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For many, the first time giving or receiving oral sex can be an unforgettable milestone. Whether awkward, exhilarating, or unexpectedly funny, these moments often shape how we view intimacy and connection. A Reddit user on r/askgaybros once asked, “Tell me about the first time you sucked dick?” The responses ranged from hilarious and heartwarming to introspective. Here’s a look at some shared experiences, and we’d love to hear your stories, too!
One user fondly recalled their first boyfriend. “It was likely our 2nd/3rd date, he came over in a suit (we were going to a friend of mine’s wedding) and I was horny the minute he walked in. I went down on him and he said, ‘You’ve done that before,’ and I hadn’t. We were both beaming at the wedding as my friends said I had a shit-eating grin on my face all night. Good memories :).” It’s a testament to how passion and spontaneity can create unforgettable memories.
Another gay man described their experience as a journey of self-discovery. “It was… interesting lol. It was awkward AF, nothing like porn at all and as a total introvert I was shocked I did it TBH. But, it was nice to sexually experiment and it was an overall good experience as it made me comfortable in recognizing there is nothing wrong about exploring one’s self or identity. Would I do it again? Yes, but with a partner in a monogamous relationship as I’m not a fan of hooking up, it’s just not my cup of tea.” This highlights how experimenting can be both awkward and affirming.
A playful memory came from another user who shared, “Started with a lot of heavy making out and we were both rock hard. Told me to go down and I did. My first time seeing an uncut cock up close but it was gorgeous. Didn’t cum in my mouth. Went back to making out and we jerked his cock off until he exploded. Then he blew me and I only lasted a minute.” This story reflects how physical exploration often goes hand in hand with curiosity and excitement.
Some stories took unexpected turns. “Well, the first time I got my dick sucked the guy asked me ‘Did you want to try?’ I said yes… believing that he was asking if I wanted to suck his dick. That is in fact NOT what he meant and this is actually the first time I bottomed.” This one had a surprising ending that likely left them with a funny and memorable first.
So, Adam4Adam blog readers, what about you? What was your first experience giving or receiving a blow job like? Was it awkward, magical, or something entirely unexpected? Share your stories in the comments section below. We’d love to hear from you!
My first was at a bar. I was attending university in Milwaukee. I was exploring my sexuality so I decided I need to go to a gay bar. Bar not a club. Quiet evening so I ordered a beer. A guy walked in and was talking to the few guys in the bar. They turned to me. I was shy at this time. He walked over to my table. We started some small talk. He said he needed to use the bathroom and suggested I should join him. He pulled his pants down and he was huge. Took my head… Read more »
My first one was when I was 17 I was on my way home from work and ran out of gay one cold January night when a guy stopped and helped me get going I told him I didn’t have any money to pay him but could pay him tomorrow at the time he said not to worry about it we can work something out later I never gave it much thought I just wanted to get my car running and off the road We got to running and he followed me home to make sure I got there I… Read more »
heyy ill suck it
I want a taste
l definitely would suck that awesome cock dry and never waste a drop
The first time I sucked a dick was when I was young with some friends in a fort built by older teens. I was 14 back then. First kid pushed his dick into my mouth and my first reaction was that his dick was so tasty! Even when he came with a lot of cum, I found it enjoyable. Other boys quickly used me and pushed their dicks into my mouth and made me suck them all. One kid decided my ass was fair came and I was spit roasted. I never forgot that moment. I was used by each… Read more »
I was 18 and stopped at an interstate rest area to use toilet. There was a hole in the wall and I could see the guy in the stall next to me jerking off. I had always wanted to taste a dick but never had the opportunity, so after watching him for a few minutes, he stood up and stuck his dick through the hole, and I nervously took it into my mouth. I had no idea what I was doing, but whatever I was doing apparently worked, because very soon I had a mouth full of cum. Didn’t know… Read more »
I’m 64 and it took place when I was 18, but I remember it like it was yesterday: The guy set us up in a 69 position. As he began sucking mine, my face moved just inches his erect 8-incher and with zero hesitation I gobbled it up. I was so revved up and didn’t want to cum in a nano-second that I had to keep asking him to take pauses from sucking mine. After doing a fair bit of that, we ‘graduated’ to flip-fucking wherein the moment I sunk my cock inside his ass, I came instantly.
One of my very favorites was with a cute blond guy age 18 who didn’t have a photo! He just came over & we kissed, got naked, then he sucked me very well & swallowed! Of course I returned the favor 😉 Now he’s in his 30s & moved to Arizona *sigh*
I’m sorry you lost your wonderful friend. I hope you find someone.
I live in Arizona!
