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Former Australian National Basketball League (NBL) star Andrew “AJ” Ogilvy has publicly come out as gay, marking a significant moment in LGBTQ+ visibility in professional sports. The retired center revealed his sexuality in a conversation with Isaac Humphries—the openly gay Adelaide 36ers star— ahead of the NBL’s fourth annual Pride Round. Ogilvy shared personal details of his journey and why he chose to speak openly now.
Ogilvy, now 37, played 218 career games in the NBL with clubs such as the Illawarra Hawks and Sydney Kings, earning three All-NBL First Team selections and playing internationally in Europe before retiring in 2022.
In an interview with NBL player Isaac Humphries, himself one of the few openly gay professional men’s basketball players, Ogilvy reflected on his decision to come out. “There’s now a place for us to have this conversation, to be able to talk as openly as this,” Ogilvy said, explaining he felt ready to share his truth only after retirement and after witnessing growing acceptance in the sport.
Ogilvy also emphasized how important it is for people to feel supported when exploring their sexuality. “If people want to talk to someone, people want to be able to ask opinions, ask questions, it gives them someone else to reach to,” he added, underlining the value of representation.
The former NBL star also opened up about the challenges of balancing his private life with his professional career. Ogilvy married his long-term partner in 2024, whom he met while playing for the Sydney Kings more than a decade earlier.
“I’ve been married for nearly 18 months now. I met my husband when I was playing in Sydney, so I was with him for all my time in Wollongong and part of the time in Sydney,” Ogilvy said.
“While I was in Sydney, I kept [my two lives] pretty separate, but I also wasn’t super discreet about it.
“Some of the guys probably knew, but nothing was ever explicitly said.
“I was very lucky with my career, I got to travel the world and get paid to play basketball, which is such a privilege.”
He admitted that although some teammates may have been aware of his relationship at the time, he didn’t feel comfortable publicly disclosing his sexuality during his playing days. “I probably didn’t live my life as authentically as I probably could have during my time, especially in the NBL,” he said.
Part of the reason for his hesitation, Ogilvy explained, stemmed from a belief early in his career that to be a successful basketball player he had to “present as straight,” an idea he now recognizes as rooted in outdated expectations about masculinity and sexuality in sport.
Isaac Humphries applauded Ogilvy’s courage, calling it a meaningful moment for LGBTQ+ visibility in basketball. “It’s not about forcing or anything, it’s just a bit of visibility for a community… Everybody is welcome. Basketball is such a universal space and universal game; why wouldn’t we also celebrate this community?” Humphries said, framing the announcement as a step forward for inclusion.
The announcement also sheds light on the evolution of the NBL Pride Round itself. Now in its fourth year, Pride Round features club-led initiatives designed to promote inclusion, education, and community engagement throughout the league’s venues, reflecting a broader push within sports to recognize and uplift LGBTQ+ athletes, fans, and families, PinkNews reports.
Reaction from fans online has been overwhelmingly supportive, with many highlighting how Ogilvy’s openness could inspire other athletes who have not yet felt comfortable sharing their identities publicly. Commenters noted that visibility from accomplished professionals—especially in male-dominated sports—can help younger gay athletes and closeted professionals feel less alone.
Watch Ogilvy’s conversation with Humphries below:
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Having dated a Former Athlete myself it can be quite a challenge for them to reveal their True self without placing their career in jeopardy. i went out with a former Baseball player (6’5 220) very athletic, masculine and muscular on the outside but a real softie in private. Told he loved the sport but never felt comfortable in the locker room and rarely looked up. Told me many thought he was somewhat anti social and way too private never disclosing anything about himself. Funny thing is, it was basically a Blind Date (favor for a Friend) and I pretty… Read more »
A healthy psyche is everything, regardless of his athletic-handsome appearance, you made the right choice, for your own well-being on multiple levels. I hope he’s getting help-counseling, sick people make other people sick.
DAMAGED SOUL – He needs to HEAL himself if he CAN and wants to!!! You can’t heal a person like that 🙁
This is nice, but former pro athletes coming out as gay is getting pretty common these days. The real news will be when CURRENT pro athletes come out.
“Today’s Headlines = Tomorrow’s Garbage”!
I understand what you’re saying but__ maybe it’s just me, but honestly I don’t care who other people (complete strangers) sleeps with. Only time I would care is if NFL player Odell Beckham wanted to spend the night with me. Lol.
Since pro athletes are often idolized/emulated by teens/young men, I think that there’s real value in them coming out publicly. Even more so now that it seems that young men are increasingly attracted to “toxic masculinity” and are becoming somewhat more homophobic. Every time a pro athlete comes out, it is more proof to these young people that gays are not a threat to their masculinity.
And why do we care?
We don’t but we pretend that we do!
Any guy who wants to make his sexuality public (or not) has the right to do so. Professional Gay celebrities and athletes (current or former) have become so common that they’ve lost the “oh shock!” value main stream media thrives on. If their story is picked up, it’s treated more like just any other news of the day. What happens after they reveal their sexuality is a telling point. Is it the first thing they talk about every time they’re in the spotlight? That can turn people off, Gay or Straight. If they just go on with their life as… Read more »
For the most part, these gay athletes are in a short-lived spotlight because they came out. So, I don’t think that it is unreasonable for them to discuss their sexuality. A former pro athlete who has just come out is not being interviewed for their opinion on Gaza.
Now it’s just trendy. How many more will suddenly emerge? Will the locker room ever be safe again…
HOW is it NOT SAFE?!?!!? DUH
I think that you’re missing the sarcasm.
And SAFE for WHAT?!?!?
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