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Hey, guys! Let’s talk about the final act. The grand finale. The splashy end to a steamy session that leaves your toes curling and your sheets in need of a serious rinse.
Where do you like to cum?
If you’re a top, maybe you pull out just in time to blast your man’s chest, watching it glisten as he moans in approval. Or maybe you flip him over and paint his back—or better yet, his butt cheeks—as if they were a masterpiece in progress. Some prefer the intimacy of cumming inside (condoms on, hopefully!), while others love the visual thrill of a faceful or a hot surprise in the mouth.
Now, bottoms—we didn’t forget you. Where do you want it? On your face with a wink? In your mouth with a swallow? Or do you love the fullness of a creampie (preferably after a mutual health convo, of course)? Maybe you’re all about watching your top stroke it out and coat you wherever his aim decides. Some of y’all love it messy. Some love it clean. Some love both, depending on the mood and the man.
For me? It depends. If it’s someone I’ve been seeing regularly, the trust’s there to get a little more adventurous—maybe face, maybe inside, maybe that perfect butt-shot moment. But for one-night heat or casual flings, I play it safe and sexy: condoms, pull-outs, and zero surprises.
Let’s also be real here. As hot as cum-play can be, health and hygiene matter. Cumming inside without protection carries risks—HIV, STIs, and all the awkward conversations that come after. Swallowing? Fun for some, not for others, and still comes with its own hazards. If it’s a yes for you, awesome—just make sure it’s a yes that’s informed and consensual. The sexiest thing is knowing your status and caring about your partner’s, too.
So, whether your thing is spattering a chest, dripping down a back, filling up a condom, or aiming for that sweet spot just above the navel—there’s no wrong way to finish as long as you’re both (or all) on the same page. Cum is personal. Positions are personal. Preferences? Deeply personal.
It’s not just about where you cum—it’s how you feel doing it.
What about you guys? How do you like your cum? Where do you like to cum?
Tell us in the comments section down below. Spill. Share. We promise we’re listening—with clean towels at the ready.
Bottom here. I want the top (or tops if group) to flood my ass with their loads. When I get off, I want to shoot my load and see where it goes, and the more turned on I am, the further I will shoot. If a guy wants to swallow my load, that works too.
Here’s that hungry ass
Very nice picture
Personally, I love when he cums inside me. There’s nothing like the intimacy of feeling him cum inside of me, and I love the feeling. It takes a certain level of trust (and honest communication) which adds to the intimacy. With that said, I also love when he cums on my face, lips, man-boobs, nipples, belly, ass or mouth. I love seeing him get off, and knowing I had a “hand” in it.on. Feeling his desire and seeing him satisfied is a huge turn Knowing I was able to please him and satisfy his needs and desires is pretty much… Read more »
I totally understand, I love the idea of having a part in helping a man get his rocks off, rather I’m sucking him, letting him bend me over , just the other dea of being used by anuhta man,
When I bottom, in my bottom, please. I love the sensation, and the happiness of my partner when it’s hot and heavy. When I top, I cum harder orally, but deep in a slut bottom is also highly satisfying. Favorite: man in the middle in a group.
Wherever he wants it! Mouth, ass, face, chest, back…
Me: On his face, in his mouth
Him: in my mouth, on my chest (if the cum is warm)
Warm cum feels so good, but not every guy’s cum is warm
Interesting. I didn’t know that.
If his cum isn’t warm, he’s got a major problem on his hands.
When I top I like to put my load deep inside my bottom and hopefully make him cum hands free. After I pull out of him I will lick up his load and feed it to him in a hot kiss was we bask in the afterglow with so making out.
I like to shoot my load all over a cock then ride it until my hole gets filled with cum.
I’m only truly satisfied after I’ve cum inside. Actually, it’s the only way I can cum. Ideally, bb. But, of course, I don’t bb with every guy.
What’s the deciding factor for letting a guy bust off inside you?
I have never had a guy cum inside me. The last couple of times I bottomed, it was during the late 80’s and I wouldn’t dare bb at the time because of HIV. Since then, I’ve only topped.
To bottom bb, I would have to be on PrEP AND he would have to be either on PrEP or undetectable with evidence. I’m probably more risk adverse than some.
I love when a man fucks me bb and shoots his cum deep inside me, such an intimate feeling…
I like him to stay inside of me until he fills the condom.
