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A Redditor posted a confession saying that he’s a straight guy but he “really wants to fuck a dude’s ass.” 

Naturally, an online argument broke out. Some said the guy couldn’t be straight if he fantasizes about this while others responded with a confession of their own, saying that they were gay but they had sex with women anyway. They explained that having sex with a woman doesn’t make them any less gay and they have a term for it: experimentation. They reasoned however, that if this experimentation becomes “a regular part of their sex life, then that would be something different.” While another person suggested, “When in doubt, fuck. At the end of the day as long as it feels good, who cares? Don’t worry about labels.” Very well said, don’t you think so, too?

In addition, there were also some ladies who confessed on a separate thread that their respective boyfriends/husbands “love butt stuff” like pegging. (According to an online dictionary, pegging is “a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.”) 

Of course, there were also straight guys who admitted that they do enjoy a “little butt play” and that they’ve tried to wear butt plugs and dildos and they loved it. A lot of these guys also admitted that they love the following being done to them: spanking, pegging, rimming, and biting. On the other hand, some straight guys in the thread confessed they have not tried butt plays even if they do fantasize about it because they fear it would make them feel “less masculine.” They even went as far as to acknowledge that they do recognize their fear is “stupid” which is why they hope that someday they’ll find it in themselves to try.   

Having said all that, I guess our question is this: how far are you willing to experiment in the name of sex? Would you have sex with a woman? Would you have sex with a straight guy who wants to experiment with the same sex? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below and don’t forget to answer our survey before you go.


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  1. Mike

    I’ve had a few straight guys in my life. From just sucking them off to having them fuck me. Sometimes a guy just needs a mouth or hole to get off because he’d rather not just JO.

  2. JohnD

    I enjoy being bi. I prefer to have sex with women, but with guys it’s just a different kind of fun. I might be able to be totally faithful to a good-looking shemale, but I’m sure I’d miss going down on a woman.

  3. Eric

    People need to get over it. It doesn’t mean you are gay or even bi if you have sex with someone of the same sex. Some people are experimental and others just need a hole to fuck. I’ve also found that guys that identify as straight and are experimental, want a bj, or need a hole to fuck are hot. Guys that identify as straight and are opposed to anything same sex are usually the most repulsive looking assholes that no one would touch anyway.

    • Ranttrap

      I get you … just like the most bigoted, insanely under-educated guys often claim erroneous correllations based on NOTHING substantive. Queue comparison of looks, personality, and closeted behavior … wake up hollow queers, some times we are our OWN worst enemies

  4. farmdude61

    of course I would enjoy to have sex with a str8 guy. if he wants to try it, and wants to know how it feels, I would do what ever it took to make sure he had a wonderful, joyful, and blissful experiment that he would love to cum back for more.

    • Tim

      Thank you!! I’ve been telling that to my male lover for 12 years. I bottom for him and can suck the chrome plating off of a tow hitch but, he insists I’m straight because I’m married to a woman and love having sex with her I’m so damn fed up with the titles. I loved sex with him and my wife, does that really need a title, explanation or justification?

    • trav

      Poor Clueless Doug. You are wrong. Being “gay” means you’re a man who is attracted to men. A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons. Or guys in prison, etc…. Straight women do girl-on-girl acts for the pleasure of men – even though they are not attracted to women. Sexuality is complex and small-minded guys like you want to put everybody in your stupid little boxes. Your mentality is the reason why straight men don’t experiment more.

      • Jay

        I disagree. Years ago, I sucked off a few guys who were “straight” and they told me that I was hot. While I get what you’re trying to say, by saying that “A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man.” implies that said straight guys are just letting any and every guy give them head. There’s always some sort of attraction towards the guy they’re letting blow them

    • Tom

      A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons.

  5. Charles Graham

    I’m in my 80’s. I have been servicing straight guys since I was 13. If your straight acting, ask no questions, you will be amazed to find out how many straight, especially, married want to be serviced. Further, some women won’t suck cock, let alone swallow, so the husband looks elsewhere for service. And yes, most of these men feel that if they recriporated in any way it would make them gay.

