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Speaking of New Year’s resolutions and bucket lists, what is on your sex bucket list, guys?
We all have those fantasies—big, small, or completely wild—that linger in the back of our minds. Adam4Adam readers, let’s talk about it: “What’s left on your sex bucket list? On mine: sex in a train, being piss fucked,” asked one gay man on r/askgaybros.
For many, the concept of a sexual bucket list is about more than just ticking off boxes. It’s an opportunity to explore, connect, and push boundaries in ways that excite their sex life. Over on r/askgaybros, users shared their unfulfilled fantasies, and the variety is as fascinating as it is relatable.
- The romantic dreamer – For some, intimacy holds just as much appeal as the physical act itself. One user said: “Someone fucking me and saying ‘I love you to me’ as he releases because he means it and loves me.” The longing for connection through both words and actions highlights how powerful sex can be when tied to deep emotions.
- The celebratory adventure – One respondent wrote: “Gangbanged where I am the only bottom—loads of kissing and sweat and all very horny and hot but very respectful and celebratory.” A steamy scenario with all the right elements: passion, respect, and a sense of celebration—definitely a fantasy well-executed.
- Pushing boundaries with a partner – The idea of giving up control or exploring new dynamics with a partner can be thrilling. One gay man shared: “My fantasy boyfriend whoring me out to all his friends, and they breed me one by one.” While unconventional, this fantasy highlights the appeal of trust and shared exploration between lovers.
- The first-time experience – Sometimes, fantasies revolve around achieving milestones. For one user, it’s simple yet monumental: “Actually having a guy inside me. I’ve had dildos and kissed and sucked and been sucked. Just never had actual sex with a guy. Never given and never received.” For those in similar situations, the first time can carry emotional weight and anticipation.
- Embracing kinks and power play – For others, the thrill lies in embracing their darker, kinkier desires. As one user described: “Getting slapped in the face and being called a whore, wearing a collar, being stared into the eye while I’m being banged, bite and be bitten…” Exploring power dynamics and physical sensations can open new doors for intimacy and pleasure.
So, Adam4Adam blog readers, what about you, what’s left on your sexual bucket list? Is there a fantasy you’ve yet to explore or a scenario you dream about experiencing? Whether it’s romance, adventure, or pushing boundaries, everyone’s bucket list is unique. Share yours in the comments section down below!
I have been watching a series of trans FTM videos titled |Jock Pussy”. My fantasy is to have a long night so steamy sex with a sexy, young FTM trans with a beautiful vagina!
“Trans” isn’t a noun. It’s an adjective.
the PC police have arrived.
The Trans police won’t allow us to say tranny anymore even though it was their own term.
That is truly disgusting. There’s nothing gay about that, whatsoever. Vaginas are ugly and horrible.
I have dreams of being wildly Fucked by a chick with a dick
It’s a guy, dope. With fake tits.
Been there and done that awesome just to be able to look up at them pounding your ass looking like a girl hot
I’ve wanted to bottom with 3 or more men, have done threesomes,, want to expand
Same here! Been in a number of threesomes with a few different couples, but would love to bottom for 3 or MORE men! And if it was safe, I’d love to be bred by all of them!
That’s on my bucket list too. I’ve done a threesome and was spit roasted and bred by two trusted top friends. I’d love to get bred and filled up by 4 or 5 tops. I’m kind of a cum freak and love the messy mix of cum and lube after being bred.
Oh, you’d definitely get expanded.
“expandable sex”, what a concept, honey! sounds FASCINATING indeed!
Dp!
Yes, another one for me too!
burring my beautiful face between the cheeks of a beautiful ass scrubbed by my own hand until I see “The Face Of Jesus”.
I am up for anything will try anything once
to be on my knees and suck 6 or guys off at the same time and swallow all that cum.
Did that once in a state park years ago. It was glorious
Would love to raw fuck an FTM guy.
Would also love two get DP from two uncut guys. Have taken 2 cut guys and one of each before, but never 2 uncut which would really get my motor running. Bonus if they’re both fucking me while sucking another uncut cock.
FTM is NOT A GUY!
Double Penetration. A hung Asian Top.
Ultimate fantasy is to be in room full of naked men, pleasing each other casually and passionately
See my response to Jack below. Your fantasy may be totally obtainable.
At 64, I’ve been part of some amazing 3somes and groups over the years, but never done this:to be in an ideal 3some situation (with 2 thoroughly appealing guys) and have one top me while I top the other one. I’ve seen this in pornos and quiver at the thought of how incredible the middle guy must feel getting it in both directions. Biggest challenges for me (not a Prep user): to do it safely and to be able to maintain a hard enough erection to do the top part.
Orgy with 5 or 6 other guys! All tops ! Me in a sling getting tagteamed and spit roasted. Possibly even double fucked. The thought of two dick rubbing together in my ass is hot. A little scary but Fukn hot!!
You’ve never taken double penetration before? It is AMAZING.
