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Nipple play is a hot topic, quite literally. Many men find that their nipples are incredibly sensitive and can be a significant source of sexual pleasure. But does this hold true for most gay men, or at least for you?
Nipple play often serves as an exciting part of foreplay, adding an extra layer of stimulation. For some, a gentle touch, a firm pinch, or a teasing lick can send waves of pleasure through their bodies. The nipples, rich in nerve endings, can be a direct route to arousal and, in some cases, even orgasm. This heightened sensitivity makes them a favorite spot for many during intimate moments.
However, the experience of nipple play isn’t universal. Some guys find that their nipples are not particularly sensitive or that the sensation doesn’t do much for them. There are also cases where men have had their nipples pierced and noticed a decrease in sensitivity post-piercing, while others haven’t experienced any change at all. This variation highlights that nipple sensitivity can be highly personal and subjective.
So, do most guys enjoy nipple play? It’s a mixed bag. Some absolutely love it, integrating it into their sexual routine regularly. Others might be indifferent or even dislike the sensation. The key is communication and exploration. If you’re curious about nipple play, it’s worth discussing with your partner and experimenting to see what feels good for both of you.
Having said all that, we want to hear from you, Adam4Adam readers! Do you enjoy nipple play? Does it send shivers down your spine or leave you cold? If you’ve had your nipples pierced, how did it affect your sensitivity? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Your insights can help us understand whether nipple play is a common turn-on or if it’s more of a personal preference. Let’s get the conversation started!
I absolutely love receiving nipple play and its integrated in my sexual activities every single time. I stroke my hard, lubed dick while my partner lick, bite and suck my nipples. I usually cum in less than a minute if done right. I can stroke, touch, pinch my own nipples and get sexually aroused.
Lucky bastard!!! grin
If your nips are sensitive it’s hot. If your nips are not sensitive, it’s not even a question. Wow, you picked a real controversial topic this time.
This is a valid article and question; the role nipple play has in your sex. The topic is not at all controversial. Betting money, the younger a guy is, the less he understands about how erotic nipple play can be. This has been my experience.
I believe they meant the controversy of the topic is the simple fact that not everyone has sensitive nipples. So the question is only valid to people who actually have sensitive nipples.
My nipples never used to be “sensitive” until I started an exercise program and my partner kept playing with them. Now I can’t get enough nipple action and they seem to always be hard.
I’m a large participant in nipple play when I’m with someone, however, mine are not particularly sensitive. My enjoyment is playing with another mans nipples. Some guys leave with them being slightly sore since I love teasing them so much. Maybe it’s because I was never breast fed as a baby. Not sure why but I love playing with a beautiful set! 🙂
Mmmm…leaving them sore is always a great mark and thinking of him ALL day..
Sweet! Normally when we are done, they are a bit sore. 😉
Personally, I love nipple play! I love how it feels for someone to latch on to one of my nipples and lick and bite on it while pinching and pulling on the other one. I find it very erotic to view and even more erotic to participate on it!
Agree with everything but the biting. Biting hurts!
I agree. I don’t think any aspect of sex should hurt. I put a halt to all sexually activities once pain is detected. Giving or receiving!!! This is a good subject matter moderator. “Pain during sex” (hint). During nipple play, oral, anal, rimming, rubbing, spanking; i don’t accept no pain at all. I want all pleasure.
Yes I absolutely love having my nipples played with and it’s true I can often come when it’s done right. That being said, I find now more than ever that many guys I’ve played with recently are indifferent to having theirs played with, sometimes will only do mine if asked and not for a long time. Sad because the sensation is out of this world.
Not hot. & seeing them pierced makes me wince in pain at the thought
I think you and me are in the minority. It’s never done a thing for me either, nor do I find it hot and any piercings make my stomach turn. But it sure seems that most guys really get into it. My nips aren’t sensitive and licking other guys’ nips, while nice, isn’t like “oh wow!” nice.
