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Hey, guys! What’s your most unforgettable sexual experience?
A recent post in r/askgaybros got us thinking: is the best sex always with your current partner, or does it belong to a past fling? Whether it’s a long-term love or a one-time spark, we all have that moment that stands out. So let’s talk about it—what makes for truly memorable sex?
For some, it’s about being on the same wavelength emotionally and physically. One commenter noted, “Definitely my current partner. We are so sexually on the same page it’s off the scale for me.” They realized that the best sex wasn’t just about the physical, but the emotional connection that amplified everything. Others echo this, feeling that even the “normal” sex with someone they deeply connect with easily tops a wild hookup with no strings attached.
Meanwhile, some find that these memories come from a past partner they can’t quite shake like this gay man who shared: “I had a guy I hooked up with regularly when I was 19-21. Dude fucked like nothing one had since.” This person went so far as to name a toy after the guy, forever honoring the experience with a cheeky tribute.
For others, it’s not so much about the person as it is about the experience itself. Another user recalls, “I met this guy who seemed innocent and shy over text, but in bed, he was an absolute dom… he pinned me down harder and whispered in my ear, ‘If you want to do something about it, you need to be stronger than me.’” This intensity left a lasting impact that they still reminisce about today.
Others find that the best sex wasn’t about technique or kink but a sense of safety and understanding with their partner. One commenter recalls a long-time partner, 30 years his senior, who took him through an intimate journey of trust and mutual respect: “He knew how to work me as if he was taking a car apart and putting it together again.” Even now, years later, that experience remains at the top of his memory.
Whether your best sex came from an unexpected hookup, a soul-deep connection, or a memory that’s stood the test of time, it’s clear we all have unique answers to what makes sex unforgettable. So, Adam4Adam readers, tell us: what’s your story? Do you reminisce about past partners or find that your current relationship holds the best experiences? Let us know in the comments section down below!
I was hooking up with two local guys separately and it turned out, they were hooking up with each other as well when one of them a top guy asked me if I knew the other and I said yeah we’ve had a lot of fun. So he asked if I would be interested in a three-way, and, and I said yes, very much so.. he asked if I would be able to meet with them the next morning and I said yes! The mutual friend came to my house and we drove together to the top guys house. When… Read more »
In my 20’s, after a break up and a stressful work week I took a few days off for some “me” time. There was a gay campground I visited from time to time and thought a quiet mid-week escape would be the right therapy I needed. When I arrived I was surprised to find one other vehicle in the lot. I grabbed my tent and gear and found a perfect spot overlooking the river. As I was setting up a really nice looking guy walked down the path in a loose pair of shorts that showed off an impressive package.… Read more »
Of course he never called you. He got what he wanted. Why would he ever contact you again?
I’m a bisexual top man married to a bi wife and have enjoyed men on the side for many years. I have had 3 men I see/saw regularly over the years where he and I had a deep sexual and emotional connection when we were naked together. The sex was as passionate and affectionate as any I have ever had with women, with lots of deep kissing and slow, sensual fucking. Those are truly the most satisfying sexual experiences!
Ditto!
The first time I ever had sex back when we had phone chat lines I sent him some pictures he like what he saw I don’t know what I was getting into but sure did enjoy it
Number 1 on my list is the time1st time I sucked off a cock to completion. It was an arcade near Love field in Dallas. I let him into my cubicle, and got on my knees.He had a nice 7 inch dick, with a big head, and it tasted great. After about 7 or 8 minutes I was bobbing along, and he said he was cumming. I had never let anyone cum in my mouth before, but I was a little drunk and thought it would be exciting. Well, he grunted and came. He tried to drown me. It was… Read more »
Well it looks like I’m the first of many, that will try to share my most unforgettable SEX. A married couple that I have been enjoying sex with for a couple of months. Nice Guys that are truly in love with each other. One day when all the stars were line up in the same direction.I was made love to by some unbelievable lovers.one fucking my mouth and the other fucking my ass. We all got off about the same time, they left there cocks dripping love juice in me for a long time. IT WAS BEAUTIFUL!!
