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Hey, guys! Do you feel horny all the time? If so, how do you deal with it?
Anyway, we’re bringing this up because we often read this question online.
Let’s face it, we all have moments when our sexual desires seem overwhelming. Whether it’s a sudden surge of hormones or just one of those days, dealing with excessive horniness can be challenging. Adam4Adam readers, we want to know: How do you handle those times when your libido is in overdrive?
Here are some things that we think can help you manage your high libido:
1. Self-pleasure: One of the most common ways to handle excessive horniness is through masturbation. It’s a quick and private way to relieve sexual tension. Do you have any tips or routines that help you manage your urges effectively?
2. Exercise: Physical activity can be a great outlet for excess energy and can help distract your mind. Do you hit the gym, go for a run, or engage in another form of exercise when you’re feeling particularly aroused?
3. Distraction techniques: Some find that engaging in hobbies, diving into work, or spending time with friends can help shift focus away from sexual thoughts. What are your go-to distractions?
4. Communication with partners: If you’re in a relationship, talking to your partner about your needs can be beneficial. Do you schedule extra intimacy time or explore new sexual activities together to satisfy your increased desires?
Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we can’t always satisfy our sexual urges immediately. This can lead to frustration or irritability. How do you cope with these feelings? Do you have any relaxation techniques or mental strategies that help you stay calm and balanced?
Exploring new sexual outlets or fantasies in a healthy and consensual manner can also be a way to manage excessive horniness. Have you tried new things in your sex life to channel your libido, such as role-playing, using sex toys, or even talking to others about your desires?
Adam4Adam readers, your experiences and tips could be invaluable to others facing similar challenges. How do you deal with being excessively horny? What works best for you, and what advice would you give to someone struggling to manage their libido? Share with us your thoughts, stories, and experiences in the comments below.
Overwhelming? A struggle? Never looked at being horny as either. Just part of being a guy, like belching, shitting, or blowing your nose. There’s nothing of anguish about it. Just take care if it. But I guess with countless Gay men always feeling themselves challenged or a victim of life’s ever-so-many “cruelties”, being horny is just another of life’s angsts. When I’m feeling horny, I’ll check with my FWBs. One is usually able to “help me out”. If not, I’ll masturbate, a gift God gave us when he decided the proximity of our hands and cocks. He for sure loves… Read more »
How do I deal with being horny? Well I try to link up first.. if I’m short of time, I turn on porn and relieve myself. If I can’t do neither.. I try to go onto something else… play a game, gym, go for a walk… thankfully one of my link ups will be on deck to take care of me most of the time… never a text away from unloading all this horny desire.
If only we all had it so good. Trying to find reliable non-flaky FWBs is not so easy. There are so many bots and fakes out there on all the apps these days. Then add to that heterosexual roommates that work on different schedules making it damn near impossible to find any kind of private time to invite someone over or “take matters into your own hands”, because no one out there in all creation can ever host. Also Gods forbid you want to play safe and use a condom, there is a conversation killer apparently. I may be taking… Read more »
Masturbate frequently… when i work from home i am always nude (which probably doesn’t help, LOL). Hooking up at 56 is NOT EASY at all…so usually not an option… and those that want to just seem to want to do oral. I’m a “whole package” kind of guy if I’m going to get together.
HOOKING UP—–IS—EASY AT 56!……
IF YOU ARE GOODLOOKING AND FIT……………
LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
oh yes, MASTURBATE often and frequently indeed, when you so horny that ya just can’t stand it, honey!
That is an excellent question. I have been asking about this for while now and usually just get contemplative stares. But, there really isn’t a perfect answer. If I can’t get anything at home, which is most of the time, I will check on A4A to see if any FWB can help. If that doesn’t work I will either take care of it myself or hold off hoping to give that bigger release to the next one lucky enough to get it. As we get older it will be more difficult to make those connections so I hope I can… Read more »
I was horny every day in my 30s and early 40s, and Craigslist helped me so often. Once I reached 45, the horniness stopped. Really annoying. I loved being horny every day! Nowadays I get horny about every 7-10 days only, so sad.
cold shower takes care of it
I’m 70 and I still feel horny “all the time”. The trouble with that is that it’s harder to meet men after you passed a certain age. Now for me couple that with the fact that I can seldom get it up due to a bout with prostate cancer. However they left my prostate in me (just zapped the hell out of it) so I still have considerable sensation back there. Now if I can’t find someone who is into fucking older men and since I can’t exactly masturbate I’ll just pull out my trusty thrusting dildo and pleasure myself… Read more »
An erection is not necessary for orgasm. I’ve also had prostate cancer. The 44 doses of radiation didn’t go off well. Holes were burned in my large intestine and bladder and place where the top of the leg, ass cheek and scrotum meet.I got an infection because the bladder and intestine joined together where the burns were. I also got something I’d never had, Balanitis, a very painful burning sensation with itching. Your glans gets fiery red and sores develop. The cure is an anti-fungal cream for athletes feet. I was pumped full of antibiotics for a month until I… Read more »
Bob. I am sorry to hear you went through so much from the side and after effects. I whole heartedly agree with you on men having their PSAs checked and a DRE. My PSA was low, about 2, but a DRE revealed suspicious lumps. I had 38 radiation sessions and 12 monthly Lupron injections. And yes it sure did cause shrinkage. I need to look into the penile implant… Take care and keep healthy.