Ok.. first off… I experimented like most of us did with my close best friend when i was 15 till we where 17… we tried the basics. touch, suck, and fucked, you all know the scene. Never finished in each others mouths… Next would be girl friends…..and that’s not this site…lol… so fast forward to what i consider is my first blow job ever to completion (man or woman )…and cumming in there mouth…. Now this would also be my first with any guy other then my best friend and my start to the path of being bi and where… Read more »
I had always been curious, so when I met a guy he let me suck his dick, as I was about to do it , I told him to let me know when he was about to cum , so I could stop ,so I started sucking him and my dick got hard, I could feel myself about to cum without him or myself touching my dick, it had turned me on that much, so after about 15 minutes he told me he was about to cum, I was so into it before I knew it his cum was coating… Read more »
My first 100 + blow jobs were from woman. I never cared for them or even came close to cumming from one. It was fun watching a girl choke on my cock, but it was just like someone massaging my arm or something, felt good, just not orgasmic. This guy finally broke me down who I met at a bar and became friends. I was horny and he offered to help me out. I’ve never really been attracted to men, but always knew I’d be ok if I ended up liking guys, so it didn’t take much to convince me… Read more »
Honestly the first one I received must not have been that great as I do not remember it at all. However, the first one I gave is another story. I was 12 and in the backyard fort with my bestie. He had swiped one of his older brothers Playboy mags. We were looking at it and he started to rub his crotch. I was looking at that instead or the Playboy. He looked over at my crotch and said we both must be getting turned on as we both are showing boners. He suggested we take them out to stork… Read more »
I don’t remember it and I didn’t love it.
was your first with either Methuselah or Moses? If so, it might explain why you can’t remember it?
LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
I was 13, a male class mate of mine stayed overnight at our house for my birthday. that night he gave me the best birthday present I would ever have, my first blow job. after he got tired I sucked his thick cock and enjoyed it. I never thought anything that could feel that good, could be a bad thing. We continued to be reciprocating best friends for about 4 years.
I was 18 and in an adult video arcade. a guy propositioned me and i said no thanks. he said just try it to see if you like it. i went in his booth and im hooked for life. now i like to give head. sucked 20 guys this in the last 5 days! lol
my first time with oral sex with a male was with my best friend growing up. we were 12 or 13. funny thing is, we put baggies over our cocks. that lasted for a couple of weeks and we finally trusted one another to not cum in the other’s mouth. then that did not last as we both enjoyed feeling and taste of hot cum in our mouths. we had the luxury of being able to have fun every day while in our teens. our daily hookups ended when i went away to college, but we continued to hook up… Read more »
Exhilrating didnt want to stop sucking
It was awesome and when I give my first blowjob I just remember how guys did it in porn and just took it from there guys say it comes naturally to me and I am pretty good at it
massage -I anticipated just a hand job but was pleasantly surprised –
I wouldn’t give you just a hand job either
Yummy…would love to pleasure your cock with my mouth and you ride, slide and glide my ass crack and hump my hole….cum for me…in my mouth or in my ass crack
The first time I gave head was with a guy who I met on craigslist. I went over to his apartment with curiosity of…..am I going to actually do this??? I walked in and he offered me a beer, after about 20 minutes of talking and getting to know each other, he was sitting on the couch and asked if I was ready to try. I remember going over next to him and sitting on the floor beside the couch. He was wearing scrubs and he started to slightly rub his private area. He asked me if I wanted to… Read more »
I gave my first blowjob at 40, it was a set up by my wife.We were thinking about trying swinging and she wanted me to meet a guy she was talking to about meeting. Now when she made the profile she had me as bi but the only thing I had done was talk to her about bi sex.So she found this guy to fuck but asked me to meet him first not knowing she wanted me to play bi first .So I agreed to meet him at our house after kids went to school. So he’s right on time… Read more »
It was my first sexual experience with a dude. I was about 42 and curious. Book store booth in a small town. Attractive young guy signaled me to come in his booth. He locked the door when I got in, dropped to his knees, unfasten my pants, pull down my drawers and I felt warm lips and a wet mouth all over my rock hard dick. It felt better than any blow job I ever had. It was amazing and way better than I anticipated!!!!! I nutted in about 2 minutes and he swallowed every drop. I’ll never forget that… Read more »
I was at a near by ABS watching a video and ran out of tokens going to get more this guy asked where I was going so fast( I was 18 at the time) I said to get more tokens. He said he had some asked if I wanted share a booth .I thought ok so we were watching a girl giving a guy a BJ he unzipped his pants and startsJO and asked if I was going to JO ok I thought why not so undid my pants and did the same he reached over and grabbed my cock… Read more »
Well i was a truck driver an always heard guys on cb radio,i used to pull in rest areas n lets guys blow me an 1 day i meet a guy that lived near me so he invited me over to his placed after a few times i finally went down on him an enjoyed sucking ever since that was in my 50’s
I suck my first cock in my 50s
It was awesome and I knew THEN that was what I was meant to do for the rest of my life since it felt so natural, normal, and fantastic!!! And NEVER played the BI game or gave a flying fu*k what anyone thought about me!!! 🙂
My first blowjob (and fuck) was with a friend in high school. I really don’t remember the details but I know it felt good and I liked it. I didn’t start hooking up with men again until I was in my 30’s. I don’t really remember my first blowjob when I started hooking up with guys again, but I do remember the first time I swallowed. There was a guy I met online and he was tall with what I would describe as a muscular dad bod and he was rather dominant. Every time he would come over I was… Read more »
i was a young boy, groomed by my grandmother for her boyfriend to play with. Hated it at first, once it was nearly an every day thing it began to feel like it was the normal thing to do. Now it is like starting over stepping out of the straight lifestyle for years, getting divorced and becoming a cocksucker all over again. Now love it.