    • Frank

      I Totally agree. I have given many str8 guys blowjobs and they enjoy it because they rarely get it at home. I actually prefer servicing a str8 guy. They appreciate it and they enjoy it more.

  6. Dennis H.

    Sure, I have enjoyed sex with a straight guy, usually married, that wants experiment. My experience has been the men know I’m gay and have known me for a while. Therefore a bit more comfortable vs hooking up with stranger. Most of the time, for me, the first encounter is undressing each other, touching, maybe mutual hand job, maybe a blow job (sometimes mutual) Some have enjoyed and carried the experiment a tad further (usually another time) and others have said “Thank you but not for me”.

  7. Lamar

    “Fucking my ass,” no chance in all of hell or heaven or anywhere between, no, hell no. Now, if we were to ’69’ maybe, but for sure, we could masturbate each other.

  8. David F White

    I fuck who i want, i am gay however i have had sex with females, eaten pussy. I’ve enjoyed mmf 3sumz or fucked women on their own, and right this second i am going to get fucked by my best friend.

  9. Nathan

    Nathan Writes:

    Straight Men do not have sex with Gay Men. Some young boys may experiment out of curiosity which is, usually, adjudicated expeditiously.

    Why we gay males always purport that straight men are superior to gay men is inane. I understand the concept of “Forbidden Fruit” but what is always disavowed is what happens when you ingest such fruit; it goes beyond mere indigestion…sometimes, it becomes poisonous and leads to an unfortunate ending.

    Men are Men…regardless of orientation and orientation, in this respect, usurps, desire.

  10. rlpatt

    I have “experimented” with straight guys before and would do it again. Its not because I have a desire to convert straight guys. I am more self serving. Straight guys want to try new things like anal and butt play which often allows me to be the teacher or guide and I get a better sexual experience than I do when I am with someone who is gay. I don’t get the opportunity often but as I said I am not seeking to convert them, just allowing them to explore their own fantasy and decide what they like or don’t like for themselves.

  11. Bill

    Yes, I would fuck a straight guy, in fact I already have. HE was a good looking married neighbor… we became friends.. we both enjoyed football. He started to come over to my place to watch football since his wife din’t enjoy it.. I had a soft in front of my tv. we would both set on that sofa.. He would lay back and stretch is legs out showing off his big package…Every chance I got I would put my hand on his leg or arm.. He didn’t seem to mind… after a few weekends he finally just came right out and ask. Are you Gay….I was caught by surprise.. Why you asking that I acted as if I were shocked…Because you keep looking at my dick and licking your lips. he was laughing and teasing me…Well, I stuttered out.. you display that big thing how could I not look at it…yea, I did it on purpose to see if you wold look…but, your straight I said..yes, I’m straight…straight guys like blow jobs…my wife don’t know how to suck a dick.. really, my eyes went straight to his big package…HE didn’t have to say more I was down on that big dick…The next week he fucked me.. before the football season was over I was getting as much dick as his wife was…

  12. Hunter0500

    A guy who has sex with other guys is not straight. Simple. Period.

    He may present himself as straight. He may deceive even the proclaimed best Gaydar. He may in no way present stereotypical gay characteristics.

    In reality he is not 100% straight. He’s somewhere on the spectrum, for sure towards the 100% straight end.

    It becomes a joke then when gays congratulate themselves, even brag, that they “got a straight guy.” What they got was a bi guy.

    What this reveals, unfortunately, is how disrespectful many gays have for guys who are bi and guys who do not march lock step to their stereotypical “100% gay”, “true gay”, “real gay”, prescribed behaviors.

    It’s pretty sad when many gays demand tolerance and demand acceptance, but then fail to deliver it to others (straight especially) in return. Behavior that has been noted by posters here numerous times as detrimental to widespread equality.

    • Trav

      Hunter0500: “SIMPLE”? “PERIOD”? Who the f are u? Being “gay” means you’re a man who is attracted to men. A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons. Then there are straight guys in prison who prefer women, but… And why the double standard? Straight women do girl-on-girl acts for the pleasure of men – even though they are not attracted to women and no one questions it. Sexuality is complex and small-minded guys like you want to put everybody in your stupid little boxes. Your mentality is the reason why American straight men don’t experiment more.