I’m a 100% bottom,, I enjoy having my nipples sucked, but no bitting no pain,, that shit hurts,, that does nuthin for me, and I’m not into sucking are playing with a man’s nipple,, now I will suck the nipple off of a female,, I love sucking women nipple sometimes I pretend I sucking a super thick dick,, but I can careless if a guy touch or suck my nipples,, when I’m with a man I’m trying to suck his dick and get fucked,, I don’t want to fuck him and I don’t want him to suck my dick, I… Read more »
Yeah, I agree. My nipples are not particularly sensitive. But i like to play with a guy who has sensitive nipples, have him moan and squirm when I lightly touch or lick them. I’m not into pain, biting, piercings though. Total turn off for me.
I’m with you there, wholeheartedly.
LOVE IT!! I usually let guys know up front that it is a BIG TURN ON and it gets me HOT!!!! then just about anything we both want can happen. If they understand my message, They will not forget making LOVE with me.
Agreed…totally a turn on and definitely need to said and wanted
same here!
I think talking about turn ons prior to sex is a good practice to set expectations. This includes nipple play OR not. But letting a lover know your hot buttons is important to make things mutually satisfying and to feel valued. My experience has been that when things like nipple play are part of sex, it can heighten the experience and it draws out a longer, more pleasurable session. Other things similarly are: rimming, licking every body part, tonguing the head and piss slit, using pre-cum in creative ways, fingering, hitting the prostate, body and head massage, eye contact, whispers… Read more »
I really enjoy having my nipples sucked and softly rubbed during sex. They seem to be hard-wired straight to my cock. My bi wife calls them “cum buttons”!
“CUM BUTTONS” Tell Your wife I’m going to start using it, from here on in. GREAT WAY TO EXPLAIN A FANTASTIC FEELING
She coined the term because if she senses I am struggling to reach orgasm while we’re fucking, she just starts toying with my nips and BAM! LOL
Great term! Right up there with “cum gutters”.
On a slightly different note on the subject of body parts stimulating sexual arousal, several years back (when Craig’s List was still allowing “hook up” posts), a local guy was asking for a partner who would stimulate his navel (“ompholo love”???). He said that such stimulation was sufficient to cause him ejaculating orgasms. It seems there are fetal wiring diagrams to which all of us do not get to benefit!
“Stimulate his navel”? NEVER heard that before.
Nipple play is my big fetish. When 2 men are enjoying it together it is a total sexual uforia. Some men can cum hands free from it. From mild to wild it is a definite great vibe during sex. Let me hear some nipple stories.
I had a bf who had a perfect size cock. It gave total pleasure, no pain. He would shoot 4 massive ropes of semen about 8″ long when he’d cum. No exaggeration. Thinking of 32″ of seed being blown in my gut, under my belly button and tan line was the psychological build up for me while we were fucking. But a memorable thing about him, was that he’d suck my nipples while he had his massive orgasms in me. My anal ring could feel his shaft pulse for 30 seconds while he deposited. He’d then fall asleep on top… Read more »
Nipples are truly amazing and to tease or gently biting is wonderful and erotic and heightens the sexual intimacy and foreplay.
Definitely a must and gladly accepted
I have both nipples pierced and it enhances the feeling. My nips are hardwired to my cock, anything done to them is a turn on.
But not for your partner.
Ignore Mother Hennepin, it doesn’t get any action and often trolls this forum confused and lost.
Everything is not hot or not! Stop asking stupid questions. It’s individual. It depends.
Why is this a trigger for you? The article is asking individuals what their nipple preferences are. And you’re right that everything is not a binary ‘hot’ or ‘not’.
HUMAN ELECTROYDES? LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
My nipples are soft wired to my cock so when rubbed or fingered, I take small gasps and have feelings like orgasms (small, dry ones). Don’t enjoy them pinched hard. No desire for piercings. Don’t care if a guy has small piercings of his or not. Hot or not? Personally, I don’t get the question. While I enjoy them being played with, it’s not a Must Have! thing that I can love or hate or get all teenager-ish about. How about a real question about sex? What have you done with a guy during sex that wasn’t a huge thing… Read more »
The article is about nipples and their role in sex.
