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For many, the first time giving or receiving oral sex can be an unforgettable milestone. Whether awkward, exhilarating, or unexpectedly funny, these moments often shape how we view intimacy and connection. A Reddit user on r/askgaybros once asked, “Tell me about the first time you sucked dick?” The responses ranged from hilarious and heartwarming to introspective. Here’s a look at some shared experiences, and we’d love to hear your stories, too!
One user fondly recalled their first boyfriend. “It was likely our 2nd/3rd date, he came over in a suit (we were going to a friend of mine’s wedding) and I was horny the minute he walked in. I went down on him and he said, ‘You’ve done that before,’ and I hadn’t. We were both beaming at the wedding as my friends said I had a shit-eating grin on my face all night. Good memories :).” It’s a testament to how passion and spontaneity can create unforgettable memories.
Another gay man described their experience as a journey of self-discovery. “It was… interesting lol. It was awkward AF, nothing like porn at all and as a total introvert I was shocked I did it TBH. But, it was nice to sexually experiment and it was an overall good experience as it made me comfortable in recognizing there is nothing wrong about exploring one’s self or identity. Would I do it again? Yes, but with a partner in a monogamous relationship as I’m not a fan of hooking up, it’s just not my cup of tea.” This highlights how experimenting can be both awkward and affirming.
A playful memory came from another user who shared, “Started with a lot of heavy making out and we were both rock hard. Told me to go down and I did. My first time seeing an uncut cock up close but it was gorgeous. Didn’t cum in my mouth. Went back to making out and we jerked his cock off until he exploded. Then he blew me and I only lasted a minute.” This story reflects how physical exploration often goes hand in hand with curiosity and excitement.
Some stories took unexpected turns. “Well, the first time I got my dick sucked the guy asked me ‘Did you want to try?’ I said yes… believing that he was asking if I wanted to suck his dick. That is in fact NOT what he meant and this is actually the first time I bottomed.” This one had a surprising ending that likely left them with a funny and memorable first.
So, Adam4Adam blog readers, what about you? What was your first experience giving or receiving a blow job like? Was it awkward, magical, or something entirely unexpected? Share your stories in the comments section below. We’d love to hear from you!
My first was at a bar. I was attending university in Milwaukee. I was exploring my sexuality so I decided I need to go to a gay bar. Bar not a club. Quiet evening so I ordered a beer. A guy walked in and was talking to the few guys in the bar. They turned to me. I was shy at this time. He walked over to my table. We started some small talk. He said he needed to use the bathroom and suggested I should join him. He pulled his pants down and he was huge. Took my head… Read more »
My first one was when I was 17 I was on my way home from work and ran out of gay one cold January night when a guy stopped and helped me get going I told him I didn’t have any money to pay him but could pay him tomorrow at the time he said not to worry about it we can work something out later I never gave it much thought I just wanted to get my car running and off the road We got to running and he followed me home to make sure I got there I… Read more »
The first time I sucked a dick was when I was young with some friends in a fort built by older teens. I was 14 back then. First kid pushed his dick into my mouth and my first reaction was that his dick was so tasty! Even when he came with a lot of cum, I found it enjoyable. Other boys quickly used me and pushed their dicks into my mouth and made me suck them all. One kid decided my ass was fair came and I was spit roasted. I never forgot that moment. I was used by each… Read more »
I was 18 and stopped at an interstate rest area to use toilet. There was a hole in the wall and I could see the guy in the stall next to me jerking off. I had always wanted to taste a dick but never had the opportunity, so after watching him for a few minutes, he stood up and stuck his dick through the hole, and I nervously took it into my mouth. I had no idea what I was doing, but whatever I was doing apparently worked, because very soon I had a mouth full of cum. Didn’t know… Read more »
I’m 64 and it took place when I was 18, but I remember it like it was yesterday: The guy set us up in a 69 position. As he began sucking mine, my face moved just inches his erect 8-incher and with zero hesitation I gobbled it up. I was so revved up and didn’t want to cum in a nano-second that I had to keep asking him to take pauses from sucking mine. After doing a fair bit of that, we ‘graduated’ to flip-fucking wherein the moment I sunk my cock inside his ass, I came instantly.
