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So, a gay man online asked, “Who has cock on the mind all the time?”
He added:
“I’m always thinking things like ‘I wonder who in this room has the biggest cock’, ‘I wonder when the last time any of these guys fucked or ejaculated are.’ ‘I wonder if he’s ever tried things with a guy.'”
This post struck a nerve—and a few funny bones—because, let’s be honest, a lot of gay men could relate. Whether it’s idle curiosity, visual attraction, or full-blown sexual fantasy, thinking about cock isn’t exactly rare. For some, it’s a casual thought. For others, it’s practically a lifestyle. But how often is too often, and what’s actually going on when our minds go there?
We took a look at some of the most popular responses from gay men online. Here’s what they had to say—and maybe you’ll see yourself in these replies.
One gay man got right to the point: “Me because I’m always horny and I love giving head.” Another added, “I dream about cock 24/7.” Simple, honest, and zero shame. For some people, horniness is a constant state of being—and cock just happens to be the star of the show.
Then there’s the more curious, analytical gay men: “I really just wish I knew what every guy that walks past me looks like without clothes. Dick size proportion to body type is so fascinating to me. Men are just beautiful creatures.” That curiosity isn’t necessarily about sex, either—it’s about the body, the form, and the mystery.
For others, the fantasy deepens: “All the time! It starts with ‘wonder what his dick looks like’ then moves to ‘I wonder if he’s a grower’ to ‘I bet his dick tastes amazing.’ I’m a giant cock slut. Like I just want to make a man feel good. Use whatever hole you want. I just want to feel your dick.” That’s not just a fantasy—it’s a full-service mission statement.
Meanwhile, someone else raised an interesting point: “Just curious, do you have ADHD or attention issues? I’m realizing most of my satyr friends also have some form of attention deficit. Call it shiny balls syndrome, why think productive thoughts when we can just think about sex all the time!” Is it impulsivity or just being tuned into what turns you on?
Others had their own takes, with some adding nuance: “I don’t think about everyone’s cock because I’m picky about who I find attractive… but yeah if someone’s hot, their precious cock will be on my mind.” Another gay man chimed in, “Not all the time. I spend some time every day thinking about ass, and man nipples, and snogging guys.”
And finally, one sweet and grateful reply stood out: “Thanks to this post and the replies I realize I’m not alone.”
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? Do you find yourself constantly thinking about cocks—or is it more of an occasional curiosity? Do you think it says something about your sex drive, your attention span, or just your imagination? Drop a comment below, we want to hear from you!
Always checking out bulges! Seeing a guy walking towards me in grey sweatpants …
Yes I am a Bulge Hunter I check out men’s crotch areas all the time. I once was checking a Guys crotch and got caught Gazing. But he came over to me and said he was doing the same thing.
Needless to say, I got a viewing, Up close and Personal at his place.
Did you get that from your diary?
I need you
No.
Is this another gay stereotype?
would the question be answered any differently if a straight guy was asked: “Do you think about Cunt all the time”?
I think you would get a different response if you used “boobs” instead of “cunt”
the equivalent of Cock is Cunt. I simply gave the blog’s title a different bent and anyone who reads what I wrote will get the bent.
Equivalent?!!? Shame on you and you go wash your mouth out with soap. Cunt can’t even hope to imagine to aspire to be in the same universe as dick.
Penis RULES, LOL.
the equivalent is pussy!
The key part of the question is “ALL the time”.
I think the question is actually referencing about how horny you are which would make you think about it. Anyway, that is how I took the whole question up above.
But the defining part is the phrase “ALL the time”.
I need you
Interesting post!! I think about dick and ass just about all the time. Especially when watching great sport athletes performing. I was in Walmart one day and a slim guy walked in with his girlfriend wearing a pair of tan tennis shorts. He was fully erect with his dick positioned to the left. He had the most perfect 7- inch, medium thick dick I ever seen. I often daydream about that dude.
Whenever I see a man I think about what he’s got.
I do the same thing always wondering how big this and that guys dick is
I do that with my bosses and the men in my office building.
Everytime I see a good looking guy I’m always thinking about what his cock looks like and always picture myself giving him a nice slow BJ!!!
I think about cock all the time. I think about a guy being able to cum multiple times. I met a guy like that once, he came 4 times. It was awesome even it toward the end there wasn’t as much cum. I lilke to top and bottoom. Most of the times it only a interlude to get to sucking and swallowing his cum.
