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A netizen posted a curious question on Reddit, guys. He asked:
“I feel like lately, I’ve noticed the preference for a large penis is not as sought after as it used to be. Of course, a big dick will always be welcomed but I feel like guys are much more accepting and even prefer a smaller to average-sized dick.
Does anyone feel like this is the case?”
How true is this for you, guys? Have you also observed the same thing?
Several guys like this one below replied that it’s not the case at all. In fact, they say, guys today, more than ever, want penises that are bigger. He clarified, “You mean the last few weeks compared to the past year?” Further, he said, “Because if we compare the situation to how it used to be when I was younger (10 years ago or so), I feel that standards for dick size have definitely changed; now guys expect bigger.”
However, some guys agreed with the original poster (OP). One man, for example, explained that the clamor for larger penises seems to be merely an online thing because when faced with other men in real life, this doesn’t appear to be the case at all. He observed, “Although social media definitely glorifies bigger dicks, I feel like, in reality, people don’t seem to care anywhere near as much.” He added, “Maybe it’s always been this way but now that I’ve grown up a little and these topics come up in conversation I’ve noticed this and it’s kind of refreshing.”
This observation was affirmed by other guys who feel indifferent towards penis length like this particular guy who replied, “Well a penis is a penis, not gonna complain about that as long as I can do things with it I don’t care how big it is.”
Meanwhile, another gay man said that he usually stays away from people who focus on penis size in his general friend group…. He explained that he does this because he is: “Constantly fighting the toxicity in our culture because of one’s ‘image.’”
Having said all that, what about you, guys? Would you say that OP’s observation is true? Did gay and bisexual men’s preference for penis size really change over time? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
My preferred size range is 5 to 6 inches. That size hits the spot perfectly and i can feel my guy going balls deep with no discomfort or pain. I can take that size as hard or fast as he wants and it feels amazing. I had sex with a guy who had an 8 inch dick once. It was not a good experience.
While I was never a rocket scientist, if it fits, it’s fine.
Frank Zappa, a member of “The Mothers Of Invention,” said it best:
“Anything You Cannot Put Into Your Mouth At The Same Time Is Entirely Wasted.”
“Anything You Cannot Put Into Your Mouth – At Any One Time – Is Entirely Wasted” is, actually, the correct quote!
Must have never throat fucked…..
And how often has Frank been fucked?
“A required preferred penis size for all gay men?” I must have missed the memo. My best playbuds have a variety of sizes. No size guarantees more or less satisfaction in terms of what they do for me or what I can do for them once we get horizontal.
It is the usual “Mindset”:
“One Size Fits All?”
Size really don’t mean anything as long as both people have fun and know what to do
I have noticed more use the words hung, huge, large, monster, and other descriptions, especially in the party postings and especially the cumdump community. It seems there is a strong longing for bigger and I often don’t get invited because I put my honest size which is just under 7 but that’s not enough.
I would agree with this..I think the online scene encourages an approach akin to ordering something on Amazon..if it’s not exactly what you ordered get a refund..Nothing annoys me more when a guy asks me to send dick pix…I will admit that while I have a nice sized cock I am not going to get hard just to snap a photo and send it to someone so I just copy a pic of one close enough and click send ..Works everytime..As if it’s possible to know the size of someone’s cock by just looking at a photo of it.
Chuckie, I agree with you 100%. Hate it when guys ask for a dick pic. There is more to me than just the dick.
Cumdumps just need to take what they’re given and be happy with it. They’re whores that are just here for our deposits. They don’t get to be pickers and choosers.
5-7 inches is perfect.
I have a deep hole and need 9-inch plus to hit my 2nd sphincter…. oink!
There’s no such thing as a “deep hole”. Within the confines of very minor physiological variations from person to person, everyone’s body is the same – including the location of your sphincter(s).
As you have two sphincters: Outer & Inner.