It is a tie between the 100 best! There was the one time with a FWB. We really enjoyed each other about weekly, but rarely fucked because he was so hung and incredibly thick. One time we were making out so passionately, I could feel him pushing at my ass and all of a sudden he was inside me, and without lube. there was no pain, and we fucked for an hour.
I can’t explain how it was even possible.
I think I can explain this. I have known two bottom men that I fucked every chance we got and, being a compassionate top, I always used a small amount of lube. With both of them, the longer we fucked, the more wet their asses got just like a vagina! I gave them the honored title “True Bottoms”! so it seems some men can self-lubercate if aroused enough. It felt great for both us us.
My best sexual experience with a guy was sometime back in my early 40s. It was with my lifelong suck/fuck buddy. Most of the time when we hooked up, our window of time to play was usually short. This time, we had an entire day. My wife was out of town and he snuck the day off from work. So neither of us was in a hurry. For the first hour or so, we took turns sucking one another’s cock to the edge over and over again. Then we moved on to switching back and forth fucking each other. I… Read more »
I was sitting next to this sexy black man, watching him play with his very large and very hot cock. The next I knew, I was on my knees sucking that big BBC. I was overcome by lust as I sucked him. I swallowed his loaf and ended up being fucked. Very hot.
Without a doubt, the most mind blowing sex I ever had was with a good looking young guy I met at a Park n Ride on Long Island, in NY. We were about the same age, made eye contact in the parking lot and the next thing I knew, I was following him to a rather desolate area in a local industrial park. We get in the back seat together and waste no time shoving our tongues down each other’s throats. What a freakin’ kisser!! Eventually, in a state of almost total undress we’re sucking each other off. We ultimately… Read more »
I was one of 5 boys raised by a single father who had us all by 27. I was the only gay, blond blue eyed one. One day my dad said a business associate of his was going to be dropping by the house to drop off some paperwork to be signed. I had met him before. I was 17. And I could at times see him eyeing me with his eyes focusing on my little bubble ass. Smooth. He was gorgeous maybe 37 to 40. I purposely took a shower and when the door bell rang went to the… Read more »
I had been having a desire to be with a nutha man, and I knew I wanted to get fucked, I never had a desire to top, it was the very first time I got fucked, once he finally popped my ass cherry about five minutes later I came, I never knew a man could cum like that, I was hooked, and it was then I knew that I was a 100% bottom, I have never even thought about topping and don’t think I ever will, infact I really don’t like men to touch my dick, it’s a turn off… Read more »
Ok, as I was reading these stories, I kept thinking of all my experiences with guys. I managed to bring it down to two different episodes. I’m an older guy suffering with ED but that didn’t mattered. The first one was a few years back. I met this good looking younger black guy(this would also be my first inter-racial experience), he was smooth, with a 10″ thick cock. the first time he fucked me, it was hurting but he was gentle and took his time to enter me. He always used a condom but when he was about to cum… Read more »
My idea of hot gay sex is a package deal of sorts. If the right guy and opportunity are there, if all safety boxes are checked, I love a hot session containing intense kissing, grinding, mutual sucking, mutual rimming, and flip-fucking. I was lucky enough to have a hot 69 followed by flip-fucking my first time out at age 18. But I got Theee complete “package” just last year with a longtime FBB of mine (also a BiMM). We did it all – and with amazing intensity. By the end, sperm everywhere, mission accomplished.
I meet a guy on this site a few years ago that lived up in the mountains near me and he asked me to come up and visit him I went to his cabin and we chatted for a few minutes he asked me to have a shower and when I was done cleaning up and washing out he gave himself a injection in his cock and we started making out drinking a little to loosen up he had this wonderfully fat cock he put me in a sling lubed my tight hole had me sniff some poppers and then… Read more »
I had to think hard, pun intended. Two experiences tie, of many. The Steamworks in Berkeley has a dark grope space. A young small Thai bottom wanted to impale himself on me. For the next twenty minutes, he kept me on the very edge and wouldn’t let me squirt. It was torture in some ways, and I think I blew the largest load of my life. By a strange chance, two weeks later I had time at the now-closed WaterGarden in San Jose. I was in the steam room there and the same young Thai man walked up to me.… Read more »
Thia guys are so freaking hot
It was definitely the time i had twins. I know what you are thinking…Bullshit… but no it happened. I’m just an average guy and i was 32 at the time, but i met a hot guy who was about 10 years younger. and we messed around a bit. He told me he had a brother, and they had always wanted to share, so I agreed. He didn’t tell me it was his TWIN brother. At the time, I was more top, but I gladly bottomed and topped at the same time with these two. Hottest fucking Oreo EVER. We did… Read more »
A new, hot, sexy guy moved in my neighborhood. I stopped by his house to say hi and welcome him to the neighborhood. We ended up in his bed having sex. It was my first time having a hands free nutt. We ended up having sex regularly until he found a live- in boyfriend.