I was just out cutting the grass, and the whole time while doing so I was thinking about how I would much rather be sucking on a big nice dick, and how I have a whole weekend I could play while the family is gone , then I login to A4A and I see , Do you daydream about dick/cock, how interesting ? So the answer would be yes I do, I often think about the guys I’ve been with and their dicks, Then they’re times when I fantasies about getting fucked, sometimes even when having sex with my wife,… Read more »
I always cruise looking at a man’s crotch first thinking if it’s the best of his appearance, I’ve been pleasured regardless…
Do I think about cock all the time? C’mon, gimme a break. Just because my eyes generally drift to a guys package area to figure out its size and shape, or his ass area, or the plumpness of his lips, or the likelihood I could score with him, or when I wake up with a woody, my first thoughts are where’s a set of him lips to wrap around this while I’m wrapping my lips around his, or I try to figure out whether he’s a top or bottom…….. Okay, so I do think about cock all the time. Guilty… Read more »
I’m almost always ready to suck any guy I find attractive.
I’m usually looking at a man’s crotch wondering the same thing. Is he a grower, small, cut/uncut and also curious if he ever tried m2m sex.
That’s anutha thing, I’m always wondering if a guy in bi/DL , I’m a closet bi bottom, I’m always looking at guys crotch area, I do know it’s more and more of us straight acting guys are sucking dicks and getting fucked these days, but I’m not sure about the tops, I think it definitely need more tops, getting fucked feel so much better, just the idea of being submissive and letting anutha man have his way with me feels good
“bi/DL” Both of those terms have never been compliments, always with some level of disdain by “The Community”.
Guys who have sex with men but reserve (as is their right) to make it known only those they feel need to know, such as guys they have sex with and close friends/family.
So since “The Community” loves to label, label, label … what term/label could be added?
I thought “Revs”: as in “Reserved” but maybe some have other tags.
Short answer “Yes!”
Almost never.
That behavior is a mark of an undisciplined and lazy mind.
This is one of those instances in which the majority is depraved.
Are you able to breath up there on that moral high horse, Mary?
Yes. 100% think about my cock all the time, daydreaming about what’s next for my dick.
No! I’m a top. Seriously, I don’t, in spite of the male libido for some elderly bottoms I’ve dealt with in a4a, Tagged, Taimi, Instagram, Snapchat, Google Chat, WhatsApp and Facebook, my mind is on traveling, playing with my grandkids, shopping, reading and sex with bottoms. And from the other side of this question, I don’t always think about bottoms either…I’m bi.
Just my opinion, I think it mostly the bottoms that possibly think of dicks most of the day, I’m bi/gay and a straight acting married guy, I think about pussy also, but I think I think about dicks and sucking them and getting fucked equally, Hell I have a dick fetish, and if any bottom enjoy getting fucked as much as I do , I bet they’re always thinking about anutha mans dick , what it feels like, taste like , how big, so you being a top, you may not understand, DICK is what’s for dinner these days, So… Read more »
If it’s like in a sexual obsession type of way, hell no! Got too many things to do then sit around thinking about a man’s dick or ass all day. But do I check out a guy’s junk from time to time then yeah if the guy is hot and has a nice body. I mean even straight girls isn’t going to ignore a handsome guy with a big bulge in his pants.
Agreed. I have an occupation, a family, goals, and things to accomplish. I probably think about sex as much as the next guy. Certainly not “all the time” because there are many more important things to focus on.
Between the many “yes” answers here and the answers to the “Fantasy” blog a week or so ago, where most guys wanted their asses totally plowed, it’s no wonder society in general thinks gay guys are loons.
Chill my friend. This is a board for gay minded guys to share their thoughts. We all get wrapped up in the moment and can suffer from diarrhea of the mouth on occasion. I highly doubt that many of us think 24/7 about cock, although we may have portrayed it as such here.
Of course it’s the trash bags of reddit
I stare at guy’s crotches as well and think the same as everyone else does.
I’m always thinking about a nice hard cock, love sucking it to completion and swallow his warm cum. Also love a nice hard cock in me.
Always but with one guy only, not into random hookups.
I like checking out crotches, especially in the summer to see what’s flopping underneath. Generally wear nothing under my shorts. Like hanging free to keep things cool down there.
After reading some of the comments on here, I also wonder what everyone’s current life experience is like. I remember learning in Biology that if an organism feel’s safe in its environment and is having all of their “Needs” met, than they are primed for “mating.” If an organism in anyway is not having its “Needs” met or under constant stress from its environment than the need to mate will not be there. There are quite a few people on here who comments that they are too busy to constantly think about sex or men or “insert your choice.” It… Read more »
And balls! I like to start with hairy ball & groin worship.
I remember taking on cleaning the gym. I could stare at running coach every other pass dust mopping the basketball court.
I think about worshipping, sucking and swallowing big thick cocks 24/7. I luv pleasuring studs with my mouth, and feeling them explode down my throat. I’ve decided my purpose in life is to bring the ultimate pleasure to men. Hearing their animalistic moans and groans as they ejaculate due to my oral skills makes me have a mental orgasm. I know I’m a slut and can’t get enough cock. It really doesn’t matter what the guy looks like either. If he has a thick, veiny, handsome cock I’m on my knees as quickly as possible. The only way to satiate… Read more »
Yes, yea and umm, YES
Yes, I want cock all the time, so it is always on my mind.
I would love to read how straight women would answer this question. I like looking at big dicks and bulges but I don’t think about them. I think about sex in general mostly.
I do. I think about dick and ass constantly. More likely, some man’s big cock in my ass. Some days I get lucky, and some days I dont.
Honestly, I think about sex many times a day, period, not just “dick” but sex in general.
in a word…YES!
I am single and a horny bottom so YES I do
Yes I am single and a horny bottom so yes all the time
I think about cock a lot i love sucking them i love touching them i just love everything about them i do check out guys if I’m out somewhere and I’m curious about how big there cock is when I see there bulge in there pants and how much fun i would have with it
As a TOTAL TOP….. NO, I DO “NOT” DREAM OR THINK OF COCK AT ALL (altho if turned on enough, I might give a quick “reach around” but only IF…. I’m feeling it. I do think of sex A LOT and me being with a younger smooth & soft effeminate submissive twink type with a cute sexy ass 🙂
Bet you look down on all your sexual partners because they’re not ‘total tops’
i usually find a guy or two i think attractive and wonder what his balls and asshole scent is like
Me too!! I often wonder the same. I see a nice looking, sexy looking guy in the gym or anywhere and wonder what his ass hole smell like. It can be tub/shower fresh, not so fresh, or funky. I take tub baths once or twice every day instead of showering. When I do a sniff test back there, with my fingers later in the day, I always smell better after a soaking tub bath as opposed to a long shower.
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most of the time…get real we are gay men!
I am a single hungry bottom so I am always thinking about cock
Focused on cock when I am not getting any, which is most of the time. Just love the taste of cock and cum….
Yes I enjoy sucking dicks myself, I enjoy being on my knees or in bed between a mans legs sucking his dick, sometimes I like to just slow suck him and lick it like like a ice cream cone slow deep throats, sometimes I like to give good wet and sloppy with a can of spray cool whip and sometimes a good nice and slow clean sucking, but either way he’ll be clean and dry once I’m done, or should I say he’s done, because if it’s up to me I will be sucking til the cow come home
I am always daydreaming of cock, I am also often looking for bulges. I have no shame for my desires..
All the time and then some.
When I travel and we’re coming in to land I look at all the houses / buildings and think of all the men and their cocks walking around / driving their cars..
Hey all I think about is cock. I’m a very oral guy. Size does matter when you’re checking out bulges and cock prints on sweatpant and short. I check everyone package that I feel is attractive. Love being around attractive guys who say they are straight and I’m think if I could only show them how much better I am at sucking him. Just love cock
I’ve always thought if a guy ask another guy to let him suck his dick, I truly believe if it’s the right place and time and he thought no one would know, I believe he will let it happen, you just gotta have the nerves to ask them, I’m a 100% bottom when with men, I enjoy letting women suck my dick , but when I’m with men, I want to be the one doing the sucking and getting fucked, nowadays when I’m with men, I only use my dick to cum, I don’t want him to touch it ,… Read more »
When I see a black guy I wonder how big his cock is and wonder how big of a load he could give me
Pretty much an unapologetic crotch watcher 24/7.
No. Think about paying bills and living my life. Sex is icing on the cake, but not something that dictates (pun accepted) my life. Life shouldn’t be a monkey cage
Not really. Or not always, anyway. I’m a MWM who has lately been heavy into MM sex and enjoying my bi- or let’s just call it gay side, and enjoying cruising. While I’m still attracted to my wife, her health issues don’t allow as much sexual interaction as we’d like, so by mutual agreement, I’m hall-passing for FWB men to enjoy the gay world of sexuality, and it’s been so enjoyable. Do I constantly think about cock? When I’m in that mood and mode, I’d have to say yes, as I love being an oral pleaser. But I always hope… Read more »
Do you think about cock all of the time. If by cock, you mean men then probably 90% of the time. If you actually mean a dick, then probably about 25% of the time. There are other things in life. Replacing the water heater, mowing the lawn, car repairs, etc. There are also other factors about men. Personality, cleanliness, smile, and looks, to name a few.