Take condom off…
Met with an FWB recently. We kissed and rubbed each other for a time. Sucking, too, until we moved to 69. Eventually he was on his back with me beside him. With two fingers, I traced his jaw, neck, chest, nips, stomach, and pubes (scratching the later lightly). I repeated the process several times. After that, I added some tracings along his cock and around his balls. I repeated the process several times until he was rock hard. Being sure to only touch him with my hand, I stroked him for several minutes, then added deep kisses until he was… Read more »
Wherever i can get a taste
Bottom here. Love it deep in me. Watching my partners face as he gets close. Knowing i am giving him the ultimate pleasure. And then feeling his whole body quiver as he gives me my reward! Then receiving a happy ending from him makes my day!
I always try to impregnate my bottom guy…’Nuf said.
You sound like my current BF……he likes to blow inside and flood my insides and hope it drips out and runs down my legs. (He says it stakes his claim and ser ves as a reminder of Who owns the hole. Pig). Dated a guy for several years that loved to fuck but preferred to blow on your face or chest. Every guy is different. Only had one partner that I wanted him to blow down my throat and swallow but then again he was HAF, very healthy lifestyle and he really liked watching me take his cock and he… Read more »
how about a nice shower, with plenty of mildly warm water, a nice bar of hard-milled soap and a rough washcloth? perhaps, some effective moistening lotion, too?
Showers are great! Especially, during the first meeting. Finish up with drying the guy off. Some guys are surprised when you do it, but they end up smiling.
That’s not what anyone means by “finish”.
LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
OK so finish for you means, “as soon as there’s an orgasm the deal is done, game over, time for someone to head out the door as quickly as possible.” Great if that is considered “great sex!” for anyone. Enjoy! Finish for some other ones is when one of the ones puts on their pants, thanks the partner, and gets on their way quite some time after semen has been spewed. Probably next time such topics are discussed our friends at A4A will better ask the question more carefully: “Where do you like cum .. shoot your “load” …. drop… Read more »
Sorry that you seem to be new to how the English language works and how communities of people use it, Hunter, but I never suggested that “finishing” (ejaculating) was the end of the interaction. Of course you put on pants. (Thanking your partner? Okay. Weird, but okay.) But the word “finish” WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF THE BLOG POST means the act of ejaculation. How do you get along in a world where things that are so obvious to 99.999% of people, yet completely befuddle you? Do you need to be hand-walked through every single colloquialism like a child?
Congratulations on your new position as the A4A Blog Word, Interpretation, and Thought Police. Seems like it’s a perfect fit.
Excellent classy way to end a great session! It’s for guys who see sex sessions as more than “fuck and done” or who don’t want to be left sticky and shitty whether they’re the host or guest.
cleanliness is next to godliness! You understood why I wrote what I did. It is appreciated and acknowledged.
I want to receive a load in my ass or down my throat.
top here: anywhere. It all feels good.
I prefer to cum in their ass. I love my cock throbbing in a hot hole
I like to pump down their throat. Sometimes surprise them with a little piss.
Total bottom here and I want it inside me as deep as he can leave it. If it’s multiple guys. I love the feeling of all of them unloading in my ass.
I love to bust in a bttms ass or mouth… it’s a turn on… I also like for them to taste it afterwards.
Wherever he wants it. I always ask, my orgasm is great no matter where I finish.
I love to cum in the mouth ass
Plain and simple, when I pop my nut, I want to be shooting it down his throat.
Yes, down my throat. pull out and nut in my mouth.
I prefer to cum in their mouth! When I am receiving I prefer it in my mouth so I can swallow his cum. I prefer to bb when fucking. I do not top too much anymore so I prefer to be fucked bb so I can feel him better! It is all good though!!
I enjoy the idea of having anutha mans cum deep inside of me, and I like the fact of having a wet ass after getting fucked, but as a DL bi man I know the joy it gives me when a woman swallows my cum, So I know it’s gotta make man feel good to anutha man submit to him and swallow his cum, so I like to give him that manly feeling of having a man bow down and take his cum and swallow it, it a really big turn on to me to have a mans seed in… Read more »
The only thing that’s better than deep throating a cock is sucking down a big load while I bust my nut by hand!!
It all depends on the bottom for me. If he wants it inside then I cum inside him. I like to have the bottom in control on where he prefers for me to cum. Either way we are both going to cum.
Bottom here. I want the top to cum in my ass. Of course he will be wearing a rubber, but as he cums, I can clamp down on his throbbing dick with my ass muscles and I can feel the head of his dick swell up as the first wad shoots out and into the rubber. I am not adverse to swallowing a guys load on occasion. I do fantasize about taking a guys load up my ass bare back, but I’d only do that with a guy I know very well and fully trust.