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that is a hot story
Love nipple play! I could have someone work over my nips all night. Lick ’em, flick ’em, suck ’em, bite ’em, twist ’em, pull ’em, clamp them!
YES!!
AS I HAVE GOTTEN OLDER…IT LITERALLY GETS MY GOING. THERE ARE SO MANY NERVE BUNDLES THERE.
Amen.
NEUROPATHY? LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
Hot or not totally depends on the individual whose nipples are being played with. Some find it very exciting and erotic and a major turn-on. Others, like me, are NOT “wired” for nipple play. Other than very light stroking, it does nothing for me and usually causes pain. THAT put me out of the mood for sex immediately. I do convey that to the man I’m with. Tell your partner what you do and don’t like. That way you can BOTH have a much better time being together.
I agree
Nipple play is a must for me. It gets me so hot and wired to my cock. I like them played with very hard so when the sex is over I stll feel that my mnipp;es were worked good. I did have them pierced at one time and I lost the sensationa and so removed them.To me it’s much better with ithe rings.
After 3 boyfriends and 10 years of sex, I discovered nipples. OMG, no one ever told me that they are your third sex organ! Now, the sensation goes directly to my cock head. My current bf and I both loving nipple play during foreplay and sex. We call it pushing “the elevator buttons”. I have found that with younger guys, they haven’t generally discovered the nuances of nipple play; often with no pleasurable sensations or with pain in their young breast tips. I remember having “rock tit” as a young teen, actually feeling pain when my tits were twisted by… Read more »
I’d rather be water boarded! Leave my Nippies alone!!! That’s some annoyin’ shit!!!
Very annoying to me as well
Total nippleman, ass cock are connected to my nipples
I love hard nipple play. In recent years it is usually what makes me cum. I have a variety of nipple clamps and find them very satisfying, even if I am just watching porn. I tell my partners, bite my nipples until I beg you to stop and keep on going. Over the last few years my nipples have become very hard from the clamps.
I absolutely love Nipple Play. My nipple are really sensitive. I dont like when guys pinch or bite them. That hurts like a MF! All it takes is a lick, nibble and suck on them, it drives my crazy and makes me hard! I love doing the same to other guys who are just as sensitive.
I have found that without nipple stimulation the sexual activity is lacking in something very special and that is the arousal that I get from my nipples being played with, slightly pulled, roller around in the fingers, just being touched by hands lightly rolling over my nips is amazing. If a man that I am having sex with will not touch them or do anything with them, it never lasts very long. Thanks to every man out there who appreciates what they can bring to sex and will gladly help me out with using them and both of us doing… Read more »
I love Nippleplay! I love to have mine played with, and I love to play with another guy’s nipples. it makes my cock extra hard. I love sucking cock while having my nipples played with and fucking or getting fucked.
I could never understand why my nipples were so sensitive, but when a partner would lick or suck on them, it would drive me out of mind and completely put me in their power. (When I was younger, I wondered if it had to do with the size of my chest.) Women my age (at the time, in my teens and 20s) never got it. Male partners (often more experienced being with other men) seemed more accepting of nipple play, maybe because they understand that other men have more than 2 (obvious ) points of sexual arousal. (If a straight… Read more »
As I straight curious guy having done it once it really do anything for me.
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Those nipple people are in a world of their own.
Jeffrey, Come and join us. It will be VERY satisfying for You, after You learn to play and suck on nipples.