Not true. I have plowed more or less 8,000 hot men and while every one felt good, some have totally different sensations. Like the guy who had like 3 sphincters in a row (felt incredible) or the ones that have their 2nd sphincter close enough to have my dick head pop in and out of the 2nd hole (more feeling incredible). I get a lot of repeat fuck buddies and notice the distinct feel of each ones fuck tube. I do have a 9 inch cock and it landed me the best husband with a PhD (I get to live… Read more »
I think the reason the OP sees men seeking larger and larger penises is for two reasons. First, we’re more likely to see the posts “must be hung” or “8+only” because guys who don’t care don’t state their preferences either way, but also because the types of people who demand such things are more likely to be very vocal about…often repeatedly posting. As a man who oscillates between top and bottom (in my natural habitat anyway) I have to laugh at how so many people complain about how there’s no tops…but then demand that all tops be six foot two… Read more »
Don’t have a preference for size. It all depends on my mood. Sometimes I like a bigger one to really fill me up but really need to be lubed up. Other times I like a smaller one that is easier to fit in and let the guy go to town on my ass.
I love big thick cock, it feel so good in two places lengths and girth
Yes, the girth is more important than length. The feeling of a thick cock is what I love to feel going in and out, in and out, in and out, and the smooth friction of this wide cock is what stimulates my anus and promotes the sensation of Cumming.
“Smaller” for me! I’m not much into bigger than 6”. I’m a bottom who loves his hole opened up however I also love sucking and for sucking big ones are too much. Plus I’ve found with older guys like myself smaller cocks get and stay harder.
Admittedly I’ve never had what I believe would be considered a truly “BIG” dick, but it has always been a “fantasy” of mine; at least to suck–I’m very VERY tight otherwise, so I can struggle with even an average-sized cock stretching me too wide if I’m not really ready for it…it’s definitely on my bucket list to try though lol…
The exaggerated large-sized cock is just not easy to enjoy! You concentrate too much on managing getting it in and trying to make it happen for the enjoyment of the man with the oversized cock and for your anus to finally relax enough to enjoy it but by the time you think you are handling it, your partner cums and you are left with a busted sore ass!
It seems that they left out the fact that not all men (including all races) are hung like a horse. Personal preference seems to be the norm. I list my honest length, and some want smaller, some want bigger, but I seem to fall in the middle and have a fulfilling active sex life.
I just like ’em avg., but with some girth and very appealing, desirable, mouthwatering, beautiful, well proportioned-shaped, colored.
Well, it is a natural phenomenon that Media sensationalizes and distorts everything including this topic. Of course pictures and talk about gigantic penises gets attention just like a side show of “freaks” does. And, in settings of many men, big groups, guys who exhibit and strut with huge dicks do get attention and noticed. People are drawn to them and want to touch and feel them. I’ve done it and been tickled. But, the greatest, saddest and most pathetic complaints I’ve ever heard from guys about their penises (who were not genetically deformed) was from several guys when talking in… Read more »
Not sure what’s going on with size, supposedly the world wide norm is 5 1/2-6 1/2”. Each year the penis size on profiles seems to get larger. So many 8+ listed nowadays. Not sure what to believe. I find 6-7” to be enough.
At 62 and having had some form of sex with a few hundred different guys in my lifetime, I’ve had varying cock sizes like the rest of us. For me personally, a cock is a cock and virtually any of them feel great inside my mouth or ass (versatile here). But there’ve been a couple of exceptions: Two times, I hooked up with, shall we say, seemingly normal-looking guys, but when we got undressed, there were these freaks of nature: cocks that must have measured less than 3″ long. I went through with it both times and easily got their… Read more »
I am not sure if things have changed much. I have an above average endowment and am older. At the bath house if I wear the towel I don’t get much attention. But if I dispose of the towel I get lots of attention. Is it the towel or??? That being said size isn’t that important to me. it is how hot the person makes the encounter that matters.
No. I’ve been having sex with men for close to 50 years. Some guys like big dicks & don’t care what it is attached to. Some guys totally into little dicks. Anything in between is fine for others. Some guys not into dick at all. Taste also changes. Size is no less or more popular. Some guys just voice opinions louder.
