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Music has a way of reaching deep into our souls, becoming the soundtrack to our identities and celebrations. For the LGBTQ+ community, certain songs capture the spirit of pride, freedom, and fabulousness, helping us embrace who we are. So, Adam4Adam readers, we want to know: what’s the song that makes you feel the gayest?
One poster kicked off this discussion online with a fabulous pick: Charli XCX and Rita Ora’s Doing It. The upbeat, playful vibes of the track make it a perfect addition to any queer playlist. Whether it’s blasting on a night out or a personal anthem for self-expression, this song has quickly become a favorite.
In the thread, popular responses included timeless classics and dance-floor staples. For instance, The Weather Girls’ It’s Raining Men is a song that screams pride with its high-energy beats and unapologetically flamboyant lyrics. The 80s era of Madonna also emerged as a common theme, with her iconic tracks representing freedom and individuality.
Some contributors named Lady Gaga’s Born This Way as their ultimate queer anthem, celebrating its empowering message of self-love and acceptance. Meanwhile, Destiny’s Child’s Lose My Breath and Beyoncé and Shakira’s Beautiful Liar brought a fiery energy to the discussion, perfect for feeling unstoppable on the dance floor.
A notable mention was Crystal Waters’ 100% Pure Love, a track deeply rooted in ballroom culture that never fails to ignite energy and connection at gay bars. And of course, Gloria Gaynor’s I Will Survive remains a quintessential anthem of resilience and strength within the gay community.
It’s not just about the beats and lyrics—it’s about how these songs make us feel. From dancing with friends to reflecting on our journeys, these tracks connect us to our identities and the broader LGBTQ+ community.
But let’s not stop at what’s already iconic. New music continues to shape the community, from Lil Nas X’s groundbreaking hits to the electric vibes of Kim Petras. With every song, the LGBTQ+ community expands its playlist of empowerment, identity, and celebration.
So now, Adam4Adam blog readers, it’s your turn! What song makes you feel unapologetically gay? Is it an old-school classic like Cher’s Believe, or something fresh and contemporary? Let us know in the comments and help us create the ultimate playlist of queer excellence. What’s your personal anthem? Share your picks and let’s create the ultimate big gay playlist!
Happy listening!
“Fuck You” by Lily Allen
for me it’s Believe by Cher. I love Adam Lambert’s version as well. I also love Born this Way by Lady Gaga.
This has to be on that playlist.
One more from my Pride playlist…from the country side of things.
“I’m Coming Out” by Diana Ross short & sweet and to the point I was 16 and already working it with both black & white & everyone else in between
Take on me by A-ha
None. I feel no pride over my sexuality, same as I feel no pride over my nationality or racial group. They are what they are.
real cool Dave! which is why i voted for Trump
Robin S.- “Show Me Love”
and Barry Harris – “Dive in the Pool” ….but I think Toni Braxton’s “Unbreak my Heart” and her performance on national tv brought club music to the mainstream and paved the way for Whitney Houston, Deborah Cox, etc… to follow
“The Hardy Boys at the Y” by Loudon Wainwright with the Boys of the Lough
“I will survive” because I did and do, fiercely, in spite of all adversities; proudly and aging gracefully healthily.
“If My Friends Could See Me Now”