I’m 64. Only horny half the time.
THE OTHER HALF OF THE TIME?
Fuckm3 Balls Deep
What a horrible day to have eyes.
jungle rot?
Great for guys who worship anal asses and holes.
A turnoff for those who don’t.
I believe it depends on what part of the world you’re in, the Northeast coast of America has to be the worst with narcissism, self-entitlement and arrogance raging rampant and when that’s all there is really it’s shit! Moving back to Europe soon because it’s abnormal for a good looking muscular guy in his early thirties who works out and eats well NOT to find anyone and i should not even be begging that would be the last straw for me! So many bots and catfishes they could have their own “SHOW” i’m absolutely weary of “facepic” requests because 9… Read more »
Sorry you’ve had a bad experience. I’m twice your age and don’t have these problems, but catfishing is easy to sniff for me. Most online sites, even in the EU, are tougher. I like to meet guys where men are looking for men. Cruising is one solution. There are others. Finding guys in the EU was also simple for me, but I’m not your typical American Tourist.
I’m not in the right place for what i’m looking for but well earned for that matter that’s what i get for going to america it’s a sh*t mess!! I’ve never encountered such an arrogant narcissistic kind until i went to the Northeast coast (Worst part) and when you combine the whole lot like trans,femme,twinks..etc then no one gets what they want but honestly they should have their own apps specifically for them as there should be one for single masc guys seeking single masc guys, all these apps mixing us all together are bogus! Second Europe is better than… Read more »
I call/text one of my 3 regulars… leave the door unlocked!
(1) Applies here, lol. There were days; in my 20’s-30-40’s, I’d do it 4-5 times a day, first time just before going to work in the morning or if working nights, I’ve worked both shifts in the past. But one just has to in the morning, otherwise it’s on your mind all day long at work, hated that. Additionally, though, more times than not; going out bars or clubs to party for the night, better got-off first, so I don’t wind-up with someone I shouldn’t; being under the influence of a buzz. I found out I wasn’t the only one… Read more »
I’ve solved my chronic horniness by maintaining a bevy of lovers.
LOL!!! LOL!!! LOL!!!
Unfortunately, in our world of entitled people who only communicate through text and have become used to “swipe left”, maintaining any type of relationship (even repeat sex) with others is becoming more and more difficult. Hopefully the social pendulum will swing and the next Generation (whatever) will turn things around.
This is the saddest example of how destroyed human interaction is post COVID. Before the Internet, men went to gloryholes, arcades, and bathhouses. All of that was before PREP and Doxy that men have today to protect their health. Now cities aren’t safe and people are too broke to go to the clubs and bars that didn’t go out of business. What is worse is guys would rather go online and troll than meet for sex. And for anyone who judges this post as someone idealizing being too promiscuous, then why aren’t they in a committed sexually active relationship? This… Read more »
I think the article is a bit of a sham, too. Pre-COVID, cities weren’t safe either, though. And if you want to drink one beer instead of three at a gay bar, just slow down. I’m having more fun than ever. Yes, venues have closed, and that’s a shame. There are other ways to fill your dance card or FWB list. And while we all need exercise, it’s not a substitute for sex– but gyms are a nice way to cruise those looking for other men.
MASTURBATE, MASTUBRATE, MASTURBATE, honey!!! just whipp out yo dick, smother it real good with something greasy, wet, oily or slippery (i like to use water base lube myself) and just WERK YO THANG, baby! watch your manhood spill a good load of semen and afterwards take a good breathe out and sigh of relief … so, RELEASE THYSELF, today! you be glad you did!
Pretty much constantly!
I’m 55 and the cravings are really strong and I’m horny all of the time. I’ve been trying to behave and not run around on my wife like I was for a number of years. Especially when she is out of town and I could be out playing every night. So I have an array of anal toys and use them while jerking off. My favorite is an 11” 5 bump glass toy that I got from the A4a store. It took some training to take the whole thing, but it fills me up so well and stretches me really… Read more »
OK, I’ll tell you… Some of the best and most intense orgasms have come from a guy who was an expert with his hands. Granted he’s gotten to know my body backward and forward but let me tell you he is a mind reader. I generally like to have some porn on to heighten the effect. My preference is usually a cum facial compilation or something like that. He has his right hand lightly stroke up and down my cock and tickles my balls. His left hand is flicking my nipple in just the right way to make electricity go… Read more »
Masturbate everyday keeps the stress away. Too many flakes online. Love giving head and tasting the other guys sperm as it slides down. Look for older guys that need their plumbing unblocked. Mmmmm
Dildos
Poppers
And, watching fuck videos Men have made with me….will hold me over a day or two at a time… LoL
When all else fails I just get out my Fleshlight and give it a good fuck!
I have a f buddy list of mostly straight married black men … I try to make myself available for them to use whenever they hit me up… they usually keep me pretty satisfied too
Straight my a** i know better than to fall for that but they just aren’t ready to admit they like men yet, that’s what the sirens done to them
So, who says I have too “deal with it” at all?
I masturbate, that’s it!