  13. Thug

    Come on guys!… connect the dots. When are you going to quit contributing to the homophobia? When do your own words and the conceptual backflips start to make you question your tired old, hateful, worn-out, paradigms? I know titillation sells and you’re just trying to fill your quota of words for publication but you are contributing to the problems we all face.

    • tek

      This point should be enforced more often. No one is going to admit that that the straight guy fantasy (spoiler alert: If you’ve had sex, he’s not straight) and hyping it like this is just another weird form of homophobia.

    • John

      Me too. I have lots of them calling me and telling me when they “can get away from” their wives to come over. One came yesterday afternoon and OMG. He was awesome. I’l let a straight man fuck me any day. For sure.

  14. Dallas

    There’s nothing more stupid than the “sex with a straight guy” topic. Any man who has sex with men, are not straight. Never were and never will be. Those who are curious enough to fuck a man, aren’t straight either.

    Someone who is secure with their sexuality, doesn’t need to experiment to find out. I’m gay. I know i’m gay. There’s absolutely no reason why I feel the need to try fucking a pussy to know that.

    It’s nothing more than a fantasy gay men have, telling themselves that to make the idea hotter.

    • Trav

      Being “gay” means you’re a man who is attracted to men. A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons. Then there are straight guys in prison who prefer women, but… And why the double standard? Straight women do girl-on-girl acts for the pleasure of men – even though they are not attracted to women and no one questions it. Sexuality is complex and small-minded guys like you want to put everybody in little boxes. Your mentality is the reason why American straight men don’t experiment more.

    • Jon

      Being “gay” means you’re a man who is attracted to men. A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons. Then there are straight guys in prison who prefer women, but… And why the double standard? Straight women do girl-on-girl acts for the pleasure of men – even though they are not attracted to women and no one questions it. Sexuality is complex.

  15. Socrates

    I say life is about exploring. Give it a try and see where you land. Maybe you’ll enjoy exploring or maybe you won’t. Give it a try! 🙂 Don’t come to the end of your life regretting what you didn’t explore. In the way of Nike: Just Do It!

    • Sharon

      Well yeah! I can honestly say that I’ve been the 1st guy/CD for only 3 guys! Not sure if they ever went back to women! Lol. Never saw them again. Mostly sex with guys who say they’re straight but like oral from guys! Which brings up a question?…. If you’ve had oral sex or anal sex with another guy, does that still mean they’re straight?

  16. sickofit

    I always tell the curious-but-reluctant straight guys that if you can do it with a woman (e.g. anal top or get blown, rimmed, etc), then “it ain’t gay.” But even if they do something that IS “gay” (suck a dick or take one up the bum) then it doesn’t necessarily mean anything……unless, like the article says, it starts becoming a regular part of one’s sex life.

  17. Mark

    I don’t care if an ass is gay or straight as long as it’s in front of me and available… 🙂 And if a straight guy wants to fuck my ass, more power to him! I don’t care what others label themselves. However I do draw the line at sex with women….ewwwwww! Not that women aren’t nice, but please keep their clothes on! Sincerely yours, Kinsey Six. 🙂

  18. Jershal

    Personally I don’t like hooking up with guys who identify as straight. My reason behind this is because 99.9% of the time they are cheating / fooling around on the wife and/ or girl friend. How do I know this? I know this because they never fail to mention it after we’ve had sex! I also don’t like hooking up with bi guys… that’s a different topic- As for the topic of having sex with a women I can’t and I won’t. Mostly because I’m not attracted to women sexually but I am attracted artistically. “WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL!” I’ve been offered sex a few times by women but politely declined. The main reason is that I’m completely terrified of vaginas. Another reason why I won’t have sex with a women is because I don’t think I could satisfy her needs sexually. As for experimentation, I’m still learning about what I like sexually as a gay man and what I can give sexually as a gay man to another gay man. I can feel the negative comments rolling in It’s all about preference I guess. ‍♂️ A lot of my bi friends say “a hole is a hole.”

