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Hey, guys! What’s your most unforgettable sexual experience?
A recent post in r/askgaybros got us thinking: is the best sex always with your current partner, or does it belong to a past fling? Whether it’s a long-term love or a one-time spark, we all have that moment that stands out. So let’s talk about it—what makes for truly memorable sex?
For some, it’s about being on the same wavelength emotionally and physically. One commenter noted, “Definitely my current partner. We are so sexually on the same page it’s off the scale for me.” They realized that the best sex wasn’t just about the physical, but the emotional connection that amplified everything. Others echo this, feeling that even the “normal” sex with someone they deeply connect with easily tops a wild hookup with no strings attached.
Meanwhile, some find that these memories come from a past partner they can’t quite shake like this gay man who shared: “I had a guy I hooked up with regularly when I was 19-21. Dude fucked like nothing one had since.” This person went so far as to name a toy after the guy, forever honoring the experience with a cheeky tribute.
For others, it’s not so much about the person as it is about the experience itself. Another user recalls, “I met this guy who seemed innocent and shy over text, but in bed, he was an absolute dom… he pinned me down harder and whispered in my ear, ‘If you want to do something about it, you need to be stronger than me.’” This intensity left a lasting impact that they still reminisce about today.
Others find that the best sex wasn’t about technique or kink but a sense of safety and understanding with their partner. One commenter recalls a long-time partner, 30 years his senior, who took him through an intimate journey of trust and mutual respect: “He knew how to work me as if he was taking a car apart and putting it together again.” Even now, years later, that experience remains at the top of his memory.
Whether your best sex came from an unexpected hookup, a soul-deep connection, or a memory that’s stood the test of time, it’s clear we all have unique answers to what makes sex unforgettable. So, Adam4Adam readers, tell us: what’s your story? Do you reminisce about past partners or find that your current relationship holds the best experiences? Let us know in the comments section down below!