I’m the same way, I like to get to know a guy, and if I build trust with him after a while, most definitely will suck him off and swallow his seed,, and let him bust inside me, no disrespect to anyone but I just can’t suck off every guy that comes along, and I’ve bottom for some guy that used a condom and the dick still felt good,, But I must say, it always good to swallow a good load and to get fucked BB
As a bottom, I love it when a guy finishes inside me. That 30 seconds or so when he tenses up and holds you so close and cums in you is wonderful. But for those guys that are not into anal I love it when they cover my stomach with their warm love juices.
Yes. That is awesome@
I enjoy swallowing and going after his cock when it has ejaculated. It is most sensitive at that time and I want him fully satisfied !
Bottom here. For example if it’s a blowjob or a handjob it is wherever the man decides. Be it in my mouth or on my face etc.
but, you can’t see the heels!
Bottom here. As for where the man cums. Wherever he decides. Be that in my mouth. On my face etc.
Uh … maximum possible points for the picture having absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand.
a girl can never have too many outfits, can she?
NOWHERE above the neck & def. NOT the mouth (makes me nauseous even thinking of it).
If you’re gonna shoot outside & then, somehow, push it back in…WHY even shoot outside to begin with?
If a guy doesn’t want to unload in my ass I love when guys cums all over my face or chest. I especially love if it’s a whole group of guys and I’ve got cum inside me and all over me. Probably my favorite all-time sexual experience was being the center of a gangbang where I lost track of how many guys fucked me and came on top of me
finish inside
am i full of hangups? i love his cum down my throat but i wont let that happen if his cock was up my ass… is that weird?
I’m a bottom. I like to let the Top decide where he wants to finish. While I love to feel him explode in my ass; I’m not opposed to him making me swallow his load or having him give me a facial
I love when I can feel my partner throb and shoot inside me. This can sometimes cause me to finish myself without being otherwise touched.
Inside a guy … PERIOD.
Love it all over my face
I love a good breeding session feeling a man’s cock deep inside of me cumming deep inside my ass while pressing his balls deep in me
I make them take it in the ass. If they try to squirm away it makes me cum harder.
I’m a dominant side–into the “giving” side of oral acts: mouth fucking, face sitting… alternating with “controlling” the orgasm of my partner–keeping him erect and edging so he keeps oozing pre-cum. I’m very verbal…giving and seeking feedback, while also requesting things to be done to me. As we build toward climax i like to make that last minute request:”Where do you want me to cum?….” At THAT point is when i determine my favorite spot to shoot…
I like to satisfy my top as a bottom on prep bareback so he can cum inside me. I give my bubble butt to him the way he wants it . I love clenching my ass tight to make him cum faster while i tell him to give it to me . Most tops want to bareback because it feels primal . When my top cums in me i clench tighter and cum myself handsfree. Eatmycakes a4a
Versatile here (and truly enjoying both rolls). Since having an exclusive “one on one” relationship for the last 5 years our trust has grown to where nothing is off limits, when I bottom I want my lover to cum inside me and when I top my lover enjoys the same. We often change things up routinely and will sometimes finish in each others mouths, we’re always swallowing each others nectar. Feel very fortunate to have found such an openly erotic passionate, steady lover.
Cum inside
Inside, hands down, my favorite….the epitome of intimacy…..condom, if trust has not been established…. With a regular partner, love that intimacy….the thrust, the stretch, the release, nothing better….
I love it when my partner finishes deep inside my ass or mouth. Whet it’s my turn to cum I love to either finish in his mouth or his ass, don’t like to waste a drop of our sweet nectar.
It changed over time for me. When I was younger, I got off pulling out and shooting on the butt, or between the ass cheeks. I also loved it when he wants to swallow after I pull out, or shoot on his face and chest. I was open to it all. Since I hit my 50s, I like finishing in the ass, no pulling out. I am not hard as I used to be when I come, and it mostly just runs out. It doesn’t squirt or shoot out like it used to. But occasionally, if I pull out in… Read more »
I let my partner cum wherever he likes, we switch it up at times I either swallow his juices or he’s cumming in my ass but the best which gets him hot is after penetration for a while he will pull out and have me finger my ass while he shoots all over my hole and than has me suck him off till he cums again.. I’m his little slave.
I personally will let the guy(s) finish where he wants to & I will always ask them were they want me to finish.