  19. Kiejah D.

    I personally wouldn’t have sex with a woman, just because I know sexually it doesn’t do anything for me.

    Now, would I have sex with a straight man? If he was a willing participant, sure! I just wouldn’t chase, trick or trap any man, gay or straight. They’d have to WANT to have sex with me.

  20. Jon

    It’s about pleasure. The mechanics and the labels and the genders involved is immaterial to the experience.

    I am of the place in my mind that for as long as gays have had to work to get the equal footing in the mind of society (and life isn’t fair and it won’t be fair for every gay man or woman, ever), we should take a page from the empathy we have had the chance to develop from our own experiences and apply them to anyone who is feeling the need to explore their sexuality.

    We are all human and in need of connection. It is found in a variety of ways, sex being one of the outlets.

    As for gender, I have fathered 3 kids. I identify as gay. I am of the impression, based on the number of gay parents I know, if you threw a dart in a crowd you would stand a 25-50 percent chance of hitting a gay man or woman who has reproduced.

    So, to the question would I hook up with a straight guy? Yes, if the connection was there with the head above the shoulders. As we age (and I am pushing 60), the quality of the connection is more about the person and what we feel for and towards one another. Courtesy, respect and the desire to be kind and decent in any encounter should be at the forefront of how we approach people. Then we will have a hard time of doing any wrong.

    • R L

      I agree, empathy or excitement, with no hidden agenda, makes for good sexual interaction. Labels are to please the limited mind, and I don’t have to call a guy straight or gay. He does what he does, to satisfy a need or a curiosity or just for fun.
      I look at it like this. A person with parents of two races may call himself mixed, even though he looks more like one race. It’s his choice. An engineer might like to cook, but he isn’t a chef. I might change light bulbs and spark plugs, bit I’m not a mechanic. I might go bowling with a friend but I won’t join my other friend’s bowling league.
      I have had play and sex with straight guys and bi guys, and I treated them like ordinary on the street, or whatever they felt like. We enjoyed our skin time and there’s no need to label it. A guy is entitled to do what he wants without me trying to tell him who he is. I might accidentally turn somebody on to an activity, but I am not converting anybody. That is just a game that I consider part of the reason people think gay guys can be converted.
      In short, fun is fun, friendship is friendship, no need toilet your own drama and attitude on somebody’s simple mutual fun.

  21. john wilson

    would be more than happy to have sex with a straight man from time to time the way i see it its all good and the way i look at it dont matter if you straight or not is all about giveing a man some pleasure and is really nice to save sex with another man from time to time is more about having sex so i really dont matter

  22. Steph

    My class approached this topic when I was studying sexology. There was a fair bit of discussion on the topic but ultimately it settled on an analogy about Human diets.
    No one scrutinizes if the vegetarian if he/she hasn’t been vegetarian their entire life. It’s not scrutinized if a vegetarian is curious about meat, if they’ve never tried it. A vegetarian isn’t scrutinized for consuming foods designed to imitate meat. And if a vegetarian, in a moment of weakness or curiosity tries a hamburger but ultimately decides they prefer vegetarianism, their identity as a vegetarian isn’t undermined.
    Why do we perceive sexual orientation so monolithically?
    Perhaps we make too much of a stink about sexual orientation and identity. But also, I don’t understand the obsession with men that identity as straight within the LGBT community. My experiences usually involved a list of things they wouldn’t do, a lot of teaching (which I loathe), too much teeth, a lack of hygiene and prep, and of course the quintessential verbal nondisclosure. Too much for ultimately always ends up as blah sex.

    • tek

      The analogy to vegetarians is flat out not true or your class is insane. Every vegetarian and vegan I know is more religious about it than the most orthodox. If someone in their clan breaks and eats meat or even acknowledges to be curious it is shamed and treated as blasphemy.