Hope they were BOTH charged with CHILD ABUSE!!!!!! 🙁
I was 8 when I saw my sleeping 21yr old uncles dick… I instinctively wanted to put my mouth on it… I liked it and did it about 3 different times before one night I did it and he woke up… he held my head on his dick and shot his load in my mouth … he never came the other times I sucked him so I wasn’t sure what happened… but after that night I sucked him off a lot
Was 15 in HS. Me and my best friend were drinking and got pretty buzzed. Went skinny dipping in my pool. I noticed he got a hard on. We got out and I asked if he needed help with that? He said maybe… we went to my room as the house was empty. He started to dry hump me and push his cock in my hole but was not working. I put some Vaseline on his cock and he entered my virgin hole but it hurt like HELL so we stopped. He swung around and put his cock in my… Read more »
Better ENDING than BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN for SURE!!!!!!! 🙂
You put a dick smothered in Vaseline in your mouth? That could not have tasted good…
My first time I was in high school. My friend and I were sitting on the couch watching TV. Out of the blue he asked me if I ever thought about sucking a cock. Surprised and shocked. I said no. After a while he leaned down and let my cock out and started sucking me for a while. Then he got up. Went into the kitchen to get a drink. Came back stood in front of me. Let his cock out, grabbed my head and shoved his cock into my mouth. Totally shocked and surprised I started sucking his cock.… Read more »
My first was with my best friend at 15 on a weekend sleepover. We’d masturbated together and eventually started fucking each other’s mouths. I was so fascinated by his uncut cock. It was beautiful! I always looked older than I was and so not long after the first experience, I discover arcades in bookstores and got my big teen cock sucked many times by older patrons.
I’ve cum to realize that it’s more of us sucking dicks these days, when I say us I mean straight acting guys, married guys ( myself ) us closet dick suckers,, I’m married and I’ve been sucking men off for years now. I not only suck guys off but I also like getting fucked. But in the pass 3 to 5 yrs I’ve learned three guys that I’ve known for years are out there sucking the meat off the bone. And some other guys that have let men record them for some crazy reason and later exposed them, but anyway… Read more »
My first time giving a blow job was way too late. I’d been going to adult book stores and video arcades to watch corn and jack off. On one visit I happened to go into a booth with a hole in the wall to the next booth. I put some money in to start the video and then it happened about 5 minutes later, a big hard cock appear through the hole. At first I didn’t know what to do, I nervously touched it and he began to thrust it back and forth. At that moment I was so curious… Read more »
Reminds me of trips to the RED BARN adult bookstore in Berlin, New Jersey.
My first time was at age 14. I put my mouth around my friends dick, but he just giggled and pulled away. When I was 18, I was hitchhiking in upper Michigan when a guy in his forties pulled over and picked me up. He had some schnapps in the car and offered it to me. After a few minutes, I was quite well lit. It was dark out and he pulled off the highway onto a back country road and parked. We made small talk for a few minutes and I knew full well where this was going. He… Read more »
I was 15 and snowmobiling at night with a friend. We went to a cabin this guy owned that wasn’t there. I was horny and had been thinking about cock for a while. After a bit of forgotten banter I asked him to suck my cock to which he replied “suck mine”. We ended up sucking each other and he tried to fuck me but stopped because it hurt too much.
I have been into “The Dick” ever sense then…..
Wonder where Albert is now?
