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Hey, guys! What’s your most unforgettable sexual experience?
A recent post in r/askgaybros got us thinking: is the best sex always with your current partner, or does it belong to a past fling? Whether it’s a long-term love or a one-time spark, we all have that moment that stands out. So let’s talk about it—what makes for truly memorable sex?
For some, it’s about being on the same wavelength emotionally and physically. One commenter noted, “Definitely my current partner. We are so sexually on the same page it’s off the scale for me.” They realized that the best sex wasn’t just about the physical, but the emotional connection that amplified everything. Others echo this, feeling that even the “normal” sex with someone they deeply connect with easily tops a wild hookup with no strings attached.
Meanwhile, some find that these memories come from a past partner they can’t quite shake like this gay man who shared: “I had a guy I hooked up with regularly when I was 19-21. Dude fucked like nothing one had since.” This person went so far as to name a toy after the guy, forever honoring the experience with a cheeky tribute.
For others, it’s not so much about the person as it is about the experience itself. Another user recalls, “I met this guy who seemed innocent and shy over text, but in bed, he was an absolute dom… he pinned me down harder and whispered in my ear, ‘If you want to do something about it, you need to be stronger than me.’” This intensity left a lasting impact that they still reminisce about today.
Others find that the best sex wasn’t about technique or kink but a sense of safety and understanding with their partner. One commenter recalls a long-time partner, 30 years his senior, who took him through an intimate journey of trust and mutual respect: “He knew how to work me as if he was taking a car apart and putting it together again.” Even now, years later, that experience remains at the top of his memory.
Whether your best sex came from an unexpected hookup, a soul-deep connection, or a memory that’s stood the test of time, it’s clear we all have unique answers to what makes sex unforgettable. So, Adam4Adam readers, tell us: what’s your story? Do you reminisce about past partners or find that your current relationship holds the best experiences? Let us know in the comments section down below!
I was hooking up with two local guys separately and it turned out, they were hooking up with each other as well when one of them a top guy asked me if I knew the other and I said yeah we’ve had a lot of fun. So he asked if I would be interested in a three-way, and, and I said yes, very much so.. he asked if I would be able to meet with them the next morning and I said yes! The mutual friend came to my house and we drove together to the top guys house. When… Read more »
In my 20’s, after a break up and a stressful work week I took a few days off for some “me” time. There was a gay campground I visited from time to time and thought a quiet mid-week escape would be the right therapy I needed. When I arrived I was surprised to find one other vehicle in the lot. I grabbed my tent and gear and found a perfect spot overlooking the river. As I was setting up a really nice looking guy walked down the path in a loose pair of shorts that showed off an impressive package.… Read more »
I’m a bisexual top man married to a bi wife and have enjoyed men on the side for many years. I have had 3 men I see/saw regularly over the years where he and I had a deep sexual and emotional connection when we were naked together. The sex was as passionate and affectionate as any I have ever had with women, with lots of deep kissing and slow, sensual fucking. Those are truly the most satisfying sexual experiences!
The first time I ever had sex back when we had phone chat lines I sent him some pictures he like what he saw I don’t know what I was getting into but sure did enjoy it
Number 1 on my list is the time1st time I sucked off a cock to completion. It was an arcade near Love field in Dallas. I let him into my cubicle, and got on my knees.He had a nice 7 inch dick, with a big head, and it tasted great. After about 7 or 8 minutes I was bobbing along, and he said he was cumming. I had never let anyone cum in my mouth before, but I was a little drunk and thought it would be exciting. Well, he grunted and came. He tried to drown me. It was… Read more »
Well it looks like I’m the first of many, that will try to share my most unforgettable SEX. A married couple that I have been enjoying sex with for a couple of months. Nice Guys that are truly in love with each other. One day when all the stars were line up in the same direction.I was made love to by some unbelievable lovers.one fucking my mouth and the other fucking my ass. We all got off about the same time, they left there cocks dripping love juice in me for a long time. IT WAS BEAUTIFUL!!
It is a tie between the 100 best! There was the one time with a FWB. We really enjoyed each other about weekly, but rarely fucked because he was so hung and incredibly thick. One time we were making out so passionately, I could feel him pushing at my ass and all of a sudden he was inside me, and without lube. there was no pain, and we fucked for an hour.
I can’t explain how it was even possible.
I think I can explain this. I have known two bottom men that I fucked every chance we got and, being a compassionate top, I always used a small amount of lube. With both of them, the longer we fucked, the more wet their asses got just like a vagina! I gave them the honored title “True Bottoms”! so it seems some men can self-lubercate if aroused enough. It felt great for both us us.
My best sexual experience with a guy was sometime back in my early 40s. It was with my lifelong suck/fuck buddy. Most of the time when we hooked up, our window of time to play was usually short. This time, we had an entire day. My wife was out of town and he snuck the day off from work. So neither of us was in a hurry. For the first hour or so, we took turns sucking one another’s cock to the edge over and over again. Then we moved on to switching back and forth fucking each other. I… Read more »
I was sitting next to this sexy black man, watching him play with his very large and very hot cock. The next I knew, I was on my knees sucking that big BBC. I was overcome by lust as I sucked him. I swallowed his loaf and ended up being fucked. Very hot.
Without a doubt, the most mind blowing sex I ever had was with a good looking young guy I met at a Park n Ride on Long Island, in NY. We were about the same age, made eye contact in the parking lot and the next thing I knew, I was following him to a rather desolate area in a local industrial park. We get in the back seat together and waste no time shoving our tongues down each other’s throats. What a freakin’ kisser!! Eventually, in a state of almost total undress we’re sucking each other off. We ultimately… Read more »
I was one of 5 boys raised by a single father who had us all by 27. I was the only gay, blond blue eyed one. One day my dad said a business associate of his was going to be dropping by the house to drop off some paperwork to be signed. I had met him before. I was 17. And I could at times see him eyeing me with his eyes focusing on my little bubble ass. Smooth. He was gorgeous maybe 37 to 40. I purposely took a shower and when the door bell rang went to the… Read more »