      I do not care who sleeps with who, but allowing someone to claim to be straight that has sex with the same sex, you are feeding into homophobia and stereotypes. The most outspoken “gays” for some reason like to give cover and pleasure to those who would deny our very existence and their desire for us. But then, it gives gay guys an out for not needing to ever worry about commitment.

  23. Teaton

    I think that people needs to lose the labels. period. I don’t care if Bob like to slob on Rob’s nob while thinking of Betty doing him too. as long as they are happy not hurting anyone(unless they ask/beg/was bad and deserved it) who cares?!?

    my sexual preference does not define who i am. i do. for this to even be a topic anywhere shows that there are ppl not secure in their own skin, desires, and/or head.

    i get the fact that there’s a large amount of ppl that have shitty self images of themselves. putting labels on a person will only hinder them. esp those (like me)that dont most dont fit. (im talking bout the gay one esp). so the real question is: why do we care about whos doing who? theres 1 billion things more important that that

  24. Roverbottom

    Nah, they just need to figure it out. Last time a straight guy came onto me, he wanted a blowjob, got what he wanted, freaked out, then punched me in the head, and called the cops on me. They can go ruin someone else’s life.

  25. Bob

    This is what makes me urky… people think they can “convert”, “fool around” etc…. with straight men…. straight men aren’t into guys… 0% If a “straight guy” is into you either for sexual or romantical desires, he’s somewhere on the gay spectrum. He’s either closeted, confused, or curious. But under no circumstance is he “straight”…. the gay community sometimes is soo toxic. Yes…. we all want the cute guy and dream about him being into guys.. but if he’s not…. he isn’t. We just have to accept that.

    If a confused guy wants to explore, i hope he finds a safe and loving environment to experience what he wants and not feel ashamed for participating in gay activities.

    But as gays…. we too need to stop personifying this “straight” conversion and manipulation…. like you won a prize for having “activities” with an alleged straight man.

    It’s ok to admit you’re gay or curious

  26. R L

    I agree, empathy or excitement, with no hidden agenda, makes for good sexual interaction. Labels are to please the limited mind, and I don’t have to call a guy straight or gay. He does what he does, to satisfy a need or a curiosity or just for fun.
    I look at it like this. A person with parents of two races may call himself mixed, even though he looks more like one race. It’s his choice. An engineer might like to cook, but he isn’t a chef. I might change light bulbs and spark plugs, bit I’m not a mechanic. I might go bowling with a friend but I won’t join my other friend’s bowling league.
    I have had play and sex with straight guys and bi guys, and I treated them like ordinary on the street, or whatever they felt like. We enjoyed our skin time and there’s no need to label it. A guy is entitled to do what he wants without me trying to tell him who he is. I might accidentally turn somebody on to an activity, but I am not converting anybody. That is just a game that I consider part of the reason people think gay guys can be converted.
    In short, fun is fun, friendship is friendship, no need to let your own drama and attitude on somebody’s simple mutual fun.

  27. Rick

    In my experience, married men who tell me that they don’t get any at home really appreciate the blowjob and the hole to fuck. I regularly meet this married guy because he has not had sex with his wife for years, at least according to him. Once a guy with a beautiful cock cried after he gave me a facial because he said he had never been sucked like that before, no woman ever swallowed him entirely while moving their tongues and then licked his balls without complaint. I sucked him 3 more times and then he fucked me once and he cried again because he said he didn’t know sex can be that great. I cut him off though because I like a strong dominant top, the crying was a turning off.

    As for the forbidden fruit argument, it can definitely be hot but it can also be easily fleeting. Sex with a man with passion and chemistry can be great, regardless of orientation.

  28. DeHarris

    If you have sex with or get an erection with a female, then u are BISEXUAL, NOT GAY. A GAY MAN CANOT GET AN ERECTION WITH A FEMALE. IF U BUST A NUT IN A WOMANS VAGINA, THRN U ARE BISEXUAL

    • Trav

      Says who? There are many gay and lesbian people have been married to the opposite sex and have always preferred same-sex relationships. They may have been closeted for some reason or another, but managed to be intimate opposite sex . Many 100% gay men have been with women in their life – but they do not identify as Bi. It’s not for you to make judgments. To your point: it’s not that hard to get an erection for most guys. The real sex organ is the mind, not the dick.