It hasn’t happened yet.
If you have nothing to say or add or why say anything?
Guess you always have to say something, most often negative…just saying!
Nothing to say? Then don’t say anything…always a downer.
You would probably have to pay someone!!!!!
Reading through these comments brings back a great deal of memories. I’ve had some great sexual experiences over the years, a few too many to mention, but one of the recent ones was with a Middle Eastern man. We met online and we weren’t too detailed on what we were into. We just chatted and barely talked about sex. Eventually I invited him over to chill because neither of us didn’t have any plans on a Saturday night. As soon as I opened the door, we gave each other a kiss, and then another, and before I knew it we… Read more »
Best sex for me is when my partner and I are mutually satisfying each other, my current lover is a very passiinate and generous sex partner and it seems like each sexual encounter with him just keeps raising the bar as best ever.
The best sex I ever had was when I linked up with this guy from the club. I was so drunk, I didn’t even remember giving him my number. Anywho, he called the next day and came over about an hr later. We chatted for about 30 mins, but then the sexual tension overpowered us. I topped him and the sex was soooo good. He was a vbttm, so we flipped. When I tell you that was the best dick I ever had. He had we convulsing perfusively and I didn’t want him to ever stop. Its like I had… Read more »
I’m a fit 61 year old Married bi top man and my wife and I are a bi couple so she knows I enjoy men solo and has no objections. For the last year I have been seeing an older (64) submissive bottom man and our twice monthly sessions are just wonderful! We usually start with lots of passionate kissing and sucking each other’s nipples and cocks, them I fuck him slow and deep. Our last session, I had him on his back fucking him missionary as he held me tight and wrapped his slender lags around me. The fuck… Read more »
My other sensationally memorable sex was my 1st time being spit roast, around 2011. I answered an ad on a sex site, got the address, and showed up 30 minutes later. An older (50 or so?) guy answered, and let me in. He introduced himself and his latino fuckbuddy. We chatted a few minutes, then went to the bedroom. I got on the bed, naked, on all fours. The old guy undressed, and climbed on the bed in front of me, presenting me with the perfect penis. 8 inches and thick, with a big mushroom head. I’ve always thought of… Read more »
I had a friend who was a great cocksucker. We would get together about every two weeks. He would suck my cock until I shot a load into his mouth. Then it would be my turn to go down on him. The great part about sucking him was that when he was about to cum, his whole body would begin to quiver, especially his legs. It made me feel like he really appreciated my efforts. Of course he gave me a nice load which I greedily swallowed.
I’m a very discreet closet bottom, I really enjoy getting fucked,, the idea of sneaking around and the taboo of being with men is a big turn for me, especially being face down and ass up with a man behind me with a big dick up my ass, but with all that being said I also enjoy sucking the cum out of a mans dick, I think I could swallow three or four loads a day
Three instances come to mind: 1) Back before apps on the internet we’d find guys on phone chat lines. I was bored one day and was looking for a guy to give a massage to. I talked to an interesting guy who invited me over. When I got to his place, I found out the guy was a college gymnast with a fat 8 inch cut cock. I gave him a great massage, then ate his ass and sucked his dick. I came hands free from the sound of him moaning. 2) Another time I chatted with a guy who… Read more »
I had this fuck buddy for years. We met of Craigslist personals and it was an anon situation. Over three years we never kissed and maybe spoke a total of 6 sentences. Most of the times he’d just be bent over naked and I’d use his ass for 10 min and leave him bent over dripping cum. It was known that it was just a hot rough fucking and nothing more. Then one day Idky but I was super horny and emailed him. No joke, as soon as I sent the email and went back to my inbox I saw… Read more »