Is it getting hot in here… or did someone mention thongs? Whether you’re a fan of watching that sweet ass bounce from behind, or you’re the type who loves wearing one while teasing yourself with a toy, we want to know: which does it for you more? Come on, don’t be shy—spill your secrets, you naughty thing.

Plenty of gay men online say watching their partner in a thong is an instant turn-on. There’s something undeniably seductive about the way the fabric clings to the hips, disappears between the cheeks, and leaves just enough to the imagination. Whether it’s a lacey red number or a sheer black barely-there string, it screams, “Touch me… if you dare.” For many, it’s not just the visual—it’s the tease, the anticipation, the slow peel-off before things heat up.

On the flip side, others love wearing a thong themselves. It’s about how it makes them feel: sexy, confident, and ready to play. Wearing a thong under everyday clothes, knowing what’s hidden underneath, can add a delicious thrill. And when a toy’s involved—like a vibrating plug or cock ring—the thong becomes both accessory and enhancer, holding everything in place while pleasure pulses through.

The real magic? For some, it’s both. Watching their partner in a thong while wearing one themselves? Double the heat, double the tease, double the fun.

So we’re dying to know, Adam4Adam blog readers, do you love watching your partner strut around in a thong, or do you get more turned on being the one in it? Have you ever paired a thong with a toy—for yourself or for a partner? And if so, who wears it better? Drop your thoughts and stories in the comments section down below and tell us: what’s your ultimate thong fantasy?

And if this conversation has got you thinking about slipping into one yourself… good news! Right now at the Adam4Adam Store, you can score a free Black Sheer Adam4Adam Thong when you spend $50 or more. It’s sheer, sexy, and the perfect excuse to show off. Check out below how to snag a pair:

  • Add this item to your cart.
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Or if you’re feeling more adventurous, you can choose the Excavate Tunnel Anal Plug instead—perfect for keeping your man wide open and ready for anything. Whether you’re in the mood to explore, stretch, or just leave him begging for more, this toy delivers. Just spend $19+ at the A4A Store and make your pick!

  • Add this item to your cart.
  • Enter coupon HOLE at check out.
  • Add an additional $19+ worth of items to your cart
  • The cart will automatically discount this item to free

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