  29. BT

    The words homosexual, bisexual, and heterosexual have definitions.

    homosexual noun.
    a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex.

    heterosexual noun.
    a person who is sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

    bisexual noun
    a person who is sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender.

    There are people that are exclusively straight (heterosexual), gay (homosexual), and bisexual. Certainly bisexuals fall somewhere on a spectrum between straight and gay. If a gay man experiments with women he may still end up being gay. If he seeks out and has sex on a regular basis with women, then isn’t he is really bisexual? Maybe he had a period of time of being active with both genders. Say for example, only from age 20 to 25 he had sex with both genders. Then he was bisexual for 5 years of his life. The same holds true about for gay men. if he seeks out and has sex with men as well as women isn’t he bisexual? if only for a period of time then he has a bisexual chapter in his life.

    I would and do have sex with men that have sex with women too. As far as i am concerned they are bisexual if regularly active with both genders.

  30. Smokey

    sure i would cock is cock for me, if u want to put a label on me im bi, love sucking and wallowing MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM……..i have topped a few guys have yet to be topped myself weather he be gay, bi or str8, ………..

  31. Ned

    Gay people are “two spirits” or a man with the spirit of a woman or a woman with the spirit of a man. Str8 men and women have one spirit. My fist love was a str8 boy and I’d never heard the Native American term until my junior year of college and it hit me like a ton of bricks when i realized my fist love would say to me that I was gay and he was not. I LOVE STR8 MEN.

  32. Jay

    Who can count the number of curious or horny guys out there? I get excited when it’s a guy in a minivan because I know he’s likely in high need of attention and they normally are to the point tops. They just pull out their wedding bands when finished and go on their way. A guy parked beside me at the park and I got in his truck and gave him a minute hand job. Didn’t even unzip his pants, just oozed out through the jeans material. Gave him a kiss and left. I can’t believe this is a topic because it’s the most common type of hookup. The separated or road to divorce guys are mostly bottoms. The sweet spot is guys that aren’t getting enough attention but don’t want to leave their situation. I don’t even judge anymore and of course, don’t fall for them.

  33. jj

    Yes but if they are regularly doing it it’s not straight. Sorry but I don’t buy all of this everyone is whatever they say they are stuff. Words mean things.

  34. anonimatovato

    personally if the guy is good looking and willing to experiment, why not? it has to be his choice, i’m not creeping on straight men, but I know deep down they’re not 100 % straight if they’re looking for me lol! I draw the line on that catch feelings, have a gf or married, which is the reason why I rarely get those ‘straight’ dudes nor I chase after them.

  35. Pete

    I suck off a few married guy’s on a regular, they just wanna get blown and that’s where i come in. their wives do not suck dick or just give terrible head

  36. Dan

    To hell with labels. I like sex. Eating pussy sucking dick, rimming ass holes male or female. Fucking pussy or a nice ass or having my ass rimmed or fucked. Guess I’m just a slut

    • Trav

      Really Jerry? What rock have you been living under? Being “gay” means you’re a man who is attracted to men. A man doesn’t have to be attracted to men to get a bj by another man. There are some straight men who are narcissists and get off on knowing a gay dude wants him. There are also male prostitutes, drug addicts, masseurs, etc. who have sex with men for monetary reasons. Then there are straight guys in prison who prefer women, but… And why the double standard? Straight women do girl-on-girl acts for the pleasure of men – even though they are not attracted to women and no one questions it. Sexuality is complex and small-minded guys like you want to put everybody in your stupid little boxes. Your mentality is the reason why American straight men don’t experiment more.