How about a real topic like HIV shaming vs personal responsibility. Are we all responsible for keeping ourselves healthy? Are we in a place now where the attitude is “I don’t care I’ll just take a pill.
How ’bout there’s not only one topic for you to click into and comment on?
Only into HUGE HUNG THICK over 8!!!
Color us shocked.
Love horny college boys
The biggest cock the better fuck my holes cum in me
What good is it when it’s too big and it just lays there and he has to use both hands to help put it in because it ain’t rock hard…juts sayin ;0
I think you’re right. Well, I haven’t seen it in real life but in porno looks like that.
You nailed it Michael!!
That’s got to be really frustrating to the bottom guy.
As a vers btm I tend to gravitate to guys with average sized cocks but then always seem to get hit up on by guys who have monster sized dicks.i manage well enough with them but have to admit that there are times I feel like I need Olympic level training to take some of them on.
When I top, guys seem to appreciate that I’m thicker and longer than most. Not a monster, and there are certain guys that simply can’t take it. I try to do my best for foreplay, stretching a guy’s anal ring a bit, lots of lube. And no, it’s not possible. We usually figure something else out. About one in ten find me too large. My favorite lover has a 4″ cock that squirts and quickly. Although he’s bummed at his his size, it works for what I like– a nice clean energetic load. Another guy has a 6″ barrel of… Read more »
I believe many of us think of big dicks as a fantasy.They are beautiful and promising… I love them big and thick but I also love them all no matter what size they are all beautiful.
I prefer smaller to averages penises. Just my preference.
I dont feel SIZE matters in the bedroom as much as it does in the bank account. HONEY. We need more men to have their own places to hook up at and not be asking us for money or cash app. All of these so called big dick guys are always asking for CASH APP or some money to show they can work the dick. I don’t care about big dicks that much anymore because they open your booty hole up too much and you feel like you have a ducks beak in between your booty cheeks after he’s done… Read more »
All good points LOL. I’d report some of those accounts as scammers though.
There were too many size queens online, and unsolicited trade and ask of nude pics. It’s not genetically possible for that many to be “hung” and it turns out these bottoms (who may end up with rosebuds) seem to never be satisfied, to the point you had so-called tops demanding for “hung”
big is fun to play with but in the end no more than 8 inches is ideal anything over that tends to be uncomfortable.
The first time was hurt even just 4″ or 5″, after a while 6″ and after….and after, well the hand can get into hole, well the hole bigger than brain….
There is no such thing as “too big”. The words “it’s too big” have never crossed these lips.
I prefer 9 inches or better and a man that knows how to use it.
Most guys have said that my cock is thick and big enough (about 7″), but I personally like thickness more than length. If a guy’s got a big, mushroom head – I don’t care how long it is. I want it!
Thick and uncut… sign me up. Would take that for hours!
If it can reach my prostate, I am happy as can be.
My preference remains at 6.5 to 8 inches
Big is relative. Once I got my entire hand and and dick into a hot guy and jacked off in his ass. Sublime…
5 to 6 inches is very enjoyable. Agree with Marcus that I too can take it hard and fast with no discomfort…only pleasurable feelings…and I cum virtually every time!
If a guy can use it, it doesn’t matter in the long run. I will say though, a huge cock is fun to play with, suck on, and get bred by, especially if there is a generous amount of foreskin.
Nowhere close to a “monster” cock here and have zero problems finding amazing bottoms. To any younger/less experienced guys out there, relax and have fun. Your dick size doesn’t define you or the amount of action you’ll get 😉
I love sucking big thick cock and shallowing big loads than fuck me in all positions. The last man I had had a 12 inches big head and thick like a beer can, and big balls, took it all in two places and his massive loads I was sire for days and love it
Personally as a bottom I like all cocks. I do have a preference for big cocks when I get fucked! I love being sore and the feeling that I’ve been well fucked for days afterwards