I really want to try it. A little nervous
Depending on where you live, your fantasy isn’t unrealistic. There are organized orgies in NYC and plenty of that goes on, including guys taking turns fucking bottoms strapped in slings. Just a question of how far you’re willing to take an STD risk.
I am closet bi/ homosexual black man, very DL and masculine, I am a total bottom, I would like to have two D/D/F well hung top guys , I would like to spend a weekend sucking them off and getting fucked off and on by the both of them together and or separate, I just want to be a bottom slut for them, just the three of us in a room just hanging out naked, I enjoy sucking d/d/f men off and swallowing their cum, I would like to take a load while getting fucked and swallow a load at… Read more »
I want to have my first handsfree orgasm from getting fucked
Same! I’ve done that to guys I have fucked when I topped, but never experienced it from bottoming myself.
Do it to me!
Yes! Me too. I’ve heard amazing things about that.
It is One of the best feelings a man could have, for some reason I knew before I first got fucked I already knew I was going to like it. The time I got fucked it was pleasure and some discomfort, but five minutes of his dick rubbing my prostate I told him I was cumn, without him or myself touching my dick , I didn’t know that was possible, only problem was I was done, guys you know once you cum you are done for a min, but my guy didn’t have a plan on stopping, so he continued… Read more »
I had a bottom that came continuously the entire time we fucked and it was wonderful and very fulfilling for me to know i made it happen!
Bro, hands free is fucking glorious. It felt like I had summited this mountain that I had been climbing forever.
BDSM orgy with the Osmond Brothers. Strip them down to their garments and make them call me Brigham
I want to be fucked missionary by a MtF with a nice dick.
Maybe my first 3some
I’ve been in threesomes but not where I’m the bottom. I would love to have two men fuck me (one cock in my mouth and in my ass) just taking turns cumming inside me
– I want to be used by a room full of men and take all of their loads
– I want to be DPed
– I also want to be DPed with a cock in my mouth and one in each hand
– Suck off a room full of men and swallow all their loads
– me in a sling would be hot
– cum hands free from being fucked. Have achieved with a few toys, but only a few times.
Of course most of this is too risky, so in my fantasy, it is all safe.
Ma’am, this is an Arby’s.
What a feeling like no other to have your manhood taken with a cock deep inside you damn I don’t even know how many times that happened
I tell you I was really about 10 guys all black it was awesome after a while you had I had to get used to it but where are all the tops on this site if there’s any out here hit me up I swallow everybody that shows up
I watched a video of a married guy getting fucked, he wasn’t being raped but the guy that was fuckin him was really fucking him as if he was trying to take his manhood, it was more than the bottom had bargain for, but he was cumn at the same time the guy was fucking him ,then when the top came in him the bottom turn over and laid in the top arms as if he had made him his bitch. I would have liked to played the bottom role in that movie
I know its asking what’s on your bucket list, but I fulfilled my bucket list years ago when I had sex with my favorite porn star. It was nice and his dick was huge so I topped him!!!!! He was very vocal so apparently he didn’t bottom often.
How much did he charge you?
I have a couple ..I want to be in a shower with a guy and hold his cock as he pisses. Sounds odd but it’s a turn on for me. Also want a chubby bear with big man boobs to have his dick balls deep in me, face to face.
Hi guys how you doing I hope everything’s going well good morning this is my first time on this site so bear with me
One of my fantasies is to be in a group of black guys with big cocks just dominating me drenching me with their cum
Meet a guy who owns a lingerie shop, spend a day wearing panties and stockings, while enjoying blowjobs and bottoming for him. End in the shower and start again.
I want to be in a sling, have my ass eaten then toys used on me before ultimately getting fucked to a hands free orgasm when he cums inside
I love my sling!
Would love to be blindfolded when two fit twinks arrive. Be slowly stripped naked by them down to my briefs. Then have my ass cheeks spanked and then be soft restrained to a bed. My beiefs would be slowly cut/torn/ripped off. Then jacked sucked by one twink while the other is rimming and lightly fingering me til I explode.
I’d have to say the humiliation of being watched while getting gangbanged/spitroasted by a bunch of guys.
I’ve been in gangbang before but my ultimate fantasy would be with a hood, tied up in a sling, gangbanged by as many guys as I can possibly take at a party or sex club. I also want to be absolutely dripping all over my body with other guys cum after they jack off on me while I’m being fucked . I’ve done six or seven guys.. but I want far more.
love to be gangbanged by as many guys as possible
A threesome, perhaps, but the circumstances would have to be so exact, it will likely never happen. An Arabian orgy is much more likely, I just have to get there. But my real fantasy is a loving, deep relationship with a husband for the rest of my life.
I’d like to have a 3-way, maybe one in which it’s me, and two guys in a relationship.
Hi guys I’m new here so go along with me what I’m looking for is a good guy or guys that want to experience bottom it has a deep throat loves The taste of cum and take it nice and deep and when I do boy look out I’ll make your toes curl
Now that’s my man’s dick