  37. Thomas R. Miller

    I have sex with Men. It means very little to me if they identify as Gay, Straight, Bi, Poly, or whatever moniker they decide to wear. All I care about is the Man in front of me and how we can please each other now. Sometimes, it’s watching a movie while enjoying a glass of wine. Others, it can be a visit to my “playroom/dungeon” for a more intense experience. Pleasure is a pleasure, no matter where you find it. (Just don’t say that to the Religious Reich)

  38. John

    I am a total gay bottom. I am attractive and have a lot of guys asking, especially straight guys. I prefer bisexual or straight men any day. They know what they want and they are usually fantastic at sex. Something about having a man who has experience with women. He knows how to treat you to make you feel feminine and knows exactly how to handle himself in the bedroom, in my opinion. I would choose a straight man or Bi guy any day over a gay man for sex.

    • wesley

      I agree. I recently started playing with a Bi guy. The turn on for me is his masculinity. He is very sensual and attentive. He doesn’t make me feel feminine, though. He makes me feel appreciated.

  39. LuckyBiChucky

    I personally believe that there is no such thing as gay or straight, but we are all bisexual and fall on different levels of the spectrum.

  40. Jim

    Sexually there is a lot I have done in my life with both men and women that started out as experimentation. I have helped other guys explore their sexuality and would absolutely do it again. There is very little I have not tried or won’t within reason of course. Labels should never be something that stops you from trying something that may end up feeling awesome.

  41. Timo

    So…that awkward moment where culturally.
    A lot of gays hate straight white men…but then flock to them.
    Personally no.
    They’re too timid.
    They are built for women.
    The sex has always been 1 dimensional.
    They are too gentle…being with women…mostly.
    You can’t fuck ’em like normal.
    They’re pretty sexually ignorant…especially when they are in unfamiliar territory.
    Hookup…waste of time. Every time.
    That being said…

    Just becasue you like anal….doesn’t mean you are gay.
    Unfortunately Only dudes can really give that good stuff.
    Physiology is a thing.
    I think there are a lot of men out there who enjoy anal but do not enjoy men.
    So, it only makes sense that eventually they’d come graze on the other side.
    Simply becasue the real thing feel’s the best. If that were not the case…everyone would have toys.
    Dudes got a pole and a hole.
    Women only got a hole….admittedly a better one.
    However…I mean…the amount of married men fucking men…perhaps it’s not all–well…I guess there’s more to it. Or maybe they feel similar just enough. Who knows.

    –but the point is…I wouldn’t and from the experiences I’ve already had…it’s just a solid no.

  42. Hart

    I’m a 54-year old ‘Straight-life’ guy. Live with a girlfriend, have an ex-wife etc, been sexual with girls & women since I was 16.
    But……I’ve probably had sex with more men than my ‘out and proud’ Gay nephew – who lives & works in the *deeply* Gay milieu of Fox Entertainment in Hollywood.
    (Boy, would HE be floored if he knew!)

    I usually get along best in bed with other Straight-life Bi men like myself. But have had some very cool sexual/intimate experiences with 100% Gay men too – including one of my profs in college back in the day, who ‘took’ my anal virginity and ‘thank you’ to him for that!

    It’s all one big sexual fun-house if you want it to be: labels only get in the way of sexual self-actualization.
    (To weigh in on what several other posters here have said: if a ‘Straight’ guy’s having sex with you?……..he is by definition not Straight, hello.)

  43. burt

    I don’t mind blowing a horned up straight dude; a lot of them enjoy it because they can fuck face a lot harder with me than they can with their gf/wife.

    As for the “debate” I don’t think it really exists. Gender constructs like gay/straight are broad categories whereas the human sexual response is a continuous spectrum. When it comes right down to it, each of us is a sexual minority of one. So if a guy says he’s straight, then he’s straight, that’s all there is to it. It’s not up to me to tell him otherwise, why would I even think I was qualified to make that judgment better than the man himself?

  44. Ray

    I’m married. straight. Have always found there to be sexy PEOPLE. who cares what’s between their legs or on their chest?

    Connecting is many times more about the needs and emotions that you’re having in the Moment.

    Spontaneous hot sex isn’t about a gender.

    I hook up with dudes because it feels a lot less like cheating and quite honestly it’s FUN Guys are GREAT AT SEX and then say thanks See ya later.

