to school when he was young and ignorant. And well he let’s it be known how’s it come back to “haunt” him workforce wise because of that.
i agree
Porn is as varied as those who consume it. I often wonder who on earth fantasizes about something like that! The two things that turn me off are Fisting sex and obesity. Ouch and ugh.
The best porn is the one you make of you an partner . It’s not fake no acting no editing . An going back an watching is way more exciting an adding part 2 is even better. Try it . I liked it better than pro porn
I’M REFERRING TO GAY AND STRAIGHT PORN HERE: (1)Oral, Including Rimming. Then When It Comes To Fucking, The Top Uses A Condom(W.T.F.?) A Total Turn Off, You Might As Well Just Fuck Bareback, Oral And Rimming Isn’t Safe Sex.(2) Having Sex Partially Dressed Is A Turn Off ex: Sex With Your Shirts On, Fully Dressed Top Fucking With His Dick Out Of The Fly Of His Pants.
I’m still not particularly fond of straight men in gay porn. Call me biased for how bullied I was as a teen, but I can’t shake the feeling that a fair amount of these men are the same men that called us fags & queers but now are profiting off of our desires I’ll pass.
I’m bisexual, so I can’t speak for everyone, but I can say that the last part about being cringy when women is involved, is one of the best kinds of porn in my opinion lol. But it’s not for everyone that much I know. Some gay/bi guys actually like underage looking guys topping or being topped. And some likes the whole incest role playing (or not so much if it’s really is incest play then it’s no longer role playing which is disturbing). And some may even like the fake moaning (even if they sound like sound like some of… Read more »
I agree with pretty much all the listed turn-offs in the article. The two most major turn-off for me aren’t listed though, and that’s 1) When the bottom serves only as a hole and doesn’t stimulate his penis and/or never climaxes, doesn’t seem to enjoy the sex. 2) when they go the whole scene with some pretty hot fucking, only to edit to a final scene where both partners have to jack themselves off to cum. That’s soooooooo annoying to me!!
I don’t get the jacking off to cum, either, makes no sense. If I was topping like that and couldn’t cum there must be something wrong with me.
Young men that look strung out getting fucked by fat old men
That’s ‘why’ they’re strung out, lmao, as they’re not attracted to these “fat old guys.”
Condoms. I usually use them when fucking IRL, but porn is more of a fantasy thing. In my fantasies, I fuck raw, and get fucked the same way.
Porn turnoffs: women in gay porn; obviously fake moaning; very silent sex, where the guys look like they might as well be taking a geometry test; spitting (Why is that supposed to be a turnon? Why spit on the hole you’re actively rimming?)
I hate the silent sex. How the hell is the top with a 10 inch beer can dick is fully inside the bottom and he’s not screaming? lol!
Funny thing is I agree with pretty much all that’s been said here! I would include over-eager, hyper-active “bossy” bottoms. You shouldn’t be “fucking” me more than I’m fucking you if I’m the top. It comes off super phony and a real bone-killer.
1 – Having the title be 1 thing, yet that NEVER appears in the video. 2 – People wearing masks, hiding their faces, or not even showing the faces to let us know who’s in them. 3 – Hairy/older/tattoos/piercings/overweight performers (instant turnoffs for me). 4 – Hand held cam shots that make you need nausea pills to settle your stomach from all the shaking. 5 – Shots where they just put the camera in 1 place yet block the action or are almost off the screen from it’s location. 6 – Spitting. 7 – “Releasing” in the mouth – personally… Read more »
Turn-offs:
1) Shaved pubes. Major buzzkill.
2) Anything which smacks of violence (other than expressly S&M content).
3) Female reference points like “boypussy,” “mangina,” whatever.
Women in any role, spitting, guys looking at the camera, fisting, too many young guys/not enough senior men, shaved pubes…..did I miss anything?
Fisting, rimming, and “daddy” porn”, all turn offs for me.
I find it difficult to find guys, esp. tops, who like to use hot verbal. There’s so much than “fuuucck” that i want to hear. And I find it harder and harder to see 2 studs over 30 goin’ at it. Like the idea of dad with dad. And at least one should be hairy chested. Not enough variety today. Too many shaved guys looking like a cross between embryos and male ballerinas in leotards!
CHOKING That is simply beyond me how that could turn ANYONE on – top or bottom. I can get into a little rough, but when It comes to real pain, I’ll pass.
Raw is a turnoff to me. Especially when it’s raunchy. An ass mercilessly getting pounded with cum oozing out is disgusting. And I remember when gay porn took the lead in promoting condom use at one time. I’m also turned off by passionless fucking without kissing and foreplay. I want to see real love making not just fucking. And I’m not turned on by weird positions either. Fucking upside down and backwards and turned in contorted positions and stuff is ridiculous. Not into gang bangs either. A couple, or maybe a threesome, is hot but one guy’s ass getting blown… Read more »
probably the thing that makes me skip ahead the fastest is loud, sloppy kissing… i almost ALWAYS watch porn on my laptop, with my earbuds in. it’s porn, not ASMR. i don’t have a problem with the kissing, as it’s usually kind of hot… but MOVE THE MICROPHONE AWAY!!
I’m getting to the point where porn without tattoos is a treat, and it seems like almost a fetish to find videos without them.
Big turnoff..ass to mouth sucking…tops that are not hard attempting to fuck and the straight guys discovering they like taking dick….BullS**t
Guidelines not withstanding, curious “editing” in the comments section of these “pieces”…Wonder why that is?…
Shaved dicks and butts is my biggest turn off that and some fish in the background on a video screaming while a supposedly str8 guy gets his dick sucked.
Shaved dick, can’t imagine how that got started. Any power cocksucker or fucker wouldn’t want to rub against shaved up dick and ass crack it rubs a person raw. Makes no sense but neither do a lot of things these days.
Over-buffed, over masculine, over muscular, too perfect looking men who look nothing 90% of the gay men I know. Oh and almost always white!
SENSUAL LOVEMAKING…YUCK. Everyone knows ‘Gay love lasts forever…until a bigger dick comes down the pike’. Moist light kissing, and ‘turtle-slow fucking’ bores the fuck outta me.Gay love never appeared until the late 80s when those ‘ELton John’ type queens wanted LOVE out of the game.Gay sex should be pervy, not politically correct.
The whole Twink thing. I know it’s popular, so sorry if I made some enemies, but pasty young men who talk like Paris Hilton or a bad gay version of Marilyn Monroe constantly saying, “Oh, yes, Daddy” or “Please Daddy” and moan like squeak toys is not a turn on. I don’t like anything feminine in my guys, and definitely no CD or female stuff. There a Xvideo star called, DIKSUKKA, who also appears on other channels who takes straight guys to the basement for head and fucking. It almost makes you believe every straight guy can be bi. Never… Read more »
I love foot worship porn but the actual stomping and shit taking is such a turn off. Just sit or lay back and let me lick your beautiful feet. It should not be humiliating or submissive just because you love feet. I can usually find someone flexible enough to suck my dick and let me worship his feet.
When they are supposedly rimming but their tongue barely grazes the recipients anus. I LOVE licking kissing sucking and deep tongue fucking a clean hairless ass. The hottest porn shows that!
The cut away when the top first penetrates. I want to see the bottom opened up, even if it’s a little uncomfortable. I really don’t think most guys can take it balls deep right off. If a video like that gets posted it’s gone the next day.