When I started having sex with men 10 or so years ago, I met a couple that I learned a lot from, meeting both or one if them a few times per month. Both were very attentive to my nipples. Their attention felt ok but no big deal for me. I even remember howling after one long session when I buckled my seatbelt because of the soreness! About a month later, when they were undressing me and started on my nipples, I suddenly felt slightly breathless and light headed. As the continued gently rubbing and fingering my nipples, I felt… Read more »
OMG, my nipples are wired directly to the head of my dick. Lick, suck, pinch, bite, it all works for me! With my regular partner, I finish up by riding his cock like Roy Rogers rode Trigger, jerking myself off, while he pinches and twists my nipples as hard as he can. Puts me over the top in a short amount of time and I finish off by pumping my load down his throat. Takes at least 10 minutes of rest afterwards to recover from the orgasm. After washing off his equipment, I then follow up by sucking every last… Read more »
Nipple play is one of my favorite things to do, as I have sensitive nipples that get aroused when I am really turned on. However, I’ve found that nipple play only happens about 10% of the time I hook up. It isn’t really a thing for most guys. So I enjoy it on the rare occasion that it happens, especially if the guy knows how to nibble on my nipples with the right amount of pressure. Another thing about nipple play is that I am extremely attracted to guys who have tiny nipples and tiny areolas. Part of this is because I was “traumatized” by seeing a… Read more »
Nipple work has certainly been a very important part of sexual play and work. A true nipple man will know the difference between nip work and nip play. I have found that nip work is usually more intense nipple stimulation which could push me further. Also about knowing how to deal with the pain or discomfort which can be pleasurable.
Unfortunately, having my nipples played with doesn’t really do anything for me. I’m fine if guys plays with or suck on them, as long as they aren’t twisting them hard causing pain. As far as playing with a guys nipple, I have been with guys that love it and those that don’t. I am more into cock sucking.
During my construction someone misplaced the wiring diagram for my nipples, which serve me only as chest decorations for an otherwise unimpressive set of pectorals. Occasionally, some guy amuses himself there, while I’m thinking “watching grass grow.”
In my work, I get a statistically significant sampling of men … about 15% find it erotic, another 10% or so find it pleasurable. But about 70%+ of men (myself included) not only do not find it erotic, but actually find it annoying. So the bulk of us are in the “not” category.
I call those my “bitch buttons” Good nipple action will turn me to an instant sub.
AMEN
From the responses to “Nipples” and those on the other topic “Anal”, once again about the only thing that is truly true about Gay guys is that being Gay doesn’t automatically mean anything. From politics to religion, music to fashion, and sex act to sex act, some Gay guys are for them and other Gay gays not so much. Any Pro/Con or Hot/Not question of Gay guys will have a general split of 10-15% are Pro, 55-65% Don’t Care and 10-15% are Con. Like hair color, eye color, height, weight, race, ethnicity, being Gay is an automatic indicator of pretty… Read more »
I enjoy helping a guy who is sensitive. But I have no sensitivity whatsoever and it is sad; I hear amazing stories of how a guy had his nipples touched and his cock was like…YES, MORE PLEASE!! A little envious here…lol
MY NIPPLES ARE THE CENTER OF MY SEXUAL UNIVERSE. IMAGINE THE INTENSE PLEASURABLE SENSATION GUYS’ GET FROM THEIR DICKS AND CORE AREA……WELL, MULTIPLY THAT BY 25X…..WHEN MY TWO NIPPLES ARE WORKED ON (I LIKE IT HARD AND ROUGH), THAT DICK SENSATION IS MULTIPLIED BY OVER 25X AND SPREADS TO MY ENTIRE BODY FROM MY CHEST AREA, NOT FROM MY DICK/CORE. I AM A SERIOUSLY TALENTED AND EXPERIENCED NIPPLAY DADDYTOP – GIVING – AND RECEIVING AS I TRAIN MY MEN HOW TO WORK MY HARD WIRED NIPS AS I LIKE IT. WHEN I EXPERTLY WORK A GUYS’ NIPS, I CAN TAKE… Read more »
No sensitivity at all in my nipples… it’s all in my cock and ass, which suits me fine.
For me – they signify control, as in power. Twist the knob and turn up the volume. Sometimes it gets me totally sub and sometimes, the opposite – it takes two to tango, but hang on tight and don’t let go. Love to feel that POWER.