    Not the female take me to dinner -how does she do it? Am I better than her? But me something. Are my boobs perkier? Blah blah blah bullshit.

  45. stat

    Hell Yes! Most str8 guys know what they want, a bj and some ass, probably because they are not getting a bj at home or they just need a release. Well if that is you hit me up and we can get naked when you need some great head and a nice wet hole!!!

  46. stat

    Hell yes I hook up with a str8 guy, most str8 guys know what they want or they are not getting a bj at home and need a nice wet hole to sink into. I’ll be your side piece!

  47. Derek

    It’s refreshing for a change to see so many replies that explain it perfectly and actually understand what being straight or gay is, who you are attracted to, fall in love with, and want to be with at the end of the day.
    Males are constantly thinking about sex and horny during their daily routine. That said males love receiving oral sex. With straight males though to their misfortune women DON’T generally enjoy giving blowjobs, there is no visible enthusiasm which is never a big turn on. It’s like paint by numbers bob your head, jack the shaft, hope he cums soon but not in the mouth as a rule. That or they just don’t know how to do it properly not knowing what feels good to a man.
    So either straight guys know another man would probably give them good head or they’ve imagined it in their minds and being horny seek that out. Or it just falls in their lap through chance where it gets offered to them. After all a mouth is a mouth and they aren’t looking to return the favor just get their nuts off and be on their way again.
    That said my reason for finding straight or married men exciting isn’t like someone mentioned to “convert” them. Far from it. It’s self serving as well because it turns me on giving a straight or married man everything he’s ever dreamed or wanted in a blowjob. I WANT to surprise the hell out of him how good my mouth can make his cock feel and hopefully he will contact me again. It’s the way he responds, the verbal things he just throws out because he can’t help himself saying, or the moaning, or groaning in pleasure.
    Also you don’t know how many straight or married men that have never had their ass eaten before, and totally get off on how it feels when you do it for them. I think the key is I don’t pressure them into experiencing anything they don’t want to. I just let happen what happens and respect their boundaries.
    I do have a few married men I service regularly as well as a straight guy. It satisfies my need and desire to give oral pleasure. Probably would be draining cocks every day if I could manage it to be completely honest.

  48. Bill

    Wow. Lot of opinions on this subject. I can’t say that I’ve been straight since I saw the Jockey ads with Jim Palmer in his bikini briefs. But, I think all that has been said is very polarizing. Can’t we just let people live their lives as they see fit.

  49. sexslav67

    Many of the men I have had sexual encounters with were married and wanted to experience anal penetration because their wives don’t.
    Are they gay? I don’t think so. They just want to try it.
    Although I’ve had repeaters, I still think it’s the thrill that keeps them coming back.
    I welcome those who want to try.

  50. Bob

    Fun post. Loved the one from the guy in his 80s. Very hot. I too have found as long as no one knows, straight men will do men. Does this make them a little bi, probably, especially if it continues to happen. But there are also many sexless marriages and like one of the married men said in another post, with men it’s just sex, they don’t want to date or whatever, they just want the sex. I think this makes it much easier for many married men to be with men, and if they are hot and butch, no one suspects them anyway. I had a very hot married guy once who had not had sex with any man or woman other than his wife since he was 18 or 19. Until he met me. It was fun introducing him to rimming and cock sucking. He was good at it too!! I personally don’t care as long as they are nice guys and like the sex. I have not had a married guy in years though. Like many of these guys said in other posts, a dick’s a dick and if it’s hard even better. Sorry guys, oink oink, a lot of us are just pigs. And u fucking love it.

  51. Ed Cooper

    While I enjoy having a man between my lips, I want a guy who wants a guy. If I have to blow a straight guy, I want the fifty bucks! Just kidding…it’s still $75.

    Seriously, I don’t want someone who thinks that blowing a guy is humiliating. I suck dick because I really like it, because it feels natural, and because I dream about it at night. I want the naked guy in front of me to desire the naked guy in front of him (that’s me, if you can’t work out the geometry). And, if you can get sexually aroused by a naked guy blowing you, you are probably not straight.

    M…


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