One of my very favorites was with a cute blond guy age 18 who didn’t have a photo! He just came over & we kissed, got naked, then he sucked me very well & swallowed! Of course I returned the favor 😉 Now he’s in his 30s & moved to Arizona *sigh*
Ok.. first off… I experimented like most of us did with my close best friend when i was 15 till we where 17… we tried the basics. touch, suck, and fucked, you all know the scene. Never finished in each others mouths… Next would be girl friends…..and that’s not this site…lol… so fast forward to what i consider is my first blow job ever to completion (man or woman )…and cumming in there mouth…. Now this would also be my first with any guy other then my best friend and my start to the path of being bi and where… Read more »
I had always been curious, so when I met a guy he let me suck his dick, as I was about to do it , I told him to let me know when he was about to cum , so I could stop ,so I started sucking him and my dick got hard, I could feel myself about to cum without him or myself touching my dick, it had turned me on that much, so after about 15 minutes he told me he was about to cum, I was so into it before I knew it his cum was coating… Read more »
My first 100 + blow jobs were from woman. I never cared for them or even came close to cumming from one. It was fun watching a girl choke on my cock, but it was just like someone massaging my arm or something, felt good, just not orgasmic. This guy finally broke me down who I met at a bar and became friends. I was horny and he offered to help me out. I’ve never really been attracted to men, but always knew I’d be ok if I ended up liking guys, so it didn’t take much to convince me… Read more »
Honestly the first one I received must not have been that great as I do not remember it at all. However, the first one I gave is another story. I was 12 and in the backyard fort with my bestie. He had swiped one of his older brothers Playboy mags. We were looking at it and he started to rub his crotch. I was looking at that instead or the Playboy. He looked over at my crotch and said we both must be getting turned on as we both are showing boners. He suggested we take them out to stork… Read more »
I don’t remember it and I didn’t love it.
was your first with either Methuselah or Moses? If so, it might explain why you can’t remember it?
I was 13, a male class mate of mine stayed overnight at our house for my birthday. that night he gave me the best birthday present I would ever have, my first blow job. after he got tired I sucked his thick cock and enjoyed it. I never thought anything that could feel that good, could be a bad thing. We continued to be reciprocating best friends for about 4 years.
I was 18 and in an adult video arcade. a guy propositioned me and i said no thanks. he said just try it to see if you like it. i went in his booth and im hooked for life. now i like to give head. sucked 20 guys this in the last 5 days! lol
my first time with oral sex with a male was with my best friend growing up. we were 12 or 13. funny thing is, we put baggies over our cocks. that lasted for a couple of weeks and we finally trusted one another to not cum in the other’s mouth. then that did not last as we both enjoyed feeling and taste of hot cum in our mouths. we had the luxury of being able to have fun every day while in our teens. our daily hookups ended when i went away to college, but we continued to hook up… Read more »
Exhilrating didnt want to stop sucking
It was awesome and when I give my first blowjob I just remember how guys did it in porn and just took it from there guys say it comes naturally to me and I am pretty good at it
massage -I anticipated just a hand job but was pleasantly surprised –
The first time I gave head was with a guy who I met on craigslist. I went over to his apartment with curiosity of…..am I going to actually do this??? I walked in and he offered me a beer, after about 20 minutes of talking and getting to know each other, he was sitting on the couch and asked if I was ready to try. I remember going over next to him and sitting on the floor beside the couch. He was wearing scrubs and he started to slightly rub his private area. He asked me if I wanted to… Read more »
I gave my first blowjob at 40, it was a set up by my wife.We were thinking about trying swinging and she wanted me to meet a guy she was talking to about meeting. Now when she made the profile she had me as bi but the only thing I had done was talk to her about bi sex.So she found this guy to fuck but asked me to meet him first not knowing she wanted me to play bi first .So I agreed to meet him at our house after kids went to school. So he’s right on time… Read more »