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We’re always talking about dick size—how big, how thick, how long. But what about shape? Whether it curves up, down, or stays straight, whether it’s thick at the base or has a prominent head, shape plays a huge role in pleasure and attraction. Some shapes are better for hitting the right spots, while others just look aesthetically pleasing. So why don’t we talk about it more?
Anyway, we’re bringing this up because a gay man online recently asked, “Forget about dick size, let’s talk about dick shape.” This intriguing question sparked a flurry of responses among gay men online showing just how different everyone’s preferences can be when it comes to the shape of a penis.
One user enthusiastically shared, “Upward curve is perfect for hitting the prostate in missionary position. Nothing wrong with that. I’m very into shape and overall look. Everyone has different tastes. I love a beautiful glans. Cut or uncut doesn’t matter, although if uncut I like it if I can retract the foreskin. I’d love to hear others’ opinions.” This comment underscores how personal preferences can vary, with some individuals focusing on aesthetics, while others are more concerned with functionality.
Another commenter added a personal twist, “I have a decent down curve, and my husband loves it. If I do him doggy or prone bone, he cums hands-free every time. He says it’s great to suck too, it goes straight down his throat. His dick is straight, and I love it. All positions feel great. He says my curve plus size gets painful in missionary. I could never be with a circumcised guy. It’s just a personal thing for me, I just don’t find them attractive.” This highlights how different shapes can enhance specific sexual positions while also revealing personal preferences on circumcision.
For some, simplicity is key. One user remarked, “Mine’s mostly straight, maybe a little girthier than average. Been told by a few guys it’s perfect for hitting the spot for them. I do sometimes wish it had a bit more girth, but at least it’s 8 inches long.” This reflects a common sentiment that while some may wish for certain attributes, satisfaction often lies in the experiences shared with partners.
Another participant emphasized the practical implications of shape, stating, “Shape makes a difference for what positions work best to hit certain spots in your partner.” This insight suggests that understanding one’s anatomy can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences by tailoring positions to maximize pleasure.
A candid reflection from another user offered a refreshing perspective: “When I started topping a lot, I was concerned my cock was not the perfect horizontal cylinder porn has got us used to. I quickly realized that it was better: You can hit the prostate in a great way, and girth matters more than length once you pass 6 inches. So, be happy to have lucky genetics!” This comment challenges societal norms and expectations perpetuated by gay pornography, advocating for self-acceptance and body positivity.
Meanwhile, someone succinctly captured their ideal combination by stating, “Upward curve + large ‘mushroom’ head = pure bliss.” This simple yet evocative description highlights how specific features can be particularly appealing to some individuals.
It’s clear from these varied responses that when it comes to dick shape, personal preferences, experiences, and anatomical compatibility play significant roles. Whether it’s an upward curve hitting the right spot, a down curve enhancing certain positions, or a straight shaft offering versatile pleasure, there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to what’s most desirable.
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? What part does shape play in your sexual experiences and preferences? Do you have a favorite dick shape, or perhaps a memorable encounter where your hookup’s penis shape made all the difference? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Dick shape doesn’t really matter to me. As long as he can get, and stay hard, it’s all good. One thing I don’t like though is when guys pump up their cocks with those vacuum devices. The cock might look bigger, but they are soft and squishy. No thanks. Also, piercings are a huge turn off too.
I’ve always had a fascination with a thick penis. I think it makes the nut a lot better and it’s fun to play with. You get bonus points if you have BULL nuts
The shape and size doesn’t matter. What’s important is whose dick it is.
I myself prefer a 7″- 9″ straight semi thick dick, I love playing with a big dick, especially when I stroke it and it goes from soft to hard. ,I’m not saying I would turn down a curved dick, not saying that by a long shot, I’ve read and chatted with other bottoms that prefer or will take a smaller dick. I’m not saying that my back door is wide open, but I like to feel the dick, not pain wise but I like to feel like I have real stud inside me, I think many bottoms would agree, I’ve… Read more »
7″+ with a nice downward curve, but not too thick. Perfect for deepthroating on my knees… A cock like that can pound my throat, and make me cum without touching myself. There’s just something visceral and primal about having a man’s dick down my throat.
I totally understand, I’ve came some many times hands free while sucking dicks, not from the curve in a dick but just sucking another mans dick in general, just the idea of being on my knees pleasing him
As mentioned in the article, I’ve often been told my upswept curve hits G and P spots just right in missionary. My throat fuck friends love how the curve goes right down into their necks in 69 with me atop them.
I like a thick, long penis. I like long strokes, all the way out & back in.
They need to curve up & to the right so they follow the curves inside. Love it when a top uses it to press on my prostate as I cum
Thick and long, that’s what comes to my mind when I hear the words Dick and Cock, when I hear the word penis, I think small, this may rub some people the wrong way, as much as I enjoy sucking dick and getting fucked, I can not be with a guy who has a small dick sorry,
#1 HARD
#2 Thick shaft
#3 Smaller head (I call these “torpedo dicks” because they enter easily but you know they had been there hours later)
#4 Cut or uncut is of no consequence as long as they’re clean
#bonus – nothing to do with “type” but large balls and big shooters are icing on the cake, so to speak!
I prefer big, black and uncut!
I got a very thick dick. Lots of girth. I got length too.. tried to upload Pic but size was too big… no pun intended
how about just available?
how about “straight up”?
SEND it directly to my INBOX then dude – or BETTER YET bring it here so I can SEE IT IN PERSON 🙂
As long as it’s uncut… all I care about. Fucking love foreskin.
is this a generational thing? when I was younger, people posted to their profile “not into uncut”
I still see cut only in profiles. Americans, by far, are barbaric uneducated idiots. The use of Viagra is highest in the US, why? Because of the sky high circumcision rates. Thankfully, people are waking up and the rates of this barbaric inhumane procedure are falling. Even some Jewish parents are saying enough. Guys are born with a foreskin for a fucking reason.
straight
I love a heavy cock, which I think is not common. There’s something so hot about grabbing onto a heavy cock. As for sucking, I do enjoy a 7 inch cock, something not enormous, and not small.
A COCK with a nice large mushroom head. Feels so good going in. When it starts throbbing and shooting warm love juice in me. Down my throat or up my ass. IT IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!
I prefer the small (<6") ones. Short and thin works for me. Best for sucking and great for fucking. Lots of pubes please….
sounds like you’re describing me
NOT a “requirement” but i definitely like ’em slightly on the thicker side, little upward curve, thinner at the base thickening mid-shaft before tapering toward the head, a well-defined crown, and uncut! Mmmmm mmmm mm!
Don’t know what’s worse asking this question or people answering it
First world problems
Agreed. Except for those willing to risk expensive surgery, we’re all stuck with the cock we were born with. Having a preference, especially choosing a guy or not based upon his cock, is as shallow and thoughtless as one could get.
Just enjoy the guys you get to have sex with. If their cock happens to hit you in the right places, it’s a bonus.
Long and hard works for me , as long as that thing is hard its a huge turn on
Long,not too fat,and curved down. Makes it easier to swallow down to the balls.
This is my 8×6 BBD for you! It likes to be sucked and it will cream your hole!
Yummy
That is very nice I could appreciate something like that
Not too picky as long as it is hard. I will say about 7 on the thin side with a huge mushroom head would be ideal…but if is hard and on the thin side (I am very tight) I can work with it.
before or after a bowl movement?
LOL !!! LOL !!! LOL !!!
Slightly curved upward but not to straight up! Hard but not hard enough to bang a nail. And thick! i like big n thick! I prefer cut but uc ok if fully exposed when erect! And a nice hefty ballsac! Prefer a guy with pubes but shaved balls are ok!
For me…All of the above but mostly, thick, uncut and something in between 7″ and 8 “.
It depends if its oral give me one that is 5 to 7 inches medium thickness and straight much easier to deep throat and work for a good time if it comes to Anal then give me one that is 6 to 8 maybe 9 medium thickness with a bigger head that curves upward some
Shape is a factor when sucking dick. 69 with a guy who’s dick curves down just doesn’t work well. Depends on the position. Positive attributes of many shapes, just some better for some activities.
There are men who can make their cock work well in any position.
There are idiots with big beautiful cocks without a clue what to do.
delicious will do
I prefer thick and straight. I never turn down dick though no matter the shape or size.
Straight, 6”-7”, med girth, mushroom head, cut
I’ve found that a good time is more dependent on the operator rather than the equipment. But for the record, anything from 5 to 8 inches, able to get an erection and maintain it, prefer uncut but not a requirement, trimmed pubic hair, but not bald, and good hygiene.
I don’t care what shape his dick is as long as he is willing to stick it in all my holes that is all that matters to me I just love a d8ck and playing with it
I love dicks myself, rather it just looking at em , playing with em, sucking them, and most definitely getting fucked,, and for me it takes the real deal, toys does not get me off, I like when a man tells me to put lube on his dick, or tell me to get the ass ready for him, meaning lube it up , I love it when a man tells me to spread my cheeks for him so that he can put that dick inside me , no one should never underestimate the power of some good dick, I’ve traveled… Read more »
For oral, I feel like a 7 1/2 but thick with a fat head is pretty hot
HARD!
Straight, cut, long and thick. That way the bottom does not have to ask: “Is it in YET”??????
I prefer straight if I am giving oral and curved down if I am going to be the bottom face down
they’re all good except for the really small ones. I need to feel it filling my mouth and rubbing on my tongue. Horizontal is easiest to work with. The straight up ones have to be held onto because they keep getting away if you let go. 5-7 inches is comfortable along with slightly more girth than typical. The head should be bigger than the shaft so you can really feel it bumping on your lips as it goes in and out. I prefer Intact (I’m intact) because I like the moving skin especially when you’re stroking it. And most come… Read more »
thick, definitely!