I’d fantasized about sucking cock since I was a teenager and finally got the chance just after graduating from college. I met a guy who was a few years older than me and very good looking at the Hippo in Baltimore. We talked for awhile and he invited me back to his place. I nervously followed him in his car as we went to his apartment. When we got there we drank a beer and he asked if I would suck his cock. Of course I (nervously) agreed. I will never forget the feeling and taste of having a cock… Read more »
Back in my 40’s I traveled quite a bit on business. I was in the lobby bar at a hotel in St Louis after a long day of training sales reps. I had knocked a few drinks down while I was talking to this guy next to me. I had been rubbing my neck from the stress. He had gotten up to use the rest room and when he came back he put his hands on my shoulders and said he knew how to relax me. I had no idea what I was getting myself into but we sat and… Read more »
My first was when I had hit puberty at 12 or 13, I new I was going to be gay and like boys/men as I had been messing around with the neighbor boy and other boys for as long as I could remember. But when I could cum, that was a game changer for me ! In the 70s/80s my mom would do jazzer-size with her girlfriends at 24 hour fitness or one of those fitness center chains, one time she took me with her, it was the first time I had ever been to a gym. She told me… Read more »
Yummy…I would love to suck your dick and feel your shaft pulsating on my lips as you cum in my mouth…BiLust in Cleveland, Ohio…
I started jacking off at 12 and had my first wet orgasm shortly thereafter. When I was 14 at summer camp I received my first blow job from an older 17 year old boy with a nice uncut cock and gave him one in return. It totally was a toe curling and a truly awesome experience and the beginning of a life long addiction to receiving and giving blow jobs.
I was absolutely nervous before I gave my first blowjob but the second his cock was in my mouth I realized it felt like the most natural thing in the world to be doing it. I’m funny in that I don’t care about getting a blowjob but I love giving them. And doing a spit roast with me giving a blowjob and a guy fucking me is perfection
I’m pretty much the same way, well I do enjoy getting a blow job from my wife or any female, but when I’m with a man, I don’t care about getting my dick sucked, in fact I don’t care if he ever doesn’t even look at my dick, I want to be the one sucking dick, like I said in my other post, l have a dick sucking fetish, I can suck a mans dick for as long as he let me, as long as I know I’m getting that sweet nut at the end I will suck his dick… Read more »
My first blowjob wasn’t by choice; I was just a kid and I didn’t like it either way. My first voluntary blowjob was when I was 15/16 years old. I was asleep on my grandparents’ couch, when my drunk cousin came in and laid at the other end of the couch. Within a few minutes, he started rubbing my leg and eventually pulled down my shorts. I was rock hard instantly. He started sucking me and it felt so good that I was hyperventilating. He was licking my inner thighs and slapping my rock hard dick against his face, moaning… Read more »
I was very young when I got my first blow job, but it changed my life forever. I was staying with my rich aunt and uncle for the summer. My aunt, uncle and 3 younger cousins bedrooms were on the 2nd floor and my bedroom was on the ground floor off the pool. My uncle’s business partner, fraternity brother and best friend was living in their pool house. Sometime after midnight that first night I was having a crazy dream and feeling an incredible warmth and moisture coming from my crotch area. I woke up shortly afterwards to see a… Read more »
I remember my first time giving and receiving a blow job. It was with my best friend, back in highschool. It started off as a sleepover, then we started stroking our own cocks. One thing lead to another, we were stroking each other, then we sucked each other
The first few didn’t count. My GF had no idea what she was doing. We only had vag sex because of that. I was young and naive. At 18, I got a job at an adult arcade. I was tall and muscle bound; and I was taught that there was to be no sex or hanging out in the arcade. Fine. I enforced the rules. Back then, they were actual film projectors. Strange movies. One sort of gay movie. Guys would come in, trying not to get boned looking at the merch, the magazines, the books. They’d go back, jerk… Read more »
The first time I sucked a cock, I was 16 and my step-brother was 13, he wasn’t old enough to cum yet, but I enjoyed it , lol!
I was 19 and the first bj I ever got was from my 17 yo gf at the time. Nothing but teeth.. It hurt so bad but how was I going to tell her to stop. 20 years later I got my first from a guy and starting believing the saying that guys really know how to please other guys
13 or maybe a little younger with my best friend in his bedroom while staying over. I was hooked from the start.
The first time I tasted a cock, I was in my very early 30s. I was a soldier in the US Army, very fit, and recently discovered an adult theater with booths. I didn’t know what a glory hole was and on my first visit a few weeks earlier, I entered a booth and found the hole. A minute later an erect cock poked its way through. I touched it and immediately left I was so nervous. Weeks later, I returned and while sorting through the magazines, I locked eyes with a very nice looking man, very tall, slender, and… Read more »
My first experience when I was dating Cross, I never imagined before that I could suck a dick/I sucked it out of curiosity, it was so much fun and since then I got addicted to sucking and I had to date men, I dated a lot and sucked more than 40 dicks of different colors and sizes but the most delicious was a big black